“The respondent [husband] may request a hearing to vary or revoke this order on 48 hours written notice. The application for a non-molestation order is listed before a District Judge on13 December 2016 at 10am for mention (time estimate 5 minutes) … and the following directions shall apply i) Neither the applicant [wife] nor her legal ii). If the respondent [husband] wishes to request a hearing to vary or revoke this order he must attend court in person on the mention date and the court may then fix a further hearing when both parties may attend to consider whether this order may be continued, varied or revoked.”
“…it seems to me… that we should deal with this case today, once and for all. I cannot see why we would have a directions hearing, and then a further hearing. I either decide I am going to discharge the order, or I am not going to discharge the order. But, to come back again to find out if I am going to discharge the order, maybe you file some evidence, it seems to me a bit of a waste of time…”
“The order is there, but it is just there because it was made. It does not seem to me any good reason now … to change it.”
“AND UPON the matter being listed for a directions appointment… AND UPON the parties agreeing that the Occupation Order dated16 November 2016 be discharged on the grounds that the Applicant no longer resides at the former matrimonial home. AND UPON the Applicant informing the Court that there have not been any incidences amounting to threats or intimidation by the Respondent since16 November 2016 ; AND UPON the Applicant opposing the application to discharge the Non-Molestation Order dated16 November 2016 , no witness statement having been filed… IT IS ORDERED THAT 1. The Occupation Order dated16 November 2016 is hereby discharged 2. The Non-Molestation Order dated16 November 2016 shall continue indefinitely.”
“… any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass, but is not limited to, psychological, physical, sexual, financial, or emotional abuse. Domestic abuse also includes culturally specific forms of abuse including, but not limited to, forced marriage, honour-based violence, dowry-related abuse and transnational marriage abandonment”
“he is entitled to travel where he likes and I do not consider this a breach” of the current order), (iv) an incident in 2017 when the husband’s aunt shouted at her in the street. , which, I was later told by Mr Mahmood, the husband disputes. This complaint had not been made to HHJ Hughes QC, nor did it feature in her written submission prepared for this hearing. Mr. Mahmood pointed out that in her written submission the wife had maintained a contrary, or probably contrary, position, namely that the 2016 order had been “effective” in “modifying” the husband’s behaviour, and achieving a situation in which there “have not been any incidences (sic.)”
“When determining whether or not particular conduct is sufficient to justify granting a non-molestation order, the primary focus, as established in the consistent approach of earlier authority, is upon the 'harassment' or 'alarm and distress' caused to those on the receiving end. It must be conduct of 'such a degree of harassment as to call for the intervention of the court' (Horner v Horner[1983] 4 FLR 50 and C v B[1998] 1 FLR 554 ).”