"... I find that while mother's application is not motivated solely by a wish to prevent contact, a wish to be able to control and if necessary restrict contact forms a significant part of her motivation, having regard to the history surrounding contact."
"I have come to the conclusion that mother's plans are over-optimistic and insufficiently researched. The result is that I am unable to find that they are realistic. My observations are founded on mother's plans for providing an income rather than those which relate to her capital position."
"I make the following findings. First of all, if permission is refused mother will be bitterly disappointed because she clearly wishes to go to Argentina. Secondly, despite her postnatal depression (to which I have already referred) mother is in my view resilient, as evidenced by her history since leaving Argentina to travel the world at the age of 22. I also bear in mind that she did not return to Argentina following the breakdown of her first marriage and that she has lived in the United Kingdom for most of her adult life. I also find that the damage to her, if her application is refused, will be a sense of isolation resulting from her having relatively few friends in the United Kingdom. That feeling, coupled with her disappointment, will be distressing for her, and it seems to me that it would not be so distressing as to cause her actual, emotional, or psychological damage. I find that she will adapt to the situation because she has the strength of character to do so. There is no evidence before me to suggest that psychiatric damage will be caused if this application is refused."
"If, on the other hand, permission is refused, they will be living with mother who will be bitterly disappointed. If mother is unhappy it is possible that this will affect the children adversely. I therefore have to balance the harm which will result from a move against the harm which may result if the children stay in this country. If they remain here and are affected by mother's unhappiness - and I find that mother will do her best not to let that happen - they will at least have the consolation of seeing their father as at present."
"... the potential threat to the children's ability to speak English and thus to continue to communicate easily with father."