"I wanted to email you and apologies [sic] for my behavior yesterday. It wasn't just unprofessional it was also unfair of me to say those things to you. Even though there is no excuse for my behavior I thought I would try and explain to you why I acted in such a way."
"I hope you can forgive me and if possible I would really like to speak with you and apologies [sic] in person. I was wrong but I hope you can understand that I am also human and just trying to cope with some pretty crap emotions this week."
"Whatever your week was like it was unkind and not fair to say those personal and slightly hurtful things to me, especially as you don't even know me. Yes it was very inappropriate and unprofessional ! However I am a very understanding forgiving person (hence why I may be a little sensitive) so I can let it go. Believe me I know what it is like to be having a hard time and the effects alcohol can have on people, hence why I am trying to be a little more careful with the drinking. Yes of course I can forgive you as I am not that petty. I am sorry to say it but we think it is a better idea if we continue our working relationship with Chris. Peter [the client's partner] and I feel that it would be a better idea and would be happier with that. No need to apologise personally, lets [sic] just move on."
"BS said that he and CJ had formed a judgement at this point in time. He said that regarding divulging Carolyn's financial affairs, there wasn't sufficient evidence to prove anything. Much of the information was just general knowledge. However, the issue is the alcohol and bringing the company into disrepute and this was proved which meant that AD was no longer working for Aqua Finance Solutions. The appeal procedure was in the handbook. This was all he had to say."
"41. In considering wrongful dismissal it is for the Tribunal to consider whether the Claimant's conduct justified summary dismissal. It is our task to assess objectively and we are, for this part of the case, primary decision-takers - a court of first instance, not a review body. Gross misconduct justifying summary dismissal is conduct which must so undermine the trust and confidence which is inherent in the particular contract of employment that the employer should no longer be required to retain the employee in his or her employment. It is a high hurdle, since the entitlement to contractual notice is a basic entitlement that can only be deprived of an employee in serious cases - gross means gross. 42. The Tribunal has no hesitation in concluding that Miss Daughters' conduct justified summary dismissal without notice. [(1)] She had got drunk and [(2)] abused a client of the Respondent who was also a close personal friend of the owner, majority shareholder and director of the Respondent [(3)]. The Tribunal is also satisfied that on balance of probabilities that Miss Daughters disclosed confidential financial information about Ms Bennett's affairs to the clients causing them and her great embarrassment and that the company was brought into disrepute by her drunken loose tongued behaviour [our italics]. We were tempted to ask ourselves: how can it not be gross misconduct to call a client a cunt and to cause them to leave the bar in tears? We avoided that temptation however, as there might be circumstances, depending on the context and the nature of the relationship, where such behaviour is acceptable, and friendships and business relationships can withstand the articulation of robust language and views. But this is not that situation [our italics]. Miss Daughters acknowledged the severity of the situation at the time in her email to the clients and telephone calls to Ms Bennett and Mr Jones, but has sought to re-interpret events since. Her initial reaction was the correct one - she went too far the comments made could not be unsaid and her actions amounted to gross misconduct. 43. The Tribunal therefore conclude that the Claimant was not entitled to contractual notice on account of her conduct and the breach of contract claim is dismissed."
"44. In considering an unfair dismissal claim - sees.98 Employment Rights Act 1996 (ERA 1996) - it is not however for us to put ourselves in the shoes of the employer and to judge the Claimant's actions for ourselves. It is for us to assess whether the Respondent has a genuine belief, after sufficient investigation in the Claimant's misconduct and whether that misconduct is such as to justify a dismissal. We are entirely satisfied that they did. By the Claimant's own account [(1)] she got drunk and [(2)] abused a client and [(3)] discussed the firm's major client's financial affairs with the other clients [our italics]. There was little dispute of fact between what Miss Daughters said she had said and what the two clients said she had said. On either analysis it amounted to misconduct and on either analysis it more than justified dismissal. 45. There was nothing in the allegation that the failure to provide statements prior to the disciplinary hearing affected the fairness of the decision. Miss Daughters was in full possession of the material facts - from her own account as agreed with Mr Jones after their meeting. The documents that she saw for the first time at the meeting did not add materially to the picture. Where conduct is admitted and the bare facts are not in dispute, then self evidently a claimant has not been disadvantaged and in any event Miss Daughters had time at the hearing to go through the paperwork. Nor was it necessary to go back to the clients to obtain a further account from them. The material facts were admitted and the clients had also given Ms Bennett a full account, which was largely agreed by Miss Daughters. 46. Whilst we shared with Miss Daughters' concern that the appeal officer did not explain his reasons for his decision, on the particular circumstances and facts of this case it makes no difference and does not flaw the dismissal decision. As a matter of general principle, the Claimant was entitled to know why Mr Faulkingham made his decision. 