"36 The present case represented one problem among many affecting her. I do not think that resuming the litigation would be likely to have a major long term effect on the overall scheme of things. Indeed, it could be argued that if the case were finally decided one way or another it would help her, albeit possibly after a period of additional distress, to move on. 37 I do not think it is likely that she herself would be fit and competent to conduct the case in the foreseeable future."