‘The child has gone to the hospital and M has been given a diagnosis. The doctor tries and explain to child what is wrong, You try to reassure the child that everything is alright, that the epilepsy is well controlled, at least reassuring the child to the best of your ability. My experience and common thinking is that to place child in sick role is different. The child comes to believe that they are unwell. It is to do that but to then constantly reaffirm you are unwell, constantly go on about the fits you are having. Harm is done if it is unnecessary, even if child is v ill, we always reassure a child in clinic, would be very wrong to tell child you are very sick you may need more treatment.’