“I met with Mr and Mrs C daily over a period of a week, spending around 12 hours with them in total as well as meeting with their network. The assessment process was intense, but Mr and Mrs C were keen to work with me and had no issue with engaging at such an intense level. I found both to be open with me and not in any way evasive despite my questions at times being very personal. Mr and Mrs C have the capacity to be excellent carers for A and B. I specifically considered the concerns raised within the viability assessment and do not share the views and conclusion from that assessment. With regard to a lack of understanding around the children’s needs, I did not find this to be the case. Mr and Mrs C presented as knowledgeable of the children’s experiences and understanding of the complex behaviours they are presenting with. When unsure of how they would deal with a situation they were clear in saying that they were not sure of the best way, and it was something that they would seek guidance on. They recognised that both children have experienced extreme trauma and will need gentle, loving, consistent care to heal from their experiences. I spoke with them about the social workers concerns that they had minimised or failed to understand the violence the children had been exposed to in Country D. Mr and Mrs C were clear that they do understand and were not saying that the children should have been left in Country D with ISIS members but were trying to explain that they worried that the children would not have understood what was happening and would have been scared as the life they were leading was all they had ever known. In addition, they were worried that being questioned by professionals would have been distressing for them. We considered the potential gender identity issues for A, particularly focusing on the fact that there is very little representation of the LGBTQ community within Islam. Mr and Mrs C were openminded and curious. They had clearly listened to and respected the advice of Dr Shaw and stated that they would simply support A, allow him to express himself in how he dresses at home (as is the advice in the UK) and not be drawn to ‘push’ him in either direction. They were honest in saying it is an unusual situation in their Islamic community but not unheard of and not something that they would not be able to cope with. I discussed issues of extremism and radicalisation with Mr and Mrs C at length and I am as confident as I can be that neither have ever had any links to ISIS, neither present with radical views and neither support their sons’ decision to go to Country D. They were both very naïve at the time their sons travelled to Country D and the recruitment of people from Country E was just starting at the time and had not been well known. They kept a lot of what was going on to themselves initially through fear of what their community may think and feelings of embarrassment and shame – all of which are natural responses to such a situation. I consider that the children’s needs would be well met in Country E in the care of their paternal grandparents and that this could be achieved by the making of a Special Guardianship Order.”
“I recommend that Mr and Mrs C are suitable special guardianship carers for their grandchildren and that should placement with them be agreed upon, it would be in the children's best interests. The children would have the experience of being 'claimed' by their family and experience a sense of belonging and cultural heritage, which will be familiar to them. Mr and Mrs C have evidence that they are able to meet their grandchildren’s needs to a high standard and with professional input which is available even if the children are to move to Country E. The children have experienced a lot of trauma and present with some complex needs and behaviours. Mr and Mrs C were fully aware of the issues of concern and were openminded and curious with regard to how to address and manage them. They were keen to work with professionals to increase their knowledge and ability to support their grandchildren. I consider that Mr and Mrs C have the capacity to offer excellent care for their grandchildren that will meet their basic care needs and also their emotional and psychological needs.”