“We were living in an independent four bedroom townhouse, (2,500 square feet) with a front drive to accommodate three cars, a huge backyard garden with a garden swing, a study room and a room for a nanny. We lived in a prestigious gated community in Abu Dhabi with manned security and maintenance service 24 hours a day. UH chose this property. We decorated and furnished the entire house together with brand new house appliances, all of UH’s choice, at a cost of around£12,000 .”
“I base my conclusions below on more than two decades of expertise in studying Islamic law, Islamic family law, the laws of Muslim majority countries and the cultures of the Muslim world, including the UAE … I have testified as an expert witness on foreign law (including UAE family law) in various American courts more than 65 times. No court has ever rejected me as an expert on foreign law, Islamic law or Muslim culture and traditions. I have also acted as an expert in British, Canadian and Singapore courts.”
“settling disputes related to custody, taking into account the best interests of the child” (8/2022 Article 3(4)). vi) There is no requirement for the judges of the court to be Muslim (8/2022 Article 6), although in practice Ms Hamade’s evidence was that all of the judges of the family court at the moment were indeed Muslims. vii) There is a concept of “joint custody”
“The right of parents to exercise their role in raising and caring for children after separation on an equal and joint basis, and the right of children not to be deprived of one of the parents because of divorce” (8/2022 Article 1). viii) Custody of children is a joint and equal right for both parents on divorce. It is the right of the children to be raised and seen by both parents, rather than one of them exclusively (Law 14/21 Article 9(1)). ix) There is a presumption that both parents have a right to joint custody of the child until the age of 16 (after which age a child has the right to choose his or her custodian) and “after divorce, both parents bear joint responsibility for the child’s growth, providing that the child’s best interests shall be their primary concern” (8/2022 Article 25). x) If the parents do not agree how to divide custody between them after divorce, it is for the court to decide how to divide joint custody in a way that takes into account the best interests of the child (8/2022 Article 28). xi) There is a procedure by which a parent can be removed from joint custody, either temporarily or permanently. There are ten circumstances in which this may take place, including domestic abuse, neglect and drug and alcohol abuse. Of particular relevance in this case are the final two reasons set out in 8/2022 Article 33, which are: a) The other party’s remarriage; and b) Any other reason that the court deems appropriate. xii) 8/2022 Article 34 appears to confer a wide discretion on the court when cancelling joint custody as it provides: “In the event of cancelling joint custody, the court has the discretion to apply what it deems appropriate from the rules of justice and fairness or the best international practices of comparative legal systems with regard to custody and visitation, with the best interests of the child taking precedence.” xiii) 8/2022 Article 35 identifies that if the parents do not agree on any decision relating to the child after divorce has occurred, they can ask the court to determine the issue. In such circumstances, the court is directed to decide the matter expeditiously and to: “take what it deems appropriate in the best interests of the child.”
“If those courts have no choice but to do as the father wishes, so that the mother cannot ask them to decide with an open mind whether the child would be better off living here or there, then our courts must ask themselves whether it would be in the interests of the child to enable that dispute to be heard. The absence of a relocation jurisdiction must do more than give the judge pause … it may be a decisive factor. On the other hand, if it appears that the mother would not be able to make a good case for relocation, that factor might not be decisive. There are also bound to be many cases where the connection of the child and all the family with the other country is so strong that any difference between the legal systems here and there should carry little weight.”
“(3) In the circumstances mentioned in subsection (4), a court shall have regard in particular to— (a) the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned (considered in the light of his age and understanding); (b) his physical, emotional and educational needs; (c) the likely effect on him of any change in his circumstances; (d) his age, sex, background and any characteristics of his which the court considers relevant; (e) any harm which he has suffered or is at risk of suffering; (f) how capable each of his parents, and any other person in relation to whom the court considers the question to be relevant, is of meeting his needs; (g) the range of powers available to the court under this Act in the proceedings in question.”
“So you tell me today, are you coming or not, if not, I’ll give notice to the landlord and I’ll burn everything in that house and u will get a second divorce on 1st May.”
“It would in my judgment be wrong to suppose that the making of orders in relation to children in this jurisdiction the court is in any way concerned with penalising any adult for his conduct. That conduct may well be a consideration to be taken into account but whether the court makes a summary order or an order after investigating the merits, the cardinal rule applies that the welfare of the infant must always be the paramount consideration.”
“Summary return should not be the automatic reaction to any and every unauthorised taking or keeping a child from his home country.”
“But [considerations] may result in a decision that immediate return would not be appropriate, because the child’s interests will be better served by allowing the dispute to be fought and decided here.”