“In this context, a delay of this magnitude in securing the return of the child must be one of the factors in deciding whether his summary return, without any investigation of the facts, will place him in a situation which he should not be expected to have to tolerate. He is not responsible for the passage of time. But the passage of time has contributed to a situation in which he is adamantly opposed to returning to Romania. As reported by the very experienced CAFCASS officer, these views are "authentically his own". They are confirmed by the very experienced solicitor who now acts for him. It is not simply that he is settled here within the meaning of article 12. He has spent nearly half his life here and has no life that he can recall in Romania. While the father has offered certain undertakings about his life there, it is quite clear that the father intends to oppose his return to the country which he now regards as his home and that if returned to Romania he will face months if not years of further litigation between his parents.”
“Parker J was, however, entirely correct in sounding a strong note of caution with respect to the extent to which the mere passage of time may be deployed in establishing an intolerable situation sufficient to satisfy Article 13(b). The determination of whether a period of 'one year has elapsed from the date of the wrongful removal or retention' at the date of the commencement of Hague Convention proceedings under Article 12 is simply a matter of calculation. Where a period of settlement is to be relied upon in support of an 'intolerable situation' claim under Article 13(b) the judicial evaluation is of a wholly different character. The passage of time in that context, rather than being a simple matter of calculation, must, as Mr Scott submitted, be viewed through the lens of the requirements of Article 13(b). As the joint judgment of Baroness Hale and Lord Wilson in Re E (Children) (Abduction: Custody Appeal)[2011] UKSC 27 ;[2012] 1 AC 144 explains (at paragraphs 29 to 37), the very terms of Article 13(b) make it a provision of restricted application requiring a risk that is 'grave' and a situation that is 'intolerable'.”
"The authorities make clear that the court is evaluating whether there is a grave risk based on the allegations relied on by the taking parent as a whole, not individually.
“Complaint: Whilst under the influence, he has argued with his partner and assaulted her by strangling her”
“maybe [C] already has another mom now”; 28.2. Message to the mother’s partner on 6.2.26: “the Lithuanian court is a worthless court. The main court is here, and I will win this court, and automatically on the same day – well not the same day, but at the end of this month – I will deregister [C], I will deregister us from Lithuania, because we are still registered as Lithuanian citizens, which is why the court case is taking place in Lithuania….since I will deregister both of us from Lithuania, the court in Lithuania won’t be able to obligate me to anything. Even if [the mother] wanted to sue for something, she would have to come here, to England, and she would no longer get a free lawyer – there’s no chance…a family case costs about ten thousand pounds…” 28.3. Message to the mother on 6.2.26: “Congratulations – this is already your what, third family?....send regards to your boyfriend. He is a loser, small, you will never see the child. All because of him. So, happy holidays. Let’s prepare for the courts. I have a powerful, very powerful gift for the courts…to give to the court about you. So let’s wait. Goodbye.”. 28.4. Long message to the mother’s partner on 18.2.26, including: “First of all, I don’t care – if I took the child away, then I did what I needed to do. As I had said before: if a person doesn’t change, I’ll take the child away. I said it many times. I always declare things openly; I always warn people and give them a chance to fix things. I always warn about my plans. I can predict what will happen next. I’m warning you. After the first court hearing, you know what I can do? The very same day the first court ends, I can deregister the child from Lithuania and block [the mother]. Just block her completely. And you’ll see – nobody will be able to do anything to me. But I probably won’t do that…Stop controlling her, stop messing with her head. She could have met the child long ago and wouldn’t have had to wait a year and a half. But she’ll wait another year if I want her to. I don’t care about [the mother] anymore – only [C] matters to me. I want [C] to see his mother, I really do. But you prevented it. I don’t have to bring him anywhere – get that into your head. When you understand this simple fact that I am not obligated to bring him back, maybe then we’ll start talking. Stop saying [I] must return him. No, [I] doesn’t have to. And [I] won’t. You’ll see. I’ll win the court in England and I’ll tell the Lithuanian court to f*** off. They won’t do anything to me. I live in England and follow English law. These laws will apply, and Lithuanian laws will be worthless. English law has priority. You need to know that. So that court in Lithuania is a paradox. There are clowns sitting there. Some woman sitting alone making decisions – it’s laughable. When I win here and then go there, I’ll tell the judge to stop talking nonsense and follow the higher court’s decision. Going there feels like talking to some secretary. So the point is – you filled her head with nonsense, that’s why the child doesn’t see his mother…”
“In 2024 there were four reports, and in 2025 there was one report of violations of the rights of her son [D] who lives with her, and of inadequate living conditions. [The mother] is trying to live a sober life, has found a job, but chooses to live with her partner, who do not inspire trust, who does not provide the children a safe environment, a stable life, a good example. Lives in a rented flat, keeps the house tidy and clean. In 2025 [the mother] has not been recorded as intoxicated. There have been positive changes in [the mother’s] life, but risk factors remain.”