“While we were going to .. T’s house, C said there were many incidents of sexual abuse in the maternal family. The abuse was known to be so common that T, aged 15, was sent to the USA to keep her away from it.”
“T has told me in the past that she was raped by a family member. I know this could possibly have been her uncle or father, at age 6, in her own home. Her two uncles have been convicted for paedophilia serving prison sentences between fifteen and twenty years in Israel.”
“We travelled to Israel in April 2015 and rented a flat in Jerusalem. I started working as a plumber there. T told me that she did not want to work as she felt unsafe being so close to her family and that her traumatic memories were starting to return.”
“In 2017, when S was 2 years old, we moved to London. T was pregnant again and we hoped our life in London would be happy. T was relieved and relaxed that she did not have to be worried about the danger her family posed anymore.”
“In or around1 April 2021 , the maternal grandfather bought plane tickets for T and the children to travel to Israel in the middle of Passover. When I came home on 1 April, I saw T packing her suitcase and getting ready to leave. When I talked to T, she informed me that she was going to Israel with the children. I immediately bought myself tickets to join them on the same flight. T went straight to her father’s house despite my last-minute booking of an Airbnb for all of us. I did not consent for the children to stay there as I believed they would not be safe. My understanding was that T wanted to travel to Israel for a holiday and stay at her father’s place. I tried to retrieve them, but T’s father would not let me into the property. I was aware of the children being in danger and I did not understand why T decided to stay with her father. I was extremely surprised that she had returned to a place she wanted to keep away from as far as possible. I stayed in Israel for about ten days before I returned to London. I had become very unwell in Israel and one week back into being back in London I was still not feeling any better. I therefore went to see a doctor who referred me to the Hospital. I was hospitalised and discharged when I was better.”
“I rented a place in Israel and travelled back and forth to London. T and the children stayed in Israel. At first, they were staying with the paternal grandfather but then when I talked to T and told her I was not happy with it, her father rented them a place next to his house. When I left Hospital, I rented T and the children a place in another part of the city as I believed that they should be as far as possible from the maternal family, and they moved there.”
“In the summer of 2022, whilst in Israel, I walked into a room with T’s brothers B and D.”
“I was shocked. I immediately told him this was unacceptable and warned him to stay away from my family. This resulted in T’s family sitting me down to explain that I should refrain from speaking to him in that manner because he is very sensitive. The above situation resulted in S telling me [I am not quite sure how she came to be aware of it as she is not mentioned in the earlier part of the paragraph which focuses on X and Y] that she is uncomfortable with her maternal grandfather showering her every time when she is at his place. Then I asked how he was showering her and she showed me that he was touching and playing with her private areas. When I approach the maternal grandfather about this behaviour, he only informed me that he wanted to help them giving them showers.”
“I strongly believe that the hidden sexual abuse in the Hasidic community is a real danger. Victims of sexual abuse are not offered any support or given a voice. Survivors who have reported abuse to the authorities in these communities have been evicted from their homes, have lost their jobs, their children have been expelled from their schools, and they have been completely ostracised from their communities and synagogues. Reporting sexual abuse in the orthodox Hasidic community can mean losing everything in the process.”
“… in evaluating the evidence the court will of course be mindful of the limitations involved in the summary nature of the Hague Convention process. It will rarely be appropriate to hear oral evidence of the allegations made under article 13(b) and so neither those allegations nor their rebuttal are usually tested in cross-examination.”
“There is obviously a tension between the inability of the court to resolve factual disputes between the parties and the risks that the child will face if the allegations are in fact true. Mr Turner submits that there is a sensible and pragmatic solution. Where allegations of domestic abuse are made, the court should first ask whether, if they are true, there would be a grave risk that the child would be exposed to physical or psychological harm or otherwise placed in an intolerable situation. If so, the court must then ask how the child can be protected against the risk. The appropriate protective measures and their efficacy will obviously vary from case to case and from country to country. This is where arrangements for international co-operation between liaison judges are so helpful. Without such protective measures, the court may have no option but to do the best it can to resolve the disputed issues.” [92]This does not mean, as I said in In re C, at para 39, that it was being “suggested that no evaluative assessment of the allegations could or should be undertaken by the court”
“I do not accept that a judge is bound to take this approach if the evidence before the court enables him or her confidently to discount the possibility that the allegations give rise to an article 13b risk.”
“Where there are disputed allegations which can neither be tried nor objectively verified, the focus of the inquiry is bound to be on the sufficiency of any protective measures which can be put in place to reduce the risk. The clearer the need for protection, the more effective the measures will have to be.” 94 In the Guide to Good Practice, at para 40, it is suggested that the court should first “consider whether the assertions are of such a nature and of sufficient detail and substance, that they could constitute a grave risk” before then determining, if they could, whether the grave risk exception is established by reference to all circumstances of the case.