“Believe me I wouldn’t bother I will make it clear you are not welcome I should have stuck to my guns and kept everything ended after the wedding” [8 October 2016 ] and on9 October 2016 “I’m not going to work. Let’s be honest I can’t do this no more only time [A] is a pain is when you’re around. It’s just not going to work sorry I can’t live like this” and later on9 October 2016 “[A] is so upset, so I and you have upset everyone with the things you have said. I’m sorry but you are the problem like I said and have been saying for a long time”
“Yeah I’m ok punched the shit out of him went mental x”
“I recall saying to her on the evening that D died ‘why did you have to throw him so hard’. I had come home from work early one afternoon and [the mother] was in the front room is still in her dressing gown. [The mother] had D in her arms and shouted at him that she didn’t know was wrong with him; she threw him down in his bouncy chair in the front room. [The mother] was seated on the sofa and D was crying. I remember swearing at [the mother] and then comforting D who stopped crying. [The mother] upstairs and I took the boys for a 4-5 mile walk, then went to my grandparents’ house and told them and my mum what had happened”
“I was feeding babies, I prop them up on beanbag to feed. I came into living room. D was coughing. I put him on his belly on the dumbbell (for wind) milk started coming out of his nose. Picked him and rubbed his back, banging his back. D kept being sick (a few minutes) was coming out of his nose. One of D’s arms went solid (?) - I thought he was having a stroke so I called 999. I hit him 5 times sharply on his back and again on front as told on the phone. His arm was locked up, I told them on the phone he wasn’t getting better”
“… In addition there is also significant organisation in the subdural space which is associated with iron pigment deposition (haemosiderin). While the latter may develop a few days after haemorrhage, in this case they are relatively extensive and wellestablished suggesting that there was an event that occurred many more days (or more) before death. In my opinion the likely explanation for the findings in the central nervous system is that there have been two distinct episodes that account for the pathology; one is relatively recent(e.g. occurring close to the time of the collapse) and one which is more remote…”
“To these matters I would only add that in cases where repeated accounts are given of events surrounding injury and death, the court must think carefully about the significance or otherwise of any reported discrepancies. They may arise for a number of reasons. One possibility is of course that they are lies designed to hide culpability. Another is that they are lies told for other reasons. Further possibilities include faulty recollection or confusion at times of stress or when the importance of accuracy is not fully appreciated, or there may be inaccuracy or mistake in the record-keeping or recollection of the person hearing and relaying the accounts. The possible effects of delay and repeated questioning upon memory should also be considered, as should the effect on one person hearing accounts given by others. As memory fades, a desire to iron out wrinkles may not be unnatural - a process that might inelegantly be described as ‘story-creep’ - may occur without any necessary inference of bad faith.”
“I can’t say what I did to [C]”
“[Mother] went on to say that she had tried to arrange contact between [Y] and [B] however [Y] had been inconsistent in this. [Mother] stated that she felt uneasy letting [Y] see [B] on his own due to his short fuse and him playing mind games. She stated that she had tried it for a few hours recently however [D] did not arrive with [B] at the correct time to bring her back. [Mother] stated that she telephoned [Y] who informed her that he was in [X] and would not be returning [B]. [Mother] said that this really upsets her however [Y] showed up behind her with [B] stating that it was just a joke”