"As you can imagine, I feel very bitter about being forced to resign from a job that I very much enjoyed until last March. As I am sure you also understand, I need to protect my future, if only slightly, with one month's money and a glowing reference for future use."
"If you resign, you can have a month in lieu of notice. We wouldn't expect you to work your notice." and he then gives an explanation of the company's policy concerning references, but he said this, "
"I'm still willing to facilitate your return to work and give you as much assurance I possibly could do that you will not receive any poor treatment from anyone when you come back to work." and what, effectively, he is saying is: "