“[The Upper Tribunal] will need to distinguish carefully a finding of fact from value judgments or evaluations of the relevance or weight to be given to the fact in assessing appropriateness. The Upper Tribunal may do the former but not the latter…”
“I know I’ve done stupid things and have hurt you along the process and my et [sic] my behaviour and actions whether I was drunk or not I never meant to hurt you and I will forever be sorry Would it make you feel better and ease some of your pain to see me behind bars or suffer as a result? If it will, I will go hand myself in. I know it was not okay what I did, drink a bottle of Hennessy and I lost self-control. I am ashamed and will never forgive myself and I didn’t expect to either. All your [sic] asking of me is tough to hand myself in…I’m already in hell so if you think I should be in jail please go ahead and call the police, I will own up to everything.”
“You have no idea the damage rape does” (page 298 of the Upper Tribunal appeal bundle), and on the following page “…it’s the sex and control…The betrayal of you raping me so violently whilst I was pregnant…is too much for me”
“No one should ever treated anyone like that they love. If anyone did that to me, you or kids I will kill them… Alcohol or no alcohol this was evil what I did and sorry doesn’t even cut it.”
“I was drunk, obsessed with anal sex and it got out of control”
“[MM] initially denied it. Shortly after that, he agreed that he had lost control and regretted doing what he had done. Once he had acknowledged what he had done, he became conciliatory and expressed his regret quite a few times after that… He said there were different cultural norms where he grew up and that men had the right to have sex when they wanted it…”