“UPON the court considering the letter from Cafcass indicating the Mother has withdrawn her consent for the Family Court Advisor to meet with the child. UPON the court indicating as follows: The court has directed Cafcass to prepare a s.7 report. This is a direction of the court not voluntary. Cafcass need to meet with the child to prepare that report. If the Mother contends that the report should not be prepared then she must make an application to the court and the matter will be listed for a hearing. The court indicates that it is highly unlikely it will discharge such direction at this stage as the court needs the s.7 report to be able to reach conclusions and it is vital that Cafcass are able to see the child to do that. Miss A is an experienced FCA and the court is satisfied she will do all she can to ensure the visit is entirely appropriate. IT IS ORDERED THAT: 1. The Mother shall make the child available to meet with Cafcass at a date convenient to the Family Court Advisor on the first available date after 5 June. 2. This order having been made without a hearing any part affected by it may apply, copied to Cafcass and the other parties, for it to be set aside, varied or discharged in the next 7 days.”
“42. During this assessment [the mother] has raised my suspicions as to her ability to promote P’s paternal identify and relationships. [The mother] has at times sought to control professional intervention with P, control P’s awareness and access to his paternal relationships and both P and school seem to be under the impression that her partner is his father. Whilst [the mother’s] partner is taking on a parenting role with P which is positive P needs to have an accurate understanding of his paternal relationships. Additionally [the mother] has presented as resentful at times in relation to [the appellants] and I am concerned that her decision making in this regard is led by her own adult feelings and issues rather than for concern about P’s welfare should he spend time with them. [The mother’s] partner has expressed strong views similar to [the mother] which in my view is not helpful. 43. [The mother] presents with an unwillingness to resolve matters and reflect on her behaviour, appearing preoccupied in seeking to attribute blame on [the father] and [the appellants]. [The mother] is unconcerned by the time P has missed with [the appellants] and lacks insight into the impact of the loss of these relationships on P both short and long term. Whilst it is understood that [the mother], may have been negatively affected by decisions made by the court in respect to [the father] and P’s time which she does not agree with, as a parent it is vital that she separates this from what is best for P. [The mother] has since complied with the order in relation to [the father] but I am mindful that this has led to three sets of court proceedings.”
“44. The concerns raised by [the mother] that P may suffer emotional harm should he spend time with [the appellants] have not been substantiated. It is not disputed that P had an ongoing relationship with [the appellants] until 2021 which was positive and no safeguarding concerns were raised about P’s welfare during this time. [The mother] by her own admission reports that the reason this time stopped was as a result of [the father] making an application to the court, which is not welfare led. [The appellants] present as committed and loving grandparents to P who are willing and able to be involved in his life.”
“45. It is my professional opinion that it is in P’s best interests to spend regular and meaningful time with [the appellants]. The reintroduction of this time should start with the sharing of photographs and a pre-recorded video message from [the appellants]. Thereafter face to face time should take place for a minimum of 4 hours in the community once a month which could lead to overnight stays one weekend a month (either Friday to Saturday or Saturday to Sunday) within 6 months. Handovers should take place by an agreed third party or in a public setting where there is CCTV (supermarket entrance). [The appellants] should also be permitted to send cards/small gifts to P on special occasion such as Christmas and Birthdays. P should have the opportunity to maintain positive relationship with [the appellants], this will aid not only P’s emotional well-being but also his identify development both short and long term. It is clear that the relationship between [the mother] and [the appellants] has broken down and there are high levels of mistrust. Therefore it would be beneficial that they attend the planning together for children programme to aid their understanding of the impact of adult conflict on children.”
“On receipt of an email from [the mother], the matter has been reallocated to HHJ Walker. The hearing on 15 August is vacated. The directions hearing for this matter will be heard by this court at The Family Court at Coventry, 140 Much Park Street, Coventry, West Midlands, CV1 2SN on18th August 2023 at 12:00 With a time estimate of 1 hr”
“4. No document other than a document specified in an order or filed in accordance with the Rules or any Practice Direction shall be filed without the court’s permission. 5. [The father] shall serve and file his final statement by 4pm on1st September 2023 . 6. The safeguarding letters from the previous proceedings concerning P (CV21P00603, CV22P00256 & CV22P00830) shall be disclosed into these proceedings. 7. The bundle for the next hearing will be prepared by HMCTS. A copy of the bundle (which shall include the safeguarding letters as above) will be sent to HHJ Walker, the parties and to the FCA two days before the hearing. 8. HMCTS shall arrange a CVP link for the whole day on the4th October 2023 to allow the father to participate in the hearing.”
