“to secure the prompt return of children wrongfully removed to or retained in any Contracting State.”
“Where a child has been wrongfully removed or retained in terms of Article 3 and, at the date of the commencement of the proceedings before the judicial or administrative authority of the Contracting State where the child is, a period of less than one year has elapsed from the date of the wrongful removal or retention, the authority concerned shall order the return of the child forthwith.”
“Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if the person, institution, or other body which opposes its return establishes that: … (b) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation.”
“[27.] In In re E[2012] 1 AC 144 this court considered the situation in which the anxieties of a respondent mother about a return with the child to the state of habitual residence were not based upon objective risk to her but nevertheless were of such intensity as to be likely, in the event of a return, to destabilise her parenting of the child to the point at which the child's situation would become intolerable. No doubt a court will look very critically at an assertion of intense anxieties not based upon objective risk; and will, among other things, ask itself whether they can be dispelled. But in In re E it was this court's clear view that such anxieties could in principle found the defence. Thus, at para 34, it recorded, with approval, a concession by Mr Turner QC, who was counsel for the father in that case, that, if there was a grave risk that the child would be placed in an intolerable situation, “the source of it is irrelevant: eg, where a mother's subjective perception of events lead to a mental illness which could have intolerable consequences for the child”
“… no reason to doubt that the risk to the mother's mental health, whether it be the result of objective reality or of the mother's subjective perception of reality, or a combination of the two, is very real”
“[The mother] presented with high levels of anxiety relating to both her relationship and being ‘stuck’ in [town] with her baby […]. [The mother] felt high level of fear given she had got pregnant to someone who she did not know well and was trying to forge a relationship along with a new baby. She was finding this extremely difficult. She also discussed her aspergers and how that affects her. Childhood issues were also talked about specifically her relationship with her parents. She felt confined in [town] with a lack of independence and was financially stressed heavily relying on her partner. [The mother] felt very little control over things in her life and felt constantly unhappy.” (11) In August 2022 the mother texted the paternal grandmother complaining about the lack of support that the father was providing, describing herself as being “a bit down at the moment” and saying that the father had made her “feel like shit”. (12) Medical notes for November 2022 show that the mother was continued on propranolol and told to continue counselling. (13) By December 2022 the relationship between the parents was clearly deteriorating with the mother alleging that the father shoved her (an allegation that is denied) and the father complaining that the mother was “playing the victim”. (14) By February 2022 the relationship had deteriorated to a point where the mother was complaining that the father would not speak to her, and at the start of March 2023 the father told the mother by text to pack her bags and go and stay with the paternal grandmother. The mother did not immediately leave and instead the paternal grandmother came to stay with the parents to lend some support, and shortly afterwards the mother’s stepfather came to visit. By the end of March 2023, the mother had left to stay with the paternal grandmother. The mother described herself as being “absolutely miserable” during this period and referred to her anxiety being at “an all-time high”. (15) The parents continued to exchange text messages and in May 2023 the mother explained to the father that the town in which she had lived with him made her “depressed”
“Adjustment disorder can be considered somewhere in between these two conditions. It is longer lasting than an acute stress reaction and not as severe as PTSD, although with some of the characteristics of both.” (8) Dr Gamble made his diagnosis having regard to the nature and degree of the mother’s symptoms and the association that these have had with events in her life. He states: “…there is a history of her experiencing subjective distress and emotional disturbance in response to life events from childhood onwards. However, as other times in her life she has enjoyed good mental health and has been able to function normally. Arguably she has demonstrated resilience and independence… The clinical presentation prior to 2021, when she became pregnant for the first time, is not of a person with a severe or disabling mental disorder but the last few years have evidently been difficult for her.” (9) In terms of treatment Dr Gamble advised that the prognosis for an adjustment disorder is generally positive and improvement is usually seen when the individual adjusts to their new circumstances or when the situation has been resolved satisfactorily. Treatment can include psychotherapy (including counselling, problem-solving and cognitive behavioural therapy) and medication. The mother has previously been prescribed propranolol, but the continued use of drugs during pregnancy is something which would need to be carefully assessed. (10) If the mother is ordered to return to New Zealand there are factors which would exacerbate her symptoms. These include the following: (a) A decision to terminate her current pregnancy. Dr Gamble states that there is “little doubt that some women experience mental health symptoms, mostly depression and anxiety, following termination”