‘Going forward, the children will need particular care as a result of the circumstances in which they were born and now live. The particular points of focus in that regard have been highlighted in the Local Authority’s adoption report and in the Children’s Guardian’s report. I was struck by paragraph 39 of the Guardian’s report, in which this is said: “The applicants had not given any consideration of the impact on the children of having parents who are so much older and all the attendant age-related health issues which follow.” The report goes on to stress that one of the applicants will be in her 80’s when the children are in their early teens and the other will be in her mid-70’s. It is surprising that two individuals embarking upon this process had not given any consideration to those matters because, to someone standing outside, the need to understand the impact on the children of the age difference is very plain. It is instructive to recall that the welfare provision insection 1 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002 , is for the court to have regard to the child’s welfare ‘throughout his life’ and that is different from the welfare provision in the Children Act, which simply looks to their welfare as children. I do not want there to be any thought in the mind of Ms W and Ms X that the orders that I am going to make are made in some way grudgingly or without full confidence that it is the right thing for the children to be adopted. I very much hope, and reading what I do about these two applicants, I have got confidence that they ‘get it’, that they will conduct their lives now, in part, making sure that arrangements for the welfare of the children throughout their lives, or at least throughout the remainder of their childhood and into their early adult years, are made and that the children grow up knowing with some confidence what those arrangements will be. In the hope that they may never kick in for years to come, but in the knowledge that if they do, then there are people in the family who will be supportive of them.’
‘However, for the reasons that I have already listed, I am satisfied that the welfare of each of these two children now requires adoption. I used the unhelpful and inelegant phrase earlier, ‘we are where we are’, and that is the situation. If the court had been asked before these applicants set off for Cyprus whether this was a good idea, let alone one that was compatible with domestic policy in these matters, the court’s view would undoubtedly have been a negative one. It is very plainly in the best interests of each of these two children to be adopted. No other course, legally, would meet their needs. There is an urgent need for them to be consolidated, legally, into this small family unit so that they are fully siblings of each other and legally, the children of these two applicants.’