“One thread to be found throughout the mother’s approach is that she was desperately anxious, whatever the cost to herself, that her child should have a father and the result of that was that she was willing to put up with the type of behaviour, the type of abuse that most people would have regarded as outrageous. But it did not seem to her outrageous, if she was making that sacrifice for the child. She was also anxious that the father should get himself stabilised and get himself on his feet. Indeed, she made a fairly substantial loan to him which was never repaid, to assist him financially. ”
“….. the court will need to be satisfied first, that the facts go beyond the commonly encountered need for a time to settle to a regime ordered by the court and the all too common situation where there is animosity between the adults in dispute or between the local authority and the family and secondly, that there is a serious risk that, without the imposition of the restriction, the child or the primary carers will be subject to unacceptable strain.”
“Manifestly, if circumstances change – and to some extent there have been fresh developments which I will mention briefly in a moment – it is open to Mr. RF at any stage to go to the court and to demonstrate that he has a case which requires judicial investigation.”