"My Dad died far too soon. The impact of losing him, caring for my mum and trying to hold my own family life together has left me feeling broken at times. While I continue to do my best to move forward, the effects of his illness and death remain with me every day."
‘When is the dependency valued - at the date of Dennis’ death in October 2025, or an earlier time ?’
"Dennis attended to all the household chores. He attended to the garden, he would oversee all Eileen's appointments, arrange hospital transport for her as it was too difficult for her to manage to walk to the car and for him to transport her. He attended to all the household administration and finances and he provided her with all necessary care, including cooking meals, overseeing and ordering medication, assistance with positioning, fetching and carrying, washing and dressing and care at night as well as during the day."
"In addition to all the housework and cooking and shopping, I was the main carer for my wife Eileen. I do everything for her. She is bi-polar and has COPD asthma and suffers with severe breathing difficulties. She does not walk very far at all. She has a wheeled trolley just to walk from the chair in the sitting-room to her bed, which has been set up in the same room downstairs. Eileen can't go upstairs at all now, so I have looked after her and slept downstairs on the settee for the past three years. I used to bathe her and wash her and dress her. I used to be a support worker and it was never a chore for me to look after Eileen as she is my wife and I love her. I am worried about what will happen to Eileen if anything happens to me. Eileen's sons, David and Paul have been helping out as much as they can. When I was admitted to hospital on both occasions they've stayed and looked after Eileen."
"As Dennis's condition worsened, I became more involved in supporting both him and my mum. I helped with hospital visits, treatments and day to day tasks. At the same time my mum's health was deteriorating and she relied heavily on both of us."
"As time progressed, Dennis' own physical health concerns became more noticeable and had more of a severe impact on him. He was diagnosed with…mesothelioma and he had to attend medical appointments and reviews. Due to this condition and how it affected Dennis, I did have to accompany him on some of these appointments and other family members accompanied Dennis at other times. At these times my mum was alone in the house."
"On Monday 13 October, I couldn't rouse Dennis and he was unresponsive, so Paul and David called an ambulance and he was taken to the Royal Liverpool Hospital where he sadly passed away later that same day."
“Following Dennis death, the boys have been taking it in turns to stay overnight to look after me. I am not sure how long they can carry on doing that for. Both…work full-time and have families of their own.”
"Being [mum’s] joint source of support, almost like a carer, meant being away from my own home for long periods of time and painfully being away from my daughter. Missing time with her while trying to support my mum was incredibly difficult. I constantly felt pulled in different directions, trying to be a good son and a good father at the same time. The emotional strain of trying to maintain that balance has been immense. The physical and mental exhaustion built up over time. My sleep suffered, my mood was low and I felt anxiety about the future and the GP signed me off work for six weeks and I didn't get paid for one month, receiving only [SSP]."
"In October 2025, when admitted into hospital Eileen was described as being bed-bound most of the time. When she was re-admitted to hospital with breathing problems in November, it was noted both David and Paul were struggling to help care for their mother after Dennis's death and family were trying to be present almost 24 hours a day. Indeed, after she was discharged from the hospital the second time in December 2025, the GP noted family were struggling at home, even with a four times daily care package from the local authority; and that Eileen was not able to be left alone and continued to struggle with her breathing. Her sleep was poor, she was unable to care for herself and, importantly, her mood had deteriorated since her husband's death and she was having panic attacks. She was bouncing back into hospital after each COPD exacerbation."
“I have now been admitted to Grace Lodge Nursing Home on a 28-day placement. They have said if I like it, I can stay here, although I will probably have to pay for my own care once the 28 days have passed. However, my wish is to return to my home….as I know all of the neighbours and it has been my home for 45 years. I now have to wear an [oxygen] mask every night, so that means I need nursing care and I am no longer suitable for a residential home placement, so if I do go back home, I will need full-time care.”
"[O]n the balance of probabilities, when the time came for Eileen to use night-time non-invasive ventilation [oxygen mask] at home, she and her husband would have been able to cope with this at home and would have gotten on with it. Her care needs would probably not have deteriorated much up until the time of her death. Dennis would have continued to care for his wife until her death, without the need for outside carers coming into the marital home to care for her."
