“We are the experts, top of our field. The ultimate matchmaking service, with a wealth of experience in matching thousands of members with partners from our international membership comprising of men and women of affluence and influence.”
“Our Members are high net-worth individuals from a variety of unique backgrounds, nationalities, lifestyles, industries … Our Members value discretion and expect a top level of service in exclusive matchmaking, as they do in all the other aspects of their affluent lives.”
“The service provided by the Defendant [ie 70/30] is an exclusive, ‘top of the line matchmaking service’ based on ‘unique psychology matching’, where each member is screened by being asked explicit and detailed questions about what it is they are looking for in a match. This screening for each member is thorough which will enable the Defendant to match an individual accurately to a member of the opposite sex. The Claimant [ie, Ms Burki] recalls being asked questions about herself and also about her preferences for a potential match. These topics included: ◦ her preferred physical features in a man; ◦ her hobbies/the hobbies she would like her matches to have; ◦ her goals and dreams in life; ◦ her preferred age group, race and social status of her matches; and ◦ her desire to have more children in the future. A number of the Defendant’s members were previous clients of Gray and Farrar (another dating agency) who had approached the Defendant after being dissatisfied with the other agency. The Defendant’s clients all led very affluent lifestyles and due to some of the individuals being high profile they preferred to be matched discretely. Therefore, a psychologist in the field would determine an individual’s personal interests and motivations through a series of questions and then create a profile for the Defendant’s database. This was as opposed to an individual exposing themselves to dating individuals who were not specifically chosen. All individuals were deeply committed to the process and nothing was left to chance. The service, at the price of£18 000 (albeit reduced in the Claimant’s case), would not be matched by any other dating agency service.”
“The facts and matters relied on are set above, namely the gist of what Mr Thomas said expressly.”
“… a psychologist in the field would determine an individual’s personal interests and motivations through a series of questions and then create a profile for the Defendant’s database.”
“At this time [ie, March 2013] I wanted more information about the Defendant’s database and so I asked about the ratio of men:women and the types of men on the Defendant’s database. I was told that the ratio of men:women was equal or close to equal. I was informed that there were a lot of men available on the database, who were actively engaged in the dating process. I was also told that the Defendant would vet the male members using its own selection process. This to me proved that the Defendant used credible methods to ensure its members were of the best quality. I was also informed that the Defendant’s male members were ‘wealthy’, led ‘affluent lifestyles’, and ‘had entrusted [the Defendant] with their searches for a suitable match on the basis that [the Defendant] would censor the women they were matched with’. The Defendant also told me that some of its male members were ‘very eligible members with a high profile in society’. This gave me further confidence in the services on offer.”
“The Claimant recalls that Mr Thomas stated: ◦ ‘We have the bachelors you dream of meeting’, or very similar words; ◦ The Defendant could match the Claimant with ‘the perfect man’ based on her ‘exact criteria’; ‘the perfect for you gentleman’ ◦ ‘We offer the crème de la crème’ matches for our members ◦ The Defendant referred to the ‘perfect man’ as being man with whom the Claimant could start a family.”
“15. I recall in April/May 2014, I met with Mr Thomas and I provided him with details of the attributes which I sought in a romantic partner … I mention that meeting because I consider it important to point out that Mr Thomas knew for approximately seven months about the type of male partner I was seeking and at all times he asserted that the Defendant’s database contained a substantial number of men who were ‘suitable’ for me and I would be suitable for them meeting their criteria. … 17. I had a subsequent meeting with Mr Thomas between April 2014 and October 2014. I do not remember the exact date. At that meeting I was shown a selection of profiles of the Defendant’s male members on an iPad. Once again, the men shown to me were very similar to those men shown to me by in March 2013 (sic)ie they appeared to be successful, wealthy and genuinely seeking a romantic partner. After that meeting, I believed that the Defendant’s database contained eligible men of whom I was interested in meeting with (sic) and (as I was led to understand by Mr Thomas) were also interested in meeting with me.”