"Don't go fluttering your eyelashes at him, he's gay"
"How is your partner Chris, how is he?"
"Phil, I am getting increasingly agitated messages from the pay offices and alike regarding your work status. If you have been signed off sick since the beginning of September (the last date for which London or Coventry personnel officers have any sick notes) please lodge them immediately. If you have already sent them to someone please confirm who this was and I can investigate what must be a lack of communication. Regards Sharron"
"32…In our view, quite legitimately, did not wish people to discuss his sexuality and he wanted to retain control about how other people learnt about his sexuality in his new workplace. Details about an individual's sexuality are private matters and there is no need for other work colleagues generally to discuss them or comment upon them. We have considered carefully whether this less favourable treatment was on grounds of sexual orientation and asked ourselves why Sharron Kay revealed the Claimant's sexuality to Irene Crothers. We consider that she did so precisely because he was gay and she wanted to inform Irene Crothers of this fact. We do not discount the fact that Sharron Kay also wished to convey to Irene Crothers that the Claimant was unlikely to be interested in a relationship with her. That however was not the only or indeed the predominant reason for her comment: she could for example simply have said that he was unavailable/in a relationship but chose not to but chose instead to inform another colleague about the Claimant's sexuality when there was simply no need to do so. To the extent that we are required to identify a hypothetical comparator, we consider that that would be an individual of a different sexual orientation who was not likely to be interested in a relationship with Irene Crothers. We consider that Sharron Kay would not have revealed their sexual orientation but would have conveyed their likely lack of interest in a different way, not specifically revealing his or her sexuality: for example, he's married/he's attached. 33. Further, we consider that informing Irene Crothers of the Claimant's sexuality constituted unlawful harassment. The conduct was unwanted. The Claimant did not want Sharron Kay to reveal his sexuality to other work colleagues. It had the effect of creating a humiliating environment for the Claimant when he learnt about it. We consider that it was reasonable for the Claimant to have felt that the treatment was humiliating and we do not consider in this regard that he was overly sensitive. "
"…revealing a heterosexual man's sexuality in the work place will not always be directly comparable to revealing a homosexual man's orientation in the work place. For example, in some circles in society the fact that an individual is gay may attract adverse comment or even teasing. Some homosexual men may, therefore, feel more anxious about revealing their sexuality within the workplace than some homosexual men…..We do not consider that the appropriate comparison was between the question asked about the Claimant's male partner, and a question asked of a heterosexual man about his partner. A closer comparison might be between a question asked about the Claimant's male partner and a question asked about a heterosexual man's partner where he might feel a degree of discomfort about that question: for example if they were having an affair (and Sharron Kay knew that fact), and the question revealed that fact. We do not consider that Sharron Kay would have asked that hypothetical comparator that question because she would have been more careful about it, or recognised its sensitivity. She did not however treat the Claimant's sexuality with sensitivity."
"We do not believe that there is a real difficulty here. The proscribed consequences are, of their nature, concerned with the feelings of the putative victim: that is, the victim must have felt, or perceived, [his] dignity to have been violated or an adverse environment to have been created. That can, if you like, be described as introducing a "subjective" element; but overall the criterion is objective, because what the Tribunal is required to consider is whether, if the Claimant has experienced those feelings or perceptions, it was reasonable for [him] to do so. Thus if, for example, the Tribunal believes that the Claimant was unreasonably prone to take offence, then even if [he] did genuinely feel [his] dignity to have been violated, there will have been no harassment within the meaning of the section. Whether it was reasonable for a Claimant to have felt [his] dignity to have been violated is quintessentially a matter for the factual assessment of the Tribunal. It will be important for it to have regard to all the relevant circumstances, including the context of the conduct in question. One question that may be material is whether it should reasonably have been apparent whether the conduct, was, or was not, intended to cause offence (or, more precisely, to produce the proscribed consequences): the same remark may have a very different weight if it was evidently innocently intended than if it was evidently intended to hurt."
"…the trier of fact must keep in mind that each successive episode has its predecessors, that the impact of the separate incidents may accumulate and that the work environment may exceed the sum of the individual episodes."
"Sharron Kay would have conveyed her likely lack of interest in a different way, not specifically revealing his or her sexuality: for example, he's married, he's attached"