"1 Right of action for wrongful act causing death. (1) If death is caused by any wrongful act, neglect or default which is such as would (if death had not ensued) have entitled the person injured to maintain an action and recover damages in respect thereof, the person who would have been liable if death had not ensued shall be liable to an action for damages, notwithstanding the death of the person injured. (2) …[E]very such action shall be for the benefit of the dependants of the person ('the deceased') whose death has been so caused. (3) In this Act 'dependant' means (a) the wife or husband or former wife or husband of the deceased; (e) any child or other descendant… 2 Persons entitled to bring the action. (1) The action shall be brought by and in the name of the executor or administrator of the deceased…. (3) Not more than one action shall lie for and in respect of the same subject matter of complaint. 3 Assessment of damages. (1) In the action such damages, other than damages for bereavement, may be awarded as are proportioned to the injury resulting from the death to the dependants respectively…. 4 Assessment of damages: disregard of benefits. In assessing damages in respect of a person’s death…under this Act, benefits which have accrued or may accrue to any person from his estate or otherwise as a result of his death shall be disregarded."
“Latham LJ [in Cape], in considering the s.3 FAA dependency valuation, identified the question to be answered as…. the extent to which the dependants have been deprived of a ‘reasonable expectation of pecuniary advantage from the continuance of the life of the deceased’.…At [14 he] stated: ‘…the court’s task in any case is to examine the particular facts of the case to determine whether or not any loss in money or in monies worth has been occasioned to the dependants and if it determines that it has, it must then use whatever material appears best to fit the facts of the particular case in order to determine the extent of that loss’…..”
“At [13 of O’Loughlin], in respect of the loss of a husband’s services, [Latham LJ] stated that: “… His death, whatever other loss may result, will mean that the family will have to replace that expertise and advice at the appropriate market cost. That cost is as much a loss to the family as could be the cost of a gardener…”
“[I]t was irrelevant that [the children] had made a success of the business. That was not because the financial benefit which they had brought to the family was a ‘benefit accruing as a result of the death' which had to be ignored under s.4. It was because that financial benefit was irrelevant to the assessment of the dependency under s.3. [The Judge] was correct when he said that nothing that a dependant (or for that matter anyone else) could do after the death could either increase or decrease the dependency. The dependency is fixed at the moment of death; it is what the dependants would probably have received as benefit from the deceased, had the deceased not died. What decisions people make afterwards is irrelevant. The only post death events which are relevant are those which affect the continuance of the dependency (such as the death of a dependant before trial) and the rise (or fall) in earnings to reflect the effects of inflation.”
“This submission, with respect, is misconceived, on basic principles of the law of tort. If a claimant’s brand new Rolls-Royce is written off through the defendant’s negligence the damages must include its replacement value even if the claimant decides that he will change to a cheaper car or in future take public transport. The same principle applies to claims for loss of services under the [FAA]; …Of course in a sense the value of a lost spouse cannot be measured in money terms…but the law has to do the best it can….[I]n predicting the future one can take account of what is known to have happened already. As Aneurin Bevan said in a different context ‘why look into the crystal ball, when you can read the book?’ The classic example …is a [FAA] claim where the surviving spouse has himself died by the time of trial: there will be no award for his future dependency, though there may be for that of the deceased’s children. But this does not alter the basic rule that the claimant is entitled to the value of what he has lost. Indeed… in Hay v Hughes[1975] QB 790 at 809B Lord Edmund-Davies said “the fact that a widower decided to manage himself after the death of his wife would not disentitle him to sue for and recover damages for the pecuniary loss he sustained.” 43. It is really quite immaterial…whether having received…damages, the plaintiff chooses to alleviate her own housekeeping burden, … by employing the labour [lost] … or whether she chooses to continue to struggle with the housekeeping on her own and to spend the damages which have been awarded to her on other luxuries … .”
‘The dependency is fixed at the moment of death’
“For these purposes the court does not consider evidence of facts arising post-death but focuses on the instant in time immediately preceding it.”
“29…. It is the unforeseen and undisputed fact that the children have been removed from Mrs Witham. It follows that since their removal the factual basis of the dependency claim no longer exists. 30 I accept, as was stated by Smith LJ in…Williams…that dependency is valued as at the date of death. That said, there are qualifications to that statement as identified by Smith LJ at [50]: “… The dependency is fixed at the moment of death; it is what the dependants would probably have received as benefit from the deceased, had the deceased not died. What decisions people make afterwards is irrelevant. The only post death events which are relevant are those which affect the continuance of the dependency (such as the death of a dependant before trial) and the rise (or fall) in earnings….” 31 In my view, the new evidence is directly relevant to the continuance of the dependency. As the children are no longer in the care of the Claimant, the dependency cannot be said to be continuing as the premise upon which it was based no longer exists.”