“he painted a picture of a recently widowed father wary of bailing out his unsuccessful and irresponsible son. I was totally stunned by all of this and actually felt sorry for him. The mood of the meeting softened and I sensed the chance of compromise. I suggested that with regard to St Serf we should engage a reputable independent expert to assess the value of the work. He prickled a bit and there was a lengthy exchange about the way I did business not being the way he liked to do things but I stuck at it and repeated that I too was of the “old school” and a gentlemen. If we shook hands on being bound by the findings it would be binding on both of us. As he was confident that they would be exonerated and the bills could be proved to be accurate he then readily shook hands on it. The meeting closed pleasantly enough and I showed him to the door.”