“Section 54 goes to the most fundamental aspects of status and, transcending even status, to the very identity of the child as a human being: who he is and who his parents are. It is central to his being, whether as an individual or as a member of his family. As Ms Isaacs correctly puts it, this case is fundamentally about X’s identity and his relationship with the commissioning parents. Fundamental as these matters must be to commissioning parents they are, if anything, even more fundamental to the child. A parental order has, to adopt Theis J’s powerful expression, a transformative effect, not just in its effect on the child’s legal relationships with the surrogate and commissioning parents but also, to adopt the guardian’s words in the present case, in relation to the practical and psychological realities of X’s identity. A parental order, like an adoption order, has an effect extending far beyond the merely legal. It has the most profound personal, emotional, psychological, social and, it may be in some cases, cultural and religious, consequences. It creates what Thorpe LJ in Re J (Adoption: Non-Patrial) [1998] INLR 424, 429, referred to as “the psychological relationship of parent and child with all its far-reaching manifestations and consequences.”
“I beg to move amendment No. 177, in clause 54, page 47, line 13, after ‘wife’, insert ‘who, in the case of couples who are neither married nor in a civil partnership, must have been in a relationship for a minimum period of twelve months. The amendment would insert a provision whereby couples who fall within the category in the clause but who are not married or in a civil partnership must have been in a prior relationship, and would stipulate a minimum time period for that relationship. Some hon. Members may feel that it is nit-picking, but I draw their attention to the differences between various provisions of clause 54. Subsection (2) refers to an “enduring family relationship”, but subsection (11), the retrospective provision, makes no reference to it. Is that a drafting oversight, or is there a specific reason why an enduring family relationship is not relevant for those trying to obtain retrospective parental orders under the Bill that they could not obtain under the 1990 Act? Another point that I wish to make—I hope to catch your eye if we get to a stand part debate, Mr. Hood—is that greater clarification seems to be needed of what an enduring family relationship is. As has been said, there is absolutely no necessity for a couple, whether same-sex or different-sex, to be in an intimate relationship to get the benefit of many of the clauses that we have discussed. I am trying to establish why there is a difference between subsections of the clause, and particularly why subsection (11) does not state that an enduring relationship is a fundamental requirement for getting a parental order.”
“I can see that you are following what the hon. Gentleman says as closely as I am, Mr. Hood, as we go delicately through these important issues. Most of us were listening intently. [Interruption.] I was. It is very important, and I want to understand exactly what the hon. Gentleman is saying, although the tone of my voice made me sound as though I did not mean it. Clause 54 relates to how parenthood may be transferred by a court order when a woman has carried a child as a surrogate on behalf of a couple who cannot have children themselves. Under the 1990 Act, parental orders transferring parenthood can only be made for married couples. As I have mentioned, the Bill extends the provision to include civil partners and couples who are not married or in a civil partnership but who live as partners in an enduring family relationship, which is what the hon. Gentleman’s questions deal with. When the 1990 Act was introduced, it included a provision allowing married couples who had had a child through surrogacy before the Act came into force to apply retrospectively for a parental order. The Bill mirrors that by including a similar provision for people who were not entitled to apply for a parental order before because they were not married. They must apply within six months of clause 54 coming into force. The hon. Gentleman’s amendment would add that a couple applying retrospectively must have been in a relationship for a minimum of 12 months if they are not married or in a civil partnership. Surrogacy can be a route that couples look to when they are unable to have children themselves, and I do not believe—I am sure that members of the Committee do not either—that couples would enter into it lightly. The process of a couple deciding that they are both happy with such an arrangement is complex, and they have to find a surrogate who would be suitable to carry their child. That can take a number of years, so in most cases, the couple will have gone through the process together. In addition, when the court is considering the application, it would have to be satisfied that the couple were in an enduring family relationship for the parental order to be granted. As part of that consideration, it is more than likely that the court will consider the length of the couple’s relationship as well as their commitment to each other. The Government are prepared to continue with the arrangement whereby the family division of the High Court would take the decisions on what made for an enduring relationship that was suitable and in the best interests of the child for a parental order to be made. There is no reference to this enduring family relationship in subsection (11), to which the hon. Gentleman referred, because to make an application to the court under section 54, if the couple are not married or in a civil partnership, they must be in an enduring family relationship. Therefore, it is not necessary for it to be in the legislation in the way that the hon. Gentleman is suggesting. I am sure that the hon. Gentleman would agree with the principle that the family division of the High Court, with its experience, is the best place to test whether a relationship is an enduring one. That decision is better made by the courts than by Parliament seeking to put in place arbitrary time periods or definitions, however well-meaning we may want to be. The ultimate test when issuing the parental order is what is best for the child.”
“it would certainly appear that [P] and [B] are in a loving relationship; for example they related to each other in an emotionally attuned, affectionate way. It was clear they had a shared knowledge of each other’s background and family relationships, and I observed warmth between them.”