“(5) ‘Consent’ means consent given unconditionally and with full understanding of what is involved; but a person may consent to adoption without knowing the identity of the persons in whose favour the order will be made.”
“(4) The court ….. must have regard to the following matters (among others) – (a) the child’s ascertainable wishes and feelings regarding the system (considered in the light of the chid’s age and understanding), (b) the child’s particular needs, (c) the likely effect on the child (throughout [her] life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person, (d) the child’s age, sex, background and any of the child’s characteristics which the court …. considers relevant, (e) any harm (within the meaning of theChildren Act 1989 ) which the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering, (f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, with any person who is a prospective adopter with whom the child is placed, and with any other person in relation to whom the court …. considers the relationship to be relevant, including – (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of its doing so, (ii) the ability and willingness of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.” (a) the child’s ascertainable wishes and feelings regarding the system (considered in the light of the chid’s age and understanding), (b) the child’s particular needs, (c) the likely effect on the child (throughout [her] life) of having ceased to be a member of the original family and become an adopted person, (d) the child’s age, sex, background and any of the child’s characteristics which the court …. considers relevant, (e) any harm (within the meaning of theChildren Act 1989 ) which the child has suffered or is at risk of suffering, (f) the relationship which the child has with relatives, with any person who is a prospective adopter with whom the child is placed, and with any other person in relation to whom the court …. considers the relationship to be relevant, including – (i) the likelihood of any such relationship continuing and the value to the child of its doing so, (ii) the ability and willingness of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, to provide the child with a secure environment in which the child can develop, and otherwise to meet the child’s needs, (iii) the wishes and feelings of any of the child’s relatives, or of any such person, regarding the child.”
“I have explored the historical risk factors in this case. I have concluded that Mr Z’s absence leads to an impossible situation. There is no opportunity to consider dynamic and/or protective factors. Effective clinical management relies upon a working relationship with the person who has been identified as the risk. This is not possible in this case. When in UK [sic], Mr Z did not engage in professional efforts to explore or reduce risk. Even the most robust external control (i.e. a custodial sentence) did not reduce the risks. Mr Z’s current whereabouts are unknown – although Y has indicated that they are in [Europe] with their son, [BC].”
“From the history in the case papers, there is evidence of reactive, instrumental / predatory, sadomasochistic and male dominance violence. There are human and animal victims. There are elements of control (e.g. stalking, hiding). There are elements of fantasy and careful planning. There are sexual themes throughout the known history of Mr Z – e.g. childhood abuse, his father is a registered sex offender, there are references to sexual violence in the case papers (e.g. threats to cut off the Social Worker’s breasts, threats to pay a “crack head” to rape the Offender Manager’s daughter).”
“It has to be regarded as controlling, predatory and sadistic” (paragraph 4.10). She regards him to pose a significant risk to GC of both physical violence and sexual harm. The level of caution required is “extremely high”
“Going forwards, my recommendations remain unchanged. [GC] will require care from this point on that is highly predictable; she will require significant preparation for new and novel experiences; she will require support with social relationships and emotional understanding from carers who are skilled at reading her non-verbally. She will require adults to offer her nurturing and affectionate care that is also sensitively boundaried and accepting. She will need carers who understand her unhealthy tendencies to cope through avoidance and withdrawal. She will need carers who she has developed a trust with and who she feels safe with. [GC] is now 26 months old and the opportunity for her to experience recovery is ongoing but slow. She can ill afford a disruption to this.”
“I am talking here about irreparable damage. [GC] would live her life because she has already learnt to survive but she would not have the best outcome.” 61. At a later stage she said this: “I believe there is a significant chance that [GC] will have difficulties throughout her life with relationships, with her mental health and wellbeing if she is not offered the security of her current placement.”
“Ethically it is very difficult for me to put together [for the court] a transitional arrangement which I can support. My very clear view is that a move now will cause [GC] significant distress and irreparable harm and I cannot provide anything which will alleviate that harm.”
“Yes … she has a very strong bond with her younger sister, MGM. I believe that she could do this. She would do it [for A]. Is it realistic ? I don’t know. She is perfectly capable of doing it. But I agree that it would be very difficult for her.”
“I have addressed the issues raised by Ms US’s initial reluctance to be open with me in the conclusion of this report but briefly, I feel she has unresolved issues around her older daughter’s birth that I would like to see her address in a therapeutic context. I consider her husband’s advocating honesty with me to be a mitigating factor in the couple’s application to care for [GC]. I would also like to note that Ms US decided to be open with me the day after our initial interview and it is my belief that she recognises that she has some work to do in this area.”
“If her foster carers get her, I shall be happy for GC as well because her foster carers are fighting for her as we are.”