“UPON the court recognising the wishes of J … The court of its own motion makes a shared residence order in favour of the … father and the … mother in respect of J … … the manner in which J is to share his time between the parents is to be decided exclusively by J himself after consultation with both parents.”
“I never harassed Mrs K; I never molested Mrs K. It was just a divorce tactic that [her] solicitors dreamt up. In April 2009 … Mrs K begged me, begged me with tears running down her eyes, begged me to stay in the marriage … And what was going on in the background? From January, you see it from the legal fees being paid, January to June she was plotting with … the divorce from hell.”
“… my reaction when I read this is that it is simply bad on its face. It does not comply with the rules … If it is to be said that perjury has been committed, one has got, at the minimum, to specify in the application form the precise occasion on which it is said that perjury was committed and there has then got to be proper evidence in support. So far as I can see there is not a proper particularisation of the alleged contempt and there may be, for all I know, evidence which he would wish to rely upon, but you cannot start committal proceedings simply by saying, “I am going to rely upon all the evidence in the case”
“it is really more indicative of issues that have gone on and it’s not something that I wish to follow at any future point in respect of committal in respect of perjury.”
“THE PRESIDENT: … That is your committal application. Is that an application which you are actually actively pursuing? A: No, your Lordship. It’s struck out. THE PRESIDENT: Very well. In that case, I will make an order reciting that [the father] informs me that he does not propose to pursue that application. I will strike it out.”
“In substance [Mr Bagchi] takes the same point in relation to each of your two applications. He says that they are simply repetitions of applications you have made in the past; that the applications to similar effect you have made in the past were dismissed; that there was no appeal; and that nothing has happened since the applications were last made and dismissed to justify bringing the same matter back to court. I think I have correctly summarised that.”
“That being so, I think the convenient way forward – and this is as much for your benefit as for my benefit – if Mr Bagchi at this stage could take me through the documents so that we can understand by reference to the documents precisely why he said I should proceed in that way. That, I think, would be helpful.”
“The second part of what Mr Bagchi has been doing for our assistance is to indicate what the basis of his complaint is about your current applications. He has set it out very clearly in his skeleton argument and set it out again very clearly now. He says that the applications which you are making to me today are indistinguishable from the applications you made to Mrs Justice Hogg last July. He has taken me to the key passages in the transcript of the proceedings before Mrs Justice Hogg which show that you explicitly raised in front of her, for example, the question of school fees; and he has taken us to the order in which she dismissed all your applications.”
“Now, his point is that you cannot simply go from one judge to another. You cannot renew the applications which were dismissed before by Mrs Justice Hogg. He says your remedy, if you did not like the order she made, was to appeal and you did not appeal. Therefore you are stuck with, and I am stuck with, Mrs Justice Hogg’s order of July last year. He says that is the end of your applications unless you can point to some new development which has taken place since July of last year … Is there some new development? Has there been some change … since July 2014? … What is it?”
“[The father]: … the emotional threat that I was under … is a threat that was made straightaway at the beginning of the divorce – “If I don’t get what I want I will see to it you will never see your children again” … I was being blackmailed all the way through. THE PRESIDENT: How were you being blackmailed? What was the blackmail? A: That I would never see my children again unless she got what she wanted.”
“THE PRESIDENT: One of the things which you quite clearly said to me – and I am going to repeat it so that I can make sure I have not misunderstood – is that at the time when you were going to court on the financials your wife was blackmailing you saying “sign up to this, agree to this or you will never see the children again”
“THE PRESIDENT: I just do not follow that. How does this affect the financial orders that were made in court? A: What she is trying to do is she did not get all the money, so she is suing X, who then have to sue me and the money goes back that way. If I was to explain the transaction to you, you would understand. THE PRESIDENT: How does that affect the validity and force of the order which the District Judge made in this court in this case? A: Because in fact it’s undermining the order. It is a total breach of it, is it not? Her complaint that she is making is in breach of what – really we should have no financial claims against each other, but in effect what she is doing is she is making a claim against me but in an indirect way, but it is pretty obvious.”