“What a pleasure it was to visit these children in their home. Despite having only recently moved in, it was clear to me that they present at home there. ….. Whilst the children would appear to me to prefer to stay in England, I could not say that they object to returning to Belgium within the meaning of the Hague Convention but it is very clear to me that they wish to remain in the care of their mother… This family present as a loving unit and it is difficult to see how separating one of the children [C] from his siblings could be in anyone’s best interests. He clearly brings the fun element in his family. His outgoing personality is infectious and all around him could not help but smile in his presence. …. It would be impossible not to see how he brightened their lives and how they appreciate his presence and it was also clear how he benefited from the love and care he received from his elder siblings. The children present as a close sibling group and, in my assessment, should not be separated… Although the children tell me they do not wish contact with their father, it is encouraging that the mother was able to contemplate it taking place. Unfortunately, given the reports of their life with their father in Belgium, the father is aware that I am unable to endorse unsupervised contact wherever the children reside until an assessment is undertaken to ensure it is safe… Finally, it is invariably better for children to know that their parents are able to work together in their best interests and to that end I very much hope that this family is able to reach an agreement rather than leave the decision to the court.”
“Subject to the children and the mother agreeing to speak with the father on telephone/Skype and that there is some contact between them (which has not yet been agreed), the children’s guardian would be prepared to facilitate and observe a one-off meeting between the children and their father for the purpose of re-establishing the relationship. This could take place at the CAFCASS office in Bloomsbury or the CAFCASS RCJ room whenever the father is able to travel to the UK.”