“Memory is especially unreliable when it comes to recalling past beliefs. Our memories of past beliefs are revised to make them more consistent with our present beliefs. Studies have also shown that memory is particularly vulnerable to interference and alteration when a person is presented with new information or suggestions about an event in circumstances where his or her memory of it is already weak due to the passage of time.”
“In the light of these considerations, the best approach for a judge to adopt in the trial of a commercial case [and of course that was what that was concerned with, but I suggest that exactly the same should apply in a fact find such as the one I am engaged in] is in my view to place little if any reliance at all on witnesses’ recollection of what was said in meetings and conversations, and to base factual findings on inferences drawn from the documentary evidence and known or probable facts. This does not mean that a raw testimony serves no useful purpose, though its utility is often disproportionate to its length, but its value lies largely as I see it in the opportunity which cross-examination affords to subject the documentary record to critical scrutiny and to gauge the personality, motivations, and working practice of a witness, rather than in testimony of what the witness recalls of particular conversations and events. Above all, it is important to avoid the fallacy of supposing that because a witness has confidence in his or her recollection and is honest, evidence based on that recollection provides any reliable guide to the truth.”
“It is a criminal offence to take a child out of the United Kingdom without the consent of everybody with parental responsibility unless the Court has given permission.” the Court has given permission.”
“Neither party shall remove Adam from the United Kingdom without the express written consent of the other, or order of the Court.”
“However this does not prevent the removal of the child for a period of less than one month by a person named in the Child Arrangements Order as a person with whom the child should live.”
“Be stingy with your son and do not buy him any toys, do not buy him a birthday gift or even send him something for Christmas.”
“Since last month I have been aware that you’re planning something evil against me, and this is why I told you that there is no need for all of this and I would agree to anything you want.”
“Let your son live in peace with his mother. I am very worried that what you are doing will result in Adam being taken from both of us. Please stop that immediately, and I will do what you want.” of this and I would agree to anything you want.”
“The Court was satisfied on a provisional basis on the basis of the evidence filed, and after an extempore judgment that: a) The mother had wrongfully removed Adam on10 November 2022 , thereafter retained him in Egypt until his return on26 December 2023 . That removal was also in breach of a Prohibited Steps Order, of a Child Arrangements Order made with the consent of both parents on8 April 2020 .”
“The mother must not remove or cause the removal of the child from England and Wales, and must not remove or cause the removal of the child from his current address or from the child’s current school at the Vineyard, [etc]. A penal notice is attached to this part of the order.”