“My dear mother, you give so much and I hope you know how much I value you. I love you a lot and wish you all the happiness in the world, which is certainly your due”
“Since it is Mother’s Day and I am a mother I wanted to set out what I think the characteristic features of a mother should be, just as a sort of definition. They include: Love, devotion, defence against the whole world, always being there whatever both in joy and sadness and even just to give a hug. The rhetorical question is this: who is the person in my life I can say this about? (you !! of course). And so I have chosen to bring you, or more correctly prepare for you, a gift. Something very personal which comes from me to you – with all the love that I feel for you. I want to thank you for everything that you have done and are still doing for me. The most important thing is that you have enabled me to see the nature of life and have re-instilled hope in my every time that I was losing it. With lots of love...”
“That we will know if its will happened (sic). It is impossible to predict such things. Everything depends on us no matter what we will earn. If went back (meaning to Israel) at least we tried we had a significantly process (sic) in our marriage and in our life we have done a very brave step and we have proved that we are not coward and have dreams”
“Due to complex personal reasons, I have to travel to England with my family. It is possible that in the near future, I will return to Israel and will seek a position in [description of job], since [it] provide values, along with personal and public fulfilment.”
“We knew from the start that we will come to London, two things could happen. Either it will strengthen, or it would dismantle (break it). And there is nothing that can be done, It is not pleasant to hear, This is the truth and we knew it in advance. And at the moment to our regret it looks like it is going the second way (option) unless I will be succeed to overcome myself. I... I need here... there is nothing to do, I know that you are hurt and I am also hurt and I need to find within myself forgiveness and ignore what was and move on. That’s it.”
“With all the difficulties of the move, plus the shitty reality, so we did take into consideration that this is a reality that would happen. That is what I am saying.”
“You want to give me time to settle down and to forgive you fine, if not, do what you want.”
“I have decided to do this and also after I decided to do this, you don’t care about anyone’s situation, you care only that we moved and that’s what happened, so you can decide what you want, but I told you; you want to break up, we break up, we return home (to Israel) and do it properly. We are not doing any break up here, cause I am not staying here.”
“Take into account, whatever you decide, simply we return to Israel and we will solve it there. It is clear to me that we won’t solve it here, because I am not staying here. And there is a child involved. That’s it.”
“The concept operates in the expectation that, when a child gains a new habitual residence, he loses his old one. Simple analogies are best: consider a see-saw. As, probably quite quickly, he puts down those first roots which represent the requisite degree of integration in the environment of the new state, up will probably come the child’s roots in that of the old state to the point at which he achieves the requisite de-integration (or, better, disengagement) from it.”
“One of the well-judged submissions of Mr Tyler QC on behalf of the respondent is that, were it minded to remove any gloss from the domestic concept of habitual residence (such as, I interpolate, Lord Brandon’s third preliminary point in the J case), the court should strive not to introduce others. A gloss is a purported sub-rule which distorts application of the rule. The identification of a child’s habitual residence is overarchingly a question of fact. In making the following three suggestions about the point at which habitual residence might be lost and gained, I offer not sub-rules but expectations which the fact-finder may well find to be unfulfilled in the case before him: (a) the deeper the child’s integration in the old state, probably the less fast his achievement of the requisite degree of integration in the new state; (b) the greater the amount of adult pre-planning of the move, including prearrangements for the child’s day-to-day life in the new state, probably the faster his achievement of that requisite degree; and (c) were all the central members of the child’s life in the old state to have moved with him, probably the faster his achievement of it and, conversely, were any of them to have remained behind and thus to represent for him a continuing link with the old state, probably the less fast his achievement of it.”
“[28]Article 18 of the Convention provides that its provisions on return of children "do not limit the power of a judicial or administrative authority to order the return of the child at any time". The High Court has power to exercise its inherent jurisdiction in relation to children by virtue of the child's habitual residence or presence here:Family Law Act 1986 , ss 2(3) and 3(1). The welfare of the child is the court's paramount consideration:Children Act 1989, s 1(1) . But this does not mean that the court is obliged in every case to conduct a full-blown welfare-based inquiry into where the child should live. Long before the Hague Convention was adopted, the inherent jurisdiction was used to secure the prompt return of a child who had been wrongfully removed from his home country: see In re J (A Child) (Custody Rights: Jurisdiction)[2005] UKHL 40 ,[2006] 1 AC 80 , paras 26, 27, and the cases cited therein.”
“[32] That being the case, it is open to this court to ask itself the correct question: is it in K's best interests to remain in this country so that the dispute between his parents is decided here or to return to Texas so that the dispute can be decided there?”
“[48] In my judgment the following principles should be deduced from these authorities: (1) Consent to the removal of the child must be clear and unequivocal. (2) Consent can be given to the removal at some future but unspecified time or upon the happening of some future event. (3) Such advance consent must, however, still be operative and in force at the time of the actual removal. (4) The happening of the future event must be reasonably capable of ascertainment. The condition must not have been expressed in terms which are too vague or uncertain for both parties to know whether the condition will be fulfilled. Fulfilment of the condition must not depend on the subjective determination of one party, for example, “Whatever you may think, I have concluded that the marriage has broken down and so I am free to leave with the child.”
“If the parties reach agreement on this, and one wishes to make their consent conditional on the performance of what they have agreed, I consider that within The Hague Convention the court can and, in many cases should, give effect to it.”
“Notwithstanding the provisions of the preceding Article, the judicial or administrative authority of the requested State is not bound to order the return of the child if the person, institution or other body which opposes its return establishes that: (a) the person, institution or other body having the care of the person of the child was not actually exercising the custody rights at the time of removal or retention, or had consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or retention; or (b) there is a grave risk that his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation. The judicial or administrative authority may also refuse to order the return of the child if it finds that the child objects to being returned and has attained an age and degree of maturity at which it is appropriate to take account of its views. In considering the circumstances referred to in this Article, the judicial and administrative authorities shall take into account the information relating to the social background of the child provided by the Central Authority or other competent authority of the child's habitual residence.”
“These children lived in France throughout their lives until December 1998. Their first language is French. Their father is, of course, a French speaker. The mother speaks French much better than she speaks English. The family had no connection with England until, in about 1997, the father came from Scotland to live here. And, in the light of the interview with A, there is no difficulty about the children accepting an order that they should go back to France.”