"I will be absolutely devastated if we cannot carry out our plans."
"We were very struck by the extent to which Mrs [F's] plans for her entire future rest on being allowed to go to Australia. We wonder how far she would be able to accept not being allowed to go there and how far she would blame Mr [B] for this."
"In refusing this application I recognise that there will be an initial serious impact upon the Mother and Mr [F] but I believe this will turn to disappointment which can be managed."
"... even though the mother [would] be greatly disappointed at the loss of this wonderful adventure, it will be accepted when she realises how much harm the departure would or might cause the children."
"I read that, however, as a hope for the future rather than a finding of fact..."
"A general point of forensic interest of contact was thrown up during the course of this case. If, as in this case, there have been Orders by consent with regard to contact, and which have been complied with by the primary carer facilitating contact, may the Court look to see whether the failure to make any question or offer of additional contact may cause concern for future arrangements."
"The failure to make an offer of additional contact can, in my judgment, entitle a Court to look and see whether it believes that proposed arrangements are likely to be adhered to in the sense of the strength of genuine motivation by the providing carer to adhere to the proposed arrangements. [The CAFCASS officer] expressed surprise that there had been no offer of additional contact. The court is entitled to consider this in the light of any findings it may make both as to respect for Court orders, adherence to orders by consent, offers of additional contact if any and my findings with respect to the credit and credibility of the primary carer and/or her new partner."
"I was surprised by the inability of the Mother to answer this question."
"I would have to wonder whether her capacity to act in the best interests of the children is or has been compromised."
"What would be the impact on the mother, either as the single parent or as a new wife, of a refusal of her realistic proposal?"
"In suggesting such a discipline I would not wish to be thought to have diminished the importance that this court has consistently attached to the emotional and psychological well-being of the primary carer. In any evaluation of the welfare of the child as the paramount consideration great weight must be given to this factor."