"10. We are satisfied that had the applicant, in 1979 and 1980, sat down and looked at the reality of the situation, no doubt assisted by her parents, both of whom had a great deal of experience of RAF life, the applicant would have concluded that it would not have been a realistic proposition for her to have continued after the birth of the child. We have to bear in mind that the applicant had never really been away from the family environment, that during her posting at RAF Finningley, because it was local Service, she was able to live at home. The applicant acknowledged that immediately she returned to base after having had her child, the chances are that she would have been posted and that posting could have been some considerable distance away. The applicant would have us believe that she would have been able to cope with this and able to ensure that her relationship with her child prospered, despite the fact that she would see the child, at best, at weekends and during leave periods and possibly, if the posting were some distance away, only at leave periods. We are not convinced that had the applicant looked at this option realistically in 1979 she would have gone for it.
"The role of the court in making an assessment of damages which depends upon its view as to what will be and what would have been is to be contrasted with its ordinary function in civil actions of determining what was. In determining what did happen in the past the court decide upon a balance of probabilities. Anything that is more probable than not it treats as certain. But in assessing damages which depend upon its view as to what will happen in the future or would have happened in the future if something had not happened in the past, the court must make an estimate as to what are the chances that a particular thing will or would have happened and reflect those chances, whether they are more or less than even, in the amount of damages which it awards."
"10. ... We are not convinced that, had the applicant looked at this option realistically in 1979 she would have gone for it;