“… we have limited means and the costs against us (sic.) represents an undue and onerous burden. This is clearly beyond our means and will destroy our lives and make contact with [T] all the more challenging to afford, which bearing the circumstances will not be a kind or fair thing to do. I am [the father’s] partner and despite being named as a Respondent in this matter, I am not directly involved in that [T] is [the father’s] daughter and I am merely [the father’s] partner. It appears unfair and incorrect that I should be named as jointly and severally liable for these costs.”