“Maybe I am ruining it all but I simply don’t know how to change it? Since there is nobody I can speak open with about our relation (you’re married, I need to be discreet) I can’t ask not one close one for advice. You don’t talk to me neither about my feelings… anyway I am fed up of the crying, lying to the people around me and not being able to talk honestly… now I can’t carry it anymore, I am fed up lying to [her daughter]”21 September 2010 : “Can you fill in authorisation card or you want to book it for discretion reasons on my card!?...” 20 November : “… I loved you a lot and still love you but the way you have treated me is not correct… have a very nice weekend with your wife and remember that I have always been extremely discreet about our relations so you can continue playing your “happy life”..14 February 2011 “Subject: Valentine’s Day!... I never loved anyone like you … its not that I don’t respect or love you. I have enormously respect for you and my love never went away. I am just the wrong type to be put in this type of personal relations. My character is too strong. I want things in return “presents, time, notes” without this there is no way I will play the discreet sex mistress…”
“For your info I kept all mails since March 2010 till now 2012 … As well did I keep the pictures from … 2010, I even have pictures for you at the … private viewing in … and your girlfriend. Is that really what you want to make me an enemy…”
“… Due to this you can add another point on your listA CAR A Range Rover can be second hand not more than 1 year old in excellent condition …”
“[the Claimant] is forthwith withdrawing as an investor in [the Defendant’s Company] and accordingly: 1. He undertakes to leave any investment monies already paid with the Defendant’s company and there shall be no return. 2. Undertakes to pay [the Defendant] and her company… the sum of£350,000 in instalments of£50,000 per calendar month commencing24 May 2012 and thereafter on 24th of each month up to and including24 November 2012 ; 3. The parties agree that the first two instalments should be payable to the bank accounts of the company and of the Defendant personally are identified. 4. [The Claimant] also undertakes to pay [the Defendant] a salary of€5000 per month for three months commencing1 June 2012 by way of [ bank details are given]… Confidentiality 4(1) [The Defendant and the Claimant] wish each other to be bound by confidentiality clauses in respect of their relationship generally, their businesses and this agreement. (2) It is expressly provided that there is no question of blackmail in this matter and each party is entering into this agreement of their own free will. (3) Neither party shall, except for the purpose of obtaining legal advice, disclose to any third party: a) the terms of this deed: b) any confidential information or documents relating to the other’s private life or business affairs; c) any details of their relationship whatsoever; d) any information given by or on behalf of the other; e) and to take all reasonable steps necessary to prevent these being disclosed to any third party. (4) Both parties shall be restrained from publishing or broadcasting in any newspaper, magazine, public computer network, website, sound or television broadcast or cable or satellite programmes or permit a third party to do so on their behalf any details of their relationship, business affairs or this agreement. (5) The confidentiality clauses in this Deed shall apply worldwide. Legal Advice (5) The parties have each taken separate and independent legal advice on the matters referred to in this Deed and intend that it shall legally bind them. Legal Fees (6) [The Claimant] undertakes to discharge [the Defendant’s] legal fees for obtaining and drafting this agreement and any negotiations thereto by24 May 2012 . (7) [The Claimant] undertakes to indemnify [the Defendant] for any tax due on the transfer of the£350,000 lump sum and the€5,000 per month salary”
“You can call the lawyer today. And mail/call her regarding your amendment. The 24th is deadline. I don’t worry regarding the case you have against me. You know its bullshit. As you know… it would bring other “secrets” up pursuing me in court showing mails…”
“I haven’t received a proof of payment today… if I will not receive anything within the next couple of hours. A mail will go out to all your company addresses…”
“ … you refused to pay my salary… all journalists in … know that you have a big problem. At 16.00 your time I need to give my approval on the article. I don’t want it to come so far! You have also been good for me in the past year when we had an affair that’s why I suggest. … Please transfer what is mine and lets split our ways. You know like me that this press article will create a lot of shit for you because everything you want to hide is coming out in public which will have a devastating effect in many ways …”
“… we both would like to close on this ongoing fight since if we don’t stop it will surely have a devastating effect. [The Claimant] is aware that I have to give my approval on some press articles regarding what happened for the same reason in … he thought that it was a lie and that I just said it to put pressure … I don’t have any problem showing the email correspondence with the press to…my lawyer… his issue is what he wants guarantees that I don’t go to the press, his wife and speak about our past or even what happened in … I suggest by latest tomorrow that a mail will be sent that the first instalment will be in the account by Wednesday next week. Salary is to be transferred tomorrow. I want this confirmation before the end of Thursday 31 May 16.00 … time. If not then I don’t want to proceed with the contract and I continue my own things.”
