"she was a tough cookie. She would have coped with it"
"throughout the entire meeting Dr Al Muhairi was shouting and ranting at me saying HR were just administrators and paper pushers and criticised them for not being able to reduce staff numbers"
"HORRIBLE MEETING - RAISED VOICES & I WAS COMPLETELY SHOCKED BY HIS ACCUSATIONS. STILL DID NOT TELL ME WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS."
"As the information is personal I would like to see Dr Al Muhairi confidentially. Can I please have a time ?"
"Dr Al Muhairi has asked that that you kindly send this information to him in a sealed envelope marked for his personal attention and it will be opened by him only."
"The whole occasion was a disaster. Everyone was down. I felt that Dr Al Muhairi had deliberately orchestrated an atmosphere to ensure that the lunch was ruined and to further cause me distress."
"To then find that you have requested my sickness records without reason and furthermore, would not meet to discuss any concerns you may have was what we would call "adding insult to injury"
"there was a general realisation that I was the target of Dr Al Muhairi's behaviour which no one else was being subjected to on a continual basis"
"Recruitment requests were, as always, on the agenda. When we got to this agenda item Dr Al Muhairi without looking up said “Sandra, what is happening in HR these days? Who is in HR these days?” Plainly this was intended to be a non specific generalised question incapable of any proper answer and nor, even had I been given a opportunity would I have been able to respond other than ask for clarification on exactly what it was he was referring to. I knew it was pointless and so I simply began to provide an overview of everything that was happening in HR. The whole thing was ridiculous and everyone else realised that to be the position..... Dr Al Muhairi was not in the slightest bit interested in what was happening in HR and before I had got very far he interrupted by saying “Who is in the Department, do I need to go to Nahid? Is it only Nahid that is running the Department?” He said he had needed information on the redundancies for the Board - “Who would provide this, is it Nahid?” I said that I was unaware that he had requested any information on redundancies (to my knowledge he had not asked anyone) but if he could let me know what information he was seeking, I would personally ensure he had what he required by the close of business that day. He said, “You were busy with the Mike Gallagher case” impliedly accepting that he had indeed not asked me for such information. I had in fact discussed with him not long previously and sent him a memo regarding the situation in HR with regard to extended sick leave and the cover I had put in place to accommodate these unforeseen circumstances the meeting agenda and memo of the 8th and 9th of August (188-189). In addition, outside of this meeting he had previously asked me to have Nahid’s notice of resignation withdrawn and blamed me for not paying her enough. Abruptly Dr Al Muhairi brought Matron into the conversation by saying that she never took her annual leave. This of course had nothing whatsoever to do with the issues he was raising. It was a deliberate public jibe aimed directly at myself. Dr Al Muhairi had not mentioned a thing about HR or the information on redundancies on the Monday, 21st August when I had seen him in a meeting. He kept on mentioning and making reference to holidays and went over and over again the same questions about HR. I could not satisfy his query whatever I said. His behaviour towards me was so reminiscent of his behaviour towards my colleague Mike Gallagher on26th April 2005 . I began not to hear what he was saying. I was not really in any condition to listen. Others tried to intervene to get him to move the conversation on as it was going round in circles. I felt at breaking point. I found myself standing up picking up my papers. I recall saying, “I have done everything I could in the circumstances to ensure everything was covered in this department and I am sorry that this has not been good enough”. I then left the room in tears. I felt publicly humiliated. I got increasingly distressed as I returned to my office. After I left the Boardroom I returned to my office in a very distressed state. I kept repeating that I was not going to let this man destroy me anymore. The events of that morning were, if you like, “the straw that broke the camel’s back” and I found myself packing my belongings to leave the office. However, Annie tried to persuade me not to go as I was in not fit state to drive at that time. Annie was very supportive. Fortunately, one of my Senior HR Consultant colleagues Mr Phil Garrard ...... was very concerned about the state I was in. He was insistent that I call my GP for an immediate appointment which I did but was unable to get an appointment till the next morning. I calmed down a little and he asked if I wanted to see Dr Al Muhairi. I could not face this but instead did a letter to him with Phil’s help .."
"Despite my best efforts to explain the situation to you in the meeting I felt that your intention was to humiliate me in front of my colleagues. Your refusal to accept any explanation I gave created a situation where I could no longer cope with your behaviour towards me. I felt sick, anxious and distressed to the point where I had to leave the meeting. You are aware that there have been several instances where I have found your behaviour towards me unacceptable. I have felt undermined and bullied by you over a period of time and today's event has caused me further distress to the point where I am finding it difficult to focus on my work. I intend to see my General Practitioner today or tomorrow and I will let you know the outcome."
"It was, of course, not my intention to cause you anxiety"
"The reason for referring her is connected with her work at The Cromwell, where she has found herself in an antagonistic situation with her immediate boss, and this has now reached the stage where she has been signed off sick for the last six weeks with work related stress. There are a large number of issues that need to be talked through, but as things stand at the moment it seems to me unlikely that she will return to this job where she has worked for many years, and as a consequence is suffering a kind of bereavement reaction."
“...she is very much at a crossroads with regard to her career and whether she will get over this trauma, to return to her existing job. I have asked her to leave all these questions aside for the time being...”