“I know HHJ Walker is aware of the background regarding [P’s] life however I am going to give a little more insight to show the suffocation we have felt as a family. Whilst I was pregnant with P I had bail conditions for some time to not have contact with [the father] when he was in prison on remand. [The appellant paternal grandfather] turned up to my mum’s house with a cheap phone and sim card so that I had no excuse not to miss [the father’s] calls from prison. Forcing me to break my bail conditions, [the father] then used this phone to often call and terrorise me, telling me that I was going to give birth to my baby in [a] women’s prison and that he would tell the police I was more involved in the murder investigation than what I actually was.”
“11. This hearing has been difficult for all concerned including me as the judge. All of the parties are litigants in person and [the father] has joined each hearing by CVP from prison. I have done all I can to support every party to present their case. I have read all the documents in the court bundle, and I have heard the oral evidence of each of the parties and the Cafcass officer and I invited them to ask questions of each other. 12. In managing the case, I looked to [the appellant paternal grandfather] to be the lead advocate and witness in support of his and his wife’s case. In particular, I did not allow [the appellant step-grandmother] to ask additional questions of [the mother] and had to point out to her that from [the mother’s] perspective, that would have felt intimidating. Although [the appellant paternal grandfather] has suffered from a stroke, he has, in fact, coped with the day very well and he gave a heartfelt speech at the conclusion of the evidence. I do accept, however, that these proceedings will have been stressful for them as well as [the mother].”
“19. Whilst I accept that I am only able to form an impression of the parties based on our time in court, I have to say that I have found [the appellants] to be somewhat arrogant and focused on presenting themselves as upstanding members of the community which I am sure they are. However, that actually has little relevance to this contact application and is somewhat unsympathetic to [the mother]. 20. [The appellants] have been unjustifiably critical of the court process and have sought even to try and tell me how to conduct these proceedings. I do appreciate that court proceedings are stressful but I can entirely understand why [the mother] has experienced the applicants as being domineering and supercilious. It also seems to me that they struggle to understand that the reasons why [the father] has a limited relationship with his own son is because of his own actions and his incarceration. [The father] is also forceful in his criticisms of [the mother]. 21. Meanwhile, in the face of this criticism, [the mother] has demonstrated a respect for the court process and also for the decisions of the Court. However, it is obvious to me the stress that six years the proceedings have had upon her and that that must have had an impact upon her ability to be a responsive and parent to P at times.”
“I also accept that [the mother] was telling the truth when she sees (sic) says that [the appellant paternal grandfather] gave her a mobile phone to make contact with [the father] in breach of his (sic) bail conditions, and he is not telling the truth about that. Although it is only a minor point, it does evidence that [the mother] is justified in her concern that the applicants are willing to tell lies in order to present themselves in a positive light.”
“24. Of utmost importance, it seems to me, to P is that his mother is safe and secure. If she is not, then he is likely to suffer emotionally as a result. I am entirely satisfied that [the mother] is telling the truth when she says that she has experienced [the appellants] as being overbearing at times. Whilst I acknowledge that there would be a benefit to P of being able to have a relationship with his wider paternal family, including a greater sense of his culture and heritage, that benefit has to be weighed against the possible detriment to him of having contact arrangements imposed upon his mother about which she is fundamentally opposed and in which she has little voice or say. 25. It is my view that P is likely to experience spending time with [the appellants] as being stressful and anxiety-provoking if that is how his mother experiences them. To put him through that every month as suggested by Ms A seems to me to be actively to expose him to harm and I am afraid that I do not believe, in reaching her recommendations, the Cafcass officer has sufficiently considered this side of the equation. I do not accept the criticisms of [the mother] by the Cafcass officer are warranted. Ms A reached the view that [the mother] is negatively inclined towards [the appellants] for no reason, but [the mother] has set out in her statement her experience of them and I accept her evidence about that. Indeed, it is my assessment of them also. 26. The evidence leads me to conclude that whilst [the appellant paternal grandfather] has, on the face of it, wished to cooperate with [the mother], that is only with a view to getting the outcome that he wants. It is not my impression that he has been willing to listen to the impact of all on this [the mother] and there is a considerable risk, in my view, that that dynamic will continue moving forward. [The mother] has ensured that P spends time with [the father’s] biological mother and, therefore, his grandmother and, indeed, with [the father], so, he does have an appropriate link with his wider paternal family. As a point of principle, I do not accept that it is right to provide the paternal grandparents to make up for the contact that [the father] would have had with him had the situation been different.”
