“May I respectively appeal against the£1,200 penalty for late submission of tax return on the following grounds of personal circumstances which regretfully contributed to the delay. Here is a brief account of my parents’ final years. mum and dad moved to East Saltoun in 2004. My mother had at that stage already had 4 strokes and the stairs in their house in Edinburgh had become too dangerous for them to continue to live there. They bought a house very close to my own, less than 100 yards away and all on one floor. Shortly after they moved we had to get a wheelchair so that Mum could continue to go out in the car with dad and in the next 4 years she became less mobile and needed more personal care. Eventually I was bathing her and helping her dress in the morning and get to bed at night as well as helping with the cooking and everything else about the house. Carers began to come in to make this more manageable as I was becoming exhausted, keeping my own work on the go as well as helping care for mum. In August 2008 she had a fifth stroke which proved to be more damaging than any of the previous strokes. She was taken into Edinburgh Royal Infirmary first then transferred to Liberton Hospital for assessment and intensive therapies e.g physiotherapy, occupational and speech therapy. After three months there they felt they could do no more. My mother could not speak, or move independently and it was unclear if she understood what was said to her. She was transferred to Astley Ainslie for 6 weeks and finally we managed to get her moved to Haddington, our local hospital, which has a unit, like a hospice but not called that, where people who are very seriously ill go and who are dying. She spent her last 15 months there and died there. From the time she first went into hospital, for the months she was in three different Edinburgh hospitals ; I was driving my father in to see her twice a day i.e. a 36 mile round trip twice a day. And was in a state of great anxiety, as you might imagine. Additionally I was looking after my father which was, at first helping him and supporting him but in April 2009 he had the first severe symptoms of what turned out to be bowel cancer which had spread into his liver and so from then on I was increasingly involved with his daily care. Latterly full care, personal and domestic and also helping him visit my mother daily. He never told her he has cancer as he didn’t see what good it would do., so he became thinner and thinner and more and more visibly ill while my mother lay helplessly in bed. Latterly he too had carers at home and this was very difficult as the local council had contracted the home care service to various companies and they seemed unable to get the system set up with any consistency. My dad had dozens of carers and finally I waited in his kitchen till the carer arrived and I would ask each new carer “Will you be coming back again?”
“The only circumstances which we can accept a late appeal is if you have a reasonable excuse for not completing the tax return on time. This reasonable excuse must be an unexpected or unusual event, either unforeseeable or beyond your control, which continued for 30 days beyond the receipt of the penalty notice.”