“Over several months, Mrs King had developed symptoms of a moderate to severe depressive episode. When she came to see me she had been complaining of a major sleep disturbance, tearfulness, inability to cope both at work and at home, marked symptoms of anxiety and tension, had lost all confidence and felt extremely undervalued at work......Other presenting features were excessive tiredness, lack of motivation, extreme guilt and a sense of worthlessness.”
“It also seems that Sandra was reaching a point of “burn out” under pressure long hours big responsibilities.”
"Relationship with G - usual up and down. Not too bad on hols as we were so busy. New Years Eve brought it back home - especially when you see couples together as it were and as usual the evening had started with a row. Problems over the holiday money now which will put us back on the pre holiday footing. My Flirty friend is still around but I am trying not to reciprocate - wonder how long that resolution will last !!!!!!!!!! "...One encounter with the F Friend - seems a bit removed and not too close - thankfully. I do not think he got the response he wanted to a work problem so is a bit distant - which is better really"19th July 2005 to Wendy Baker, a former secretary : "
“The ideal outcome would be an apology. Why can’t they be human ? I just want respect for what I did at the hospital. The same respect I showed people has not been showed to me. They have been so disrespectful to me. They actually did destroy me....”
“Thus, in my view, although section 7(2) provides that harassing a person includes causing the person distress, the fact that a person suffers distress is not by itself enough to show that the cause of the distress was harassment. The conduct has also to be calculated, in an objective sense, to cause distress and has to be oppressive and unreasonable. It has to be conduct which the perpetrator knows or ought to know amounts to harassment, and conduct which a reasonable person would think amounted to harassment. What amounts to harassment is, as Lord Phillips said, generally understood. Such general understanding would not lead to the conclusion that all forms of conduct, however reasonable, would amount to harassment simply because they cause distress.”
“Courts are well able to separate the wheat from the chaff at an early stage of the proceedings. They should be astute to do so. ....where the ....quality of the conduct said to constitute harassment is being examined. Courts will have in mind that irritations, annoyances, even a matter of upset, arise at times in everybody’s day to day dealings with other people. Courts are well able to recognise the boundary between conduct which is unattractive, even unreasonable, and conduct which is oppressive and unacceptable. To cross the boundary from the regrettable to the unacceptable the gravity of the misconduct must be of an order which would constitute criminal liability under section 2”
“.......it seems to me that since Majrowski, courts have been enjoined to consider whether the conduct complained of is “oppressive and unacceptable” as opposed to merely unattractive, unreasonable or regrettable. The primary focus is on whether the conduct is oppressive and unacceptable, albeit the court must keep in mind that it must be of an order which “would sustain criminal liability.”
"..unreciprocated and/or unwelcome comments, looks, actions, suggestions or physical contact that is found objectionable and offensive and that might threaten an employee's job security, or create an intimidating working environment. Harassment is particularly liable to occur as part of sexual racial, religious or sexual orientation discrimination."
“I would summarise the position in relation to cumulative cause cases as follows. If the evidence demonstrates on a balance of probabilities that the injury would have occurred as a result of the non-tortious cause or causes in any event, the claimant will have failed to establish that the tortious cause contributed. Hotson exemplifies such a situation. If the evidence demonstrates that ‘but for’ the contribution of the tortious cause the injury would probably not have occurred, the claimant will (obviously) have discharged the burden. In a case where medical science cannot establish the probability that ‘but for’ an act of negligence the injury would not have happened but can establish that the contribution of the negligent cause was more than negligible, the ‘but for’ test is modified, and the claimant will succeed.”
“The threshold question is whether this kind of harm to this particular employee was reasonably foreseeable : this has two components (a) an injury to health (as distinct from occupational stress) which (b) is attributable to stress at work (as distinct from other factors).”
“It is not easy to make good the cause of action embarked upon by Mr Garrett in this case, a claim in negligence for damages for injury, loss and damage sustained consequent on work-related stress. Many, alas, suffer breakdowns and depressive illnesses and a significant proportion could doubtless ascribe some at least of their problems to the strains and stresses of their work situation: be it simple overworking, the tensions of difficult relationships, career prospect worries, fears or feelings of discrimination or harassment, to take just some examples. Unless, however, there was a real risk of breakdown which the claimant's employers ought reasonably to have foreseen and which they ought properly to have averted, there can be no liability.”
“It is not enough for employers to have foreseen stress; it must be foreseen that illness would follow. Overwork of itself is likely to lead to stress. It is altogether less likely to lead to the breakdown of the stressed employee's health. For that to be foreseen, the claimant will generally need to establish, not only that the employers knew that he or she was being overworked, but, in addition, one or other of the following circumstances: either (i) that the employers knew that the individual employee was, for some reason, particularly vulnerable to stress induced illness; or (ii) that the claimant was manifesting clear signs of some impending harm to health before eventually illness followed.”
“Risk assessment (a) there is reason to suspect that it is no longer valid; or(b) there has been a significant change in the matters to which it relates; and where as a result of any such review changes to an assessment are required, the employer or self-employed person concerned shall make them.”
“If the court finds that the Claimant experienced significant marital difficulties then this, combined with the stress of raising an autistic son with associated behavioural difficulties and her other medical factors, would have caused clinically significant symptoms of depression in the absence of any alleged mistreatment at work.”