“I have, thus far, been able to explain the message away as malicious”, [for a reason he states, and he continues] “I am concerned that any future contact might lead my wife to suspect there is truth to the allegation. This will in turn cause many problems and much distress for me and my family….”
“where the complaint is of the wrongful publication of private information, the court has to decide two things. First, is the information private in the sense that it is in principle protected by article 8? If no, that is the end of the case. If yes, the second question arises: in all the circumstances, must the interest of the owner of the private information yield to the right of freedom of expression conferred on the publisher by article 10? The latter enquiry is commonly referred to as the balancing exercise, and I will use that convenient expression. I take the two questions in turn. Some aspects of the jurisprudence overlap between the two questions, but it remains necessary to keep the underlying issues separate.”
“Nothing in this sub-paragraph shall prevent the Defendant from … (4) disclosing the information for purely private and personal purposes and in confidence, that is on the express understanding that there will be no further disclosure of the information), to closest friends, their immediate family and professional advisors.”
“Subject to further order of the court or the agreement of the parties, the Defendant will not contact the Claimant, whether in writing (including by email and SMS) or by telephone or otherwise. This undertaking will not apply if the Claimant or any person on his behalf contacts the Defendant. For the avoidance of doubt, this undertaking does not prevent any communication from the Defendant’s authorised legal representatives.”
“(a) use publish or communicate or disclose to any other person (other than (i) by way of disclosure to legal advisers instructed in relation to these proceedings (the ‘Defendant’s legal advisers’) for the purpose of obtaining legal advice in relation to these proceedings or (ii) for the purpose of carrying this Order into effect) all or any of the information referred to in Confidential Schedule to this order (the ‘Information’); (b) publish any information which is liable to or might identify the Claimant as a party to the proceedings and/or as the subject of the Information or which otherwise contains material (including but not limited to the profession or age or nationality of the Claimant) which is liable to, or might lead to, the Claimant’s identification in any such respect, provided that nothing in this Order shall prevent the publication, disclosure or communication of any information which is contained in this Order other than in the Confidential Schedule or in the public judgment of the Court in this action.”
“1. whether a non-disclosure order which does not merely protect extra-marital infidelity, but which is primarily aimed at assisting one spouse to continue deceiving the other, is at least presumptively inappropriate, and/or brings the administration of justice into disrepute. This is not a question of moralising about adultery, but whether the court should make orders whose primary purpose is to assist in a deception. There is an analogy with cases concerned with correcting false public image; and/or 2. whether there is a reasonable expectation of privacy where a defendant has entered into a serious relationship with a married claimant in the apparently mutual belief that the claimant is no longer committed to his spouse and the claimant then changes his mind.”
“The modern law of privacy is not concerned solely with information or “secrets”: it is also concerned importantly with intrusion. That is one reason why it can be important to distinguish between the way the law approaches public domain arguments in relation to commercial or state secrets, for example, and that which is appropriate to personal information. It also largely explains why it is the case that the truth or falsity of the allegations in question can often be irrelevant.”
“…The position of the appellant's wife is equally clear: she opposes publicity. Then there are the children. The purpose of the injunction is both to preserve the stability of the family while the appellant and his wife pursue a reconciliation and to save the children the ordeal of playground ridicule when that would inevitably follow publicity. They are bound to be harmed by immediate publicity, both because it would undermine the family as a whole and because the playground is a cruel place where the bullies feed on personal discomfort and embarrassment. In another context, in Beoku-Betts v Secretary of State for the Home Department[2008] UKHL 39 ; [2009] A.C. 115, Lady Hale commented at [4] on the risk of: "… missing the central point about family life, which is that the whole is greater than the sum of its individual parts. The right to respect for family life of one necessarily encompasses the right to respect for the family life of others, normally a spouse or minor children, with whom that family life is enjoyed.”