“27. It was my view, to some extent, that Ms A was seeking to compensate for the absence of [the father] around his life in making her recommendation, particularly when recommending the level of contact that she had, being one weekend per month which appears to me to be a great deal of time for any grandparents. 28. Ms A’s recommendation seemed to sit in a vacuum where it was her hope and expectation that the adults would be able to work together for the benefit of P, but I saw no evidence in court that this is even remotely possible. Even [the appellant paternal grandfather], when cross-examining the Cafcass officer said that he and his wife were fearful that [the mother] would make up allegations about them in the future, and [the mother] has no trust in the applicants at all. 29. Yet, Ms A was able to offer no solution for this dysfunction in the adult relationship and, therefore, no solution to the inevitable exposure of P to that situation. I am afraid I was forced to conclude that Ms A had not properly balanced any of these issues when making her recommendation for contact, and, for those reasons, I depart from her recommendation. Whilst she was undoubtedly right to say that the dysfunction between the adult relationships would be one that she would expect the adults to work on, I fear that that there is no willingness to be able to do that to make things better and P will continue to be caught in the crossfire.”
“30. I do not doubt that [the appellants] love P very much but I simply cannot see how contact arrangements can be managed in a positive way given the personalities of the applicants, their attitude to [the mother] and her experience of them in real life. 31. P is energetic and a bright young boy who is doing okay at school but not quite reaching expectations. He is going to benefit from as much stability as can be provided to him. Spending one weekend per month outside of his nuclear family unit to be with his grandparents will take him away from their life, his activities, his homework and all the other parts of his life with his mother that will cause disruption and it is my view that that can only work if it has the support of [the mother] which, sadly, it does not. 32. I do accept that Ms A is right to identify that P does not have a real knowledge of his paternal family and she was concerned that [the mother] had not been honest with P’s school about [the father] and his situation (i.e. being in prison for murder). It is my view that this can be remedied if has not already been so. 33. However, that absence of a paternal family can also be remedied to some extent by permission for indirect contact moving forward. The order I am going to make is a child arrangements order for indirect contact by way of photographs, cards, presents and letters once per month from now on. [The appellants] are well aware of [mother’s] address.”
“Use at the final hearing of witness statements which have been served 22.6.— (1) If a party— (a) has served a witness statement; and (b) wishes to rely at the final hearing on the evidence of the witness who made the statement, that party must call the witness to give oral evidence unless the court directs otherwise or the party puts the statement in as hearsay evidence. (Part 23 (miscellaneous rules about evidence) contains provisions about hearsay evidence.) (2) The witness statement of a witness called to give oral evidence under paragraph (1) is to stand as the evidence in chief of that witness unless the court directs otherwise. (3) A witness giving oral evidence at the final hearing may with the permission of the court— (a) amplify his witness statement; and (b) give evidence in relation to new matters which have arisen since the witness statement was served on the other parties. (4) The court will give permission under paragraph (3) only if it considers that there is good reason not to confine the evidence of the witness to the contents of the witness statement. (5) If a party who has served a witness statement does not— (a) call the witness to give evidence at the final hearing; or (b) put the witness statement in as hearsay evidence, any other party may put the witness statement in as hearsay evidence.” any other party may put the witness statement in as hearsay evidence.”
“Failure to verify a witness statement 17.4. If the maker of a witness statement fails to verify the witness statement by a statement of truth, the court may direct that it shall not be admissible as evidence.”
“The overriding objective 1.1.— (1) These rules are a new procedural code with the overriding objective of enabling the court to deal with cases justly, having regard to any welfare issues involved. (2) Dealing with a case justly includes, so far as is practicable— (a) ensuring that it is dealt with expeditiously and fairly; (b) dealing with the case in ways which are proportionate to the nature, importance and complexity of the issues; (c) ensuring that the parties are on an equal footing; (d) saving expense; and (e) allotting to it an appropriate share of the court's resources, while taking into account the need to allot resources to other cases.” (a) ensuring that it is dealt with expeditiously and fairly; (b) dealing with the case in ways which are proportionate to the nature, importance and complexity of the issues; (c) ensuring that the parties are on an equal footing; (d) saving expense; and (e) allotting to it an appropriate share of the court's resources, while taking into account the need to allot resources to other cases.”