47. The other matter we considered was whether Ms Bennett in her uniquely powerful position as owner, shareholder, Director and major client of the Respondent abused this influence when threatening to withdraw her custom if Miss Daughters was reinstated (see paragraph 28 above). We consider it was an unfortunate matter to put in her statement for the disciplinary hearing. There is an interesting line of authority on the role of third party pressure in unfair dismissal cases (see for example Henderson v Connect (South Tyneside) Limited[2010] IRLR 466 ). In the present case before us however, the major customer was also the financial backer, shareholder, major creditor and director of the company. Ms Bennett's view mattered and it was relevant for the decision-takers to be aware of Ms Bennett's opinion. 48. This case therefore does not fall into the category of unfair third party pressure - Ms Bennett is not a third party in that sense, but in any event this was not a whimsical demand by a third party, but an evidence based reasoned opinion given the undisputed fact that Miss Daughters discussed her financial affairs with other potential clients. Ms Bennett's view is a factor in the general mix [our italics]. We do not allow ourselves to be deflected from the primary problem which was the misconduct of the Claimant. For all Mr Sonaike's skilful advocacy, Miss Daughters' behaviour in the Avalon bar on22 January 2010 , was and had always been the problem and the reason for her dismissal. Her behaviour clearly falls within the areas of conduct, and dismissal was clearly within the band of reasonable responses available to an employee and sufficient procedural safeguards were afforded to the Claimant in light of the facts of this case. 49. We found Miss Daughters to be a highly manipulative individual. She sought to deflect legitimate criticism of her own behaviour into an unjustified attack on Ms Bennett. Her audacious attempt to paint the matter as a personality clash with Ms Bennett and her insouciant attempt to trivialise her behaviour was astonishing. Her suggestion that external mediation would be a solution was a delicious red herring and her arrogant and imperious announcement that she would remain at home on25 January 2010 in disregard of her most basic contractual obligations, perhaps having forgotten that she was no longer owner of the business, was telling. 50. The claim of unfair dismissal is dismissed."
"44. In considering an unfair dismissal claim - sees.98 Employment Rights Act 1996 (ERA 1996) - it is not however for us to put ourselves in the shoes of the employer and to judge the Claimant's actions for ourselves. It is for us to assess whether the Respondent has a genuine belief, after sufficient investigation in the Claimant's misconduct and whether that misconduct is such as to justify a dismissal. We are entirely satisfied that they did. By the Claimant's own account she got drunk and abused a client and discussed the firm's major client's financial affairs with the other clients. There was little dispute of fact between what Miss Daughters said she had said and what the two clients said she had said. On either analysis it amounted to misconduct and on either analysis it more than justified dismissal."
"There was little dispute of fact between what Miss Daughters said she had said and what the two clients said she had said. On either analysis it amounted to misconduct and on either analysis it more than justified dismissal."
"8. In fact, as the matter developed, and as investigations proceeded and Miss Daughters, whether genuinely or otherwise, developed her account of what she had said and what she was apologising for, it has emerged that there were significant differences in the accounts said to have been given by the clients, on the one hand, and by Miss Daughters on the other."
"42. The Tribunal has no hesitation in concluding that Miss Daughters' conduct justified summary dismissal without notice. She had got drunk and abused a client of the Respondent who was also a close personal friend of the owner, majority shareholder and director of the Respondent. The Tribunal is also satisfied that on balance of probabilities that Miss Daughters disclosed confidential financial information about Ms Bennett's affairs to the clients causing them and her great embarrassment and that the company was brought into disrepute by her drunken loose tongued behaviour."
"18. This incident and AD's subsequent behaviour and attitude to it and me, clearly demonstrates a serious breach of mutual trust and confidence and a lack of accountability to the company. As I have stated, this is not the first time I have had reason to talk to Amanda about her behaviour towards clients when she is drunk. I have had to apologise for her behaviour to clients, who happen to be personal friends of mine and had seen her on my recommendation, on several previous occasions, although none were as serious as the current incident. 19. I would like to put on record that I now feel very uncomfortable continuing to use Aqua as my financial advisers should AD be party to any of my details in the future. Should the panel decide to reinstate her, I will, with regret, move financial advisors. I am very concerned at the lack of importance AD has afforded both to her behaviour when representing the company or to the confidentiality of clients' personal affairs and it has come to my knowledge since then that this is not the first occasion she has decided to share details of my finances with others outside her remit as my financial advisor. In the interest of the company, this cavalier attitude needs to be addressed before it becomes part of the culture of the company."