" Many times people have come to the " door seeking my husband because of long standing debts and also the "
" I venture " to think that that is one of the tests which has to be applied: is the conduct " of the wife, unless done for the express purpose of injuring the health of the " husband, innocent in the sense that it is justified or justifiable under the " circumstances? In cases such as refusal of sexual intercourse, or sheer " laziness, or neglect of a child, I think that is conduct which is innocent, so " far as any charge of cruelty is concerned, unless it is done for the express " purpose of causing injury to the health of the complaining spouse "
" Such an " intention may readily be inferred from the fact that it is the natural " consequence of the conduct, especially when the one knows, or it has been " brought to his notice what the consequences will be, and nevertheless he " does it, careless and indifferent whether it distresses the other or not"
" I know the disastrous effect on my wife of what I " have been doing. Probably I could have resisted temptation if I had " really tried. But my conduct is innocent because I had not the slightest " desire or intention to harm my wife. I have acted throughout from pure " selfishness "
" The only time I have any bother is over finance "
" (6) We reject entirely the husband's contention that by looking " after the garden and poultry at Rivenhall he was making a sufficient " contribution towards maintaining his wife and children, thus leaving " him free to devote virtually his whole time to developing his inven- " tion. We consider that a husband in his position in life should as a " matter of course cultivate the garden and do the heavier domestic " tasks, such as carrying coal, and that no husband in his position is " entitled to expect his wife to maintain him in return for such normal " duties. We also consider that on the facts of this case it was the " clear duty of the husband to obtain work, to maintain himself, and " to contribute to the support of his wife and children, and that his " failure to do so was the direct cause of his wife's ill health."
" I do not claim that "
"I do not mean, in saying this, that the " non-cohabitation provision ought to be inserted in the order only " where the wife has proved the convictions for assault or the persistent " cruelty expressly specified in s. 4 of the Act of 1895. It is possible that " a wilful neglect to maintain may be proved to have been accompanied " by occasional acts of dangerous violence, and so justify the inclusion " in the order of the non-cohabitation provision. But I am clearly of " opinion that it is neither in accordance with the intention of the "
" Mere con- " duct which causes injury to health is not enough. A man takes the woman " for his wife for better, for worse. If he marries a wife whose character " develops in such a way as to make it impossible for him to live happily " with her, I do not think he establishes cruelty merely because he finds life " with her is impossible. He must prove that she has committed wilful " and unjustifiable acts inflicting pain and misery upon him and causing him " injury to health."
" It is for me to consider the " conduct itself and its probable consequences; the motives and causes " cannot hold the hand of the Court unless the wife be to blame, which is a " wholly different consideration "
" I do not question ... that he had no intention of being cruel... " but ... his intentional acts amounted to cruelty."
" I do not propose to go into that because I wish to avoid the " discussion of hypothetical cases and because I am of opinion that actual " intention to hurt may have in a doubtful case a decisive importance, and " that such an intention has been averred here. Actual intention to hurt is " a circumstance of peculiar importance because conduct which is intended " to hurt strikes with a sharper edge than conduct which is the consequence " of mere obtuseness or indifference."
" Every such act must be judged in " relation to its attendant circumstances, and the physical or mental con- " dition or susceptibilities of the innocent spouse, the intention of the offend- " ing spouse and the offender's knowledge of the actual or probable effect " of his conduct on the other's health . . . are all matters which may be " decisive in determining on which side of the line a particular act or course " of conduct lies."
" It has " long been recognised that a malevolent intention while not essential to " cruelty is a most important element where it exists."
" I do not intend to try to define cruelty. I doubt " whether any definition would apply equally well to cases where there " has been physical violence and to cases of nagging or to cases where there " has been a deliberate intention to hurt and to cases where temperament and " unfortunate circumstances have caused much of the trouble. But in cases " like the present, the wife's conduct must at least be inexcusable after " taking everything into consideration."
" I have no doubt that the test whether " the conduct was wilful and unjustifiable . . . was an adequate test for what " remained to be decided in Horton's case. What is open to question is " whether it can be taken to be an adequate test in all cases of cruelty " by nagging accusations. I think it is not always an adequate test, and that "
"If instead of using the word 'cruelty' Parliament had " seen fit to use the word ' stupidity ', which in fact is one of the major causes " of divorces, must it be said that the words ' treats his wife with stupidity' " mean either that the man is stupid or that he intends his act to be " stupid."
" It is in my view equally " undesirable—if not impossible—by judicial pronouncement to create " certain categories of acts or conduct as having or lacking the nature or " quality which render them capable ... of amounting to cruelty in cases where " no physical violence is averred."