"I can realise that using sexual banter to "de-stress" could cause "distress" or further stress a person on receiving end. I am not saying that the women gave permission to me to undo their bra straps. I agree that this is a difference in treatment of a woman as against a man. I can now see that the employer cannot condone "culture" and would be liable. I can see that all the evidence the employers had pointed to me and only me. If they know about it they have to act on it."