“I regret to have to inform you that your son was involved in some very unpleasant behaviour at lunchtime on Friday. [U] was in a group of five boys who harassed two girls. As a gang, they have admitted that they took one of the girls’ shoes and bag, pulled one of the girls’ skirts up, threw and kicked plastic bottles at them and hit them. Obviously such behaviour is totally unacceptable. Consequently I am isolating [U] for two days. Any repetition of such behaviour will be dealt with most severely.”
“I recall that Natalie was very good friends with [L] and [H]. At some point I recall Natalie coming to me complaining that [L] and [H] were being horrible to her. She said that they were picking on her and whispering about her. I spoke to [L] and [H]. They told me that whilst Natalie had been going out with [L] she had said unpleasant things about [H]. Whilst Natalie was with [H] she was saying unpleasant things about [L]. As I recall, the issues involved things like family, clothes and personal habits. [L] and [H] realised what had been going on and had fallen out with Natalie. I got all three of them together to talk, confront each other and be honest. I recall that there were lots of tears. I left them alone together as well. I would describe [L] and [H] as honest, reliable, responsible and trustworthy. [L] responded to my efforts and was inclined to be friendly towards Natalie although not friends. [H] was prepared to let the issue rest, though did not really wish to resume any friendship with Natalie. Natalie found it difficult to accept that she had been horrible to her friends and that she bore some responsibility for the situation. She became isolated and felt that she was being talked about by her peers.”
“I have discussed the situation regarding Natalie with Mr Lefley, Head of Year 8, and have considered all the options. At present there are no vacancies in any of the Year 8 Tutor Groups. Should any Year 8 pupil transfer to another school and another vacancy becomes available we can re-examine Natalie’s situation. In the meantime, it is clearly in Natalie’s best interests that she return to school and continues her education. I am confident that if Natalie can grasp the nettle and confront the problems in her relationship with other pupils in her form they can be dealt with swiftly and effectively. Natalie’s Form Tutor and Mr Lefley will endeavour to give her all the support necessary to accomplish this.”
“I cannot envisage how this situation arose as up to the previous events she was happy at school and her work was first class. It has now gone on for over two months and apparently after our meeting, which I now realise was a great mistake on my part in making it during school hours, the word has gone about and it is now not only her own class but others ignoring and taunting her. Due to these circumstances it would obviously be futile to even try to replace her into another class…. I appreciate your time and effort to resolve the problem and attach no blame on the school or it’s methods and your judgment. I fully understand that this particular situation is beyond anyone’s control…. I would thank you for the standard of education you have given her so far and hope that the last few months will be erased by the earlier happier part of her schooling.”
“On admission Natalie said she had been feeling unwell for approximately 1 year. Prior to that, she had felt fine and did not think there were any problems. Her difficulties began when she had had an argument with two of her best friends and after that in January 1996, she was severely bullied at school. There was much verbal bullying, which she found very distressing. There was also one specific incident, which she had found extremely traumatic. Five boys pinned her against a wall and touched her inside her clothing and up her skirt. She had been very shocked by this, but did manage to tell her head of year about it. Her head of year did not seem to take the problem seriously and at one point Natalie thought that the teacher implied it was somehow her fault. At the time of the assault she was with a friend and there was also a dinner lady who Natalie thought could see what was happening. Neither her friend nor the dinner lady gave her any support or help. The boys involved were suspended for just three days but on returning to school they were again verbally abusive to her. When Natalie told me about these incidents she became extremely upset and tearful. She said her parents kept going up to the school, but the headmaster did not wish to discuss what had happened and the school were not helpful or supportive.”
