“[X] has my full support and backing in this case. I hope in court on Friday this terrible error by Care Northampton is rectified and we can start to move on from all the stress and upset it has caused.”
“… when I was made aware of the fact that I legally had no rights in respect of [C] due to a significant error by the CARE Fertility Group Limited (CFGL), my whole world was turned upside down and this obviously had a significant effect on me and my ability to cope with life generally on a day to day basis. I was completely unable to deal with being told that I had not legal rights of parentage in respect of my [child]. I know that [C] wouldn’t understand this or wouldn’t view me any differently but that didn’t change how it had made me feel. I felt that I was an inferior person in [C]’s life so far as the outside world was concerned. I felt that the confidence that I had been given in the change in the law to allow same sex couples to have children and be considered legal parents had been snatched away from me. I simply felt that I was no more than a step parent to [C] rather than [C’s] actual parent who had been involved in every part of [C’s] life from deciding to have [C], the fertility process, [C’s] birth and then … upbringing. … A declaration from the court cannot take away the hurt and distress that I have felt from the moment that I found out about this issue until it will have been resolved, it also cannot undo the ongoing effects that this situation has caused …”
“Despite all that I have been through emotionally in this matter I felt that the CFGL empathised and understood how their negligent error had effected me and that they only wanted to assist me in putting matters right. However, having read the statement prepared on behalf of the clinic by …, I don’t believe that they have any understanding whatsoever about how this has affected me or the gravity of their mistake. Yes they accept in the statement that they made a mistake but they seem to somewhat try to pass it off as insignificant and non consequential in terms of the effect that this has had on me. I felt sick to my stomach when I read the statement … because I felt that they, of all people, would have at least recognised the harm and upset that they would have caused.”
“The reality is that this has had a massive traumatic and financial effect on my life.”
“If ever there was a situation calling for empathy, understanding, humanity, compassion and, dare one say it, common decency, never mind sincere and unqualified apology, it is surely this.”
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