“These boys cannot go through the whole of their childhood not knowing their father, but at the same time it is extremely important for the father to understand that, if he is to make a further application for direct contact, he must address the findings which the justices have made. He needs to be able to satisfy this mother…”
“Often in these cases where domestic violence has been found too little weight … is given to the need for the father to change. It is often said that, notwithstanding the violence, the mother must nonetheless bring up the children with full knowledge in a positive image of their natural father and arrange for the children to be available for contact. Too often it seems to me the courts neglect the other side of that equation, which is that a father, like this father must demonstrate that he is a fit person to exercise contact; that he is not going to destabilise the family; that he is not going to upset the children and harm them emotionally.”
“The general principle that contact with the non-resident parent is in the interests of the child may sometimes have discouraged sufficient attention being paid to the adverse effects on children living in the household where violence occurred. … In a contact or other section 8 application, where allegations of other domestic violence are made which might have an effect on the outcome, those allegations must be adjudicated upon and found proved or not proved. It will be necessary to scrutinise such allegations which might not always be true, or may be grossly exaggerated. If, however, there is a firm basis for finding that violence has occurred, the psychiatric advice becomes very important. There is not, however, nor should there be, any presumption that on proof of domestic violence the offending parent has to surmount a prima facie barrier of no contact. As a matter of principle, domestic violence of itself cannot constitute a bar to contact. It is one factor in the difficult and delicate balancing exercise of discretion. … In this context, the ability of the offending parent to recognise his past conduct, be aware of a need to change, and make genuine efforts to do so, will be likely to be an important consideration.”
“High risk behaviours do not preclude treatment but necessitate a risk assessment prior to commencing treatment. Contact centres are not a long-term solution.”
“7(1) A court considering any question with respect to a child under this Act may … (b) ask a local authority to arrange for - (i) an officer of the authority; or (ii) such other person (…) as the authority considers appropriate to report to the court on such matters relating to the welfare of that child as are required to be dealt with in the report.”
“The situation as to the father spending time with the children needs addressing urgently, not least as it does not seem to be the mother herself who is driving the gap in contact, but the CAFCASS officer. Re-allocation would produce further delay.”