“When quarrels arise,” she said, “there are generally some faults on both sides, and it is usually the wisest course for both parties to forgive, and, so far as is possible, to forget. This is what I am anxious to do, and it will be a great help and encouragement to me if I find you willing to meet me half way.” and in a subsequent letter she says, “It is my sincere desire to return and to remain permanently with you in your house as your wife, and to discharge all my duties as such faithfully and to the best of my power.”