“(73) We were told orally that within months the matter was handed over to the police for investigation. The defendant was interviewed by the police in December 2007, and by early 2008 the claimant was aware that no proceedings were taken. Two years later, the application for permission to commit the defendant for contempt was made. In my view this information should have been provided in writing. (74) I have no doubt that the delay in this case is such that the application should be refused. To permit the application would, in the circumstances of this case, now be oppressive”