“Natalie reports that her problems began in December 1995 when she was assaulted by five boys in the playground at school. Natalie was attending Valentines School in Gants Hill at that time. She said that the boys grabbed her legs and arms and pinned her against some railings and then touched her in her “private parts” through her clothes. Natalie says she was stunned by the assault and by the lack of intervention by friends who witnessed the attack. She subsequently told her teacher and the boys were suspended for two days. However, she did not report the assault to her parents at that time. From the beginning of 1996 Natalie began to be bullied in general at school. She says she was ignored by her previous friends and left out of all activities. ”
“I began pleading with them for them back and I remember calling out to two dinner ladies, who were about 50 feet in front of me, asking them to tell the boys to give me back my trainers, and they just stood and laughed and carried on talking. I managed to grab my trainers back, next thing I know I was being held by the boys by my legs and arms against the railings behind the trees and one by one the boys opened my skirt and felt inside on top of my undergarment. I tried to fight back to free myself and to try and shout for help, but the words would not come out, and my body felt numb and my throat really dry. This all lasted for a few minutes and I looked around me for help and saw people feet in front and just wished that someone would turn around and see what was happening. I managed to free myself, and the boys kept trying to trap me. ….I then remember [running] as fast as I could to the head of year’s office on my own and reporting the incident to Mr Thompson. I told him what had happened and he made notes. He then told me about three options I could choose from to punish the boys, they were (a) tell the police, (b) tell my parents or (c) punish the boys. I remember telling him to punish the boys, because I was still in deep shock and very distressed and confused, I did not know what to do. I did not choose the police option because I was frightened if the police did get involved I was scared the situation would be made worse and the boys would try and do something even worse to me, the reason above also concludes the reason I did not report the incident to my parents. Mr Tranter was not present at any time of the matter, only me and Mr Thompson. During and after the assault took place [L] was not present, she was at choir practice which took place on Friday lunchtimes every week. I remember being asked by Mr Thompson if the third option was what I wanted and I said “Yes”
“On the day in question I was in the playground during lunchtime when five male pupils from my class [A], [U], [O], [J] and [M] pinned me against railings and touched me inside my clothing and up my skirt. The incident lasted as far as I can remember, for some minutes and I was so frightened during the incident that I found I couldn’t talk or scream out for help. However, I thought that one of my friends, [H] and a dinner lady whose name I cannot remember, were nearby but they did not come to my assistance. I finally managed to free myself and ran to tell my head of year teacher, Mr Thompson. I explained to him what had happened and he gave me three choices about what to do. These were (a) that he could telephone the police, (b) that he could telephone my parents or (c) that he could punish the boys.”
“Both Mr Thompson and Mr Tranter state that they considered carefully the possibility of it having been a sexual assault, before deciding that it was not. The fact that Natalie’s skirt had been flicked open momentarily during the course of the incident did not, in their judgment, constitute a sexual assault and Natalie herself did not claim that it was. On the record of the incident, which was made at the time, I believe that this judgment was reasonable. The conclusion Mr Thompson did reach was that the boys had behaved badly and unacceptably. Their teasing and harassing of Natalie and her friend had gone beyond the limits of high spirits or fun and he decided to impose sanctions which would be proportionate to the misconduct and sufficient to impress upon them the unacceptability of their behaviour…. The Claimant states that she believed that Mr Thompson should have written to her parents about the incident. In fact he advised her to tell her parents, which she said she would do. He also told her that he would be happy to see her parents if they wished to discuss the matter. Mr Tranter’s recollection was that the two girls had told him subsequently that they had told their parents. I consider Mr Thompson’s decision not to write to be reasonable. He was entitled to think that this was a “one off” incident in which no one had been hurt and that his disciplinary action would be sufficient to close it. On the facts before him it was not a matter which should have caused her parents deep concern and a formal letter might have given it greater significance for them than it merited. It was reasonable to infer from the fact that no further comment was received from Natalie or from her parents that Natalie regarded the incident as closed and wanted no further fuss made about it. I believe that the conduct of Mr Thompson was entirely consistent with what one would expect from a teacher in his position, and that the actions which he took, including the sanctions imposed, were reasonable and proportionate in relation to the facts which he states were available to him.”
“[37] We would add that in all these cases it is necessary to identify with some precision any breach of duty found. It is also important to consider whether the steps proposed would have been effective in preventing the bullying. It is not enough to find that there has been bullying, to find some breach of duty, and then to find that the bullying caused the injury. There must be a causal connection between the breach of duty and the injury. That will often be difficult to prove. [38] There is no magic in the term bullying. Any school has to have sensible disciplinary policies and procedures if it is to function properly as a school at all. It will no doubt take reasonable steps to prevent or deal with one-off acts of aggression between pupils and also recognise that persistent targeting of one pupil by others can cause lasting damage to the victim. In seeking to combat this it is always helpful to have working definitions such as those contained in the documentation we have seen. The problem is now well enough recognised for it to be reasonable to expect all schools to have policies and practices in place to meet it; indeed, this school developed just such a policy in 'Working Together'. We agree that such policies are of little value unless they are also put into practice. But in order to hold the school liable towards a particular pupil, the question is always whether the school was in breach of its duty of care towards that pupil and whether that breach caused the particular harm which was suffered. ”