“I disagree with the finding about his violent nature in reference to the hospital record brought as evidence by [Mrs. A] as the record do not specify the name of the partner involved in that incident and [Mrs. A] was in a relationship with Mr. U as well as Mr. O at the time of the incident. Since Mr. O has not been charge[d] by the Italian local authority for this incident, this evidence is not an acceptable for me; especially considering that there is no further evidence that Mr. O has been violent before or after this incident or in any other romantic relationship. In my professional opinion, this evidence is also not acceptable as the court demonstrated that [Mrs. A] has res[orted] to lying and manipulate facts according to her benefit and the partner she chose in such circumstances. Indeed, it has also been found by the court that [Mrs. A] is a vulnerable woman in a co-dependent relationship with Mr. U who has often remarked his dislike towards Mr. O. Ultimately, it is clear that the competitions and animosity between the fathers fueled by the ambiguous and enmeshed behaviors of [Mrs. A] towards the fathers, has often led to conflictual relationship between these parties. Considering the unacceptability of such evidence and lack of further evidence of domestic abuse, as well as the consistent and copious evidences that Mr. O has always cared for Master N at the best of his capacity; it appears that Mr. O has no risk of domestic abuse and therefore, it appears that he is not a threat for his son.”
“N’s best interests would be best met at this stage by the drawing up of a robust care plan which works towards the father and N developing their relationship, to include extended periods of contact in Liverpool, the opportunity for N to develop his Italian to a level where he would be able to communicate effectively with his father and grandmother in Italian and N being able to spend extended holiday periods in Italy, so that the father’s home becomes an environment which is comfortable and familiar to him.”
“[2.3] Permanence is the long term plan for the child’s upbringing and provides an underpinning framework for all social work with children and their families from family support through to adoption. The objective of planning for permanence is therefore to ensure that children have a secure, stable and loving family to support them through childhood and beyond and to give them a sense of security, continuity, commitment, identity and belonging.”