“It is an elementary proposition that findings of fact must be based on evidence, including inferences that can properly be drawn from the evidence and not on suspicion or speculation.”
“Evidence cannot be evaluated and assessed in separate compartments. A Judge in these difficult cases must have regard to the relevance of each piece of evidence to the other evidence and to exercise an overview of the totality of the evidence in order to come to the conclusion of whether the case put forward by the local authority has been made out to the appropriate standard of proof.”
“A temptation there described is ever present in family proceedings too and in my judgment should be as firmly resisted there as the courts are required to resist it in criminal law. In other words, there has to be factored into every case which concerns a discrete etiology giving rise to significant harm a consideration as to whether the cause is unknown. That affects neither the burden nor the standard of proof. It is simply a factor to be taken into account in deciding whether the causation advanced by the one shouldering the burden of proof is established on the balance of probabilities.”
“… it is not uncommon for witnesses in these cases to tell lies in the course of the investigation and the hearing. The Court must be careful to bear in mind that the witness may lie for various reasons, such as shame, misplaced loyalty, panic, fear, distress and the fact that the witness has lied about some matters does not mean that he or she has lied about everything: See R v Lucas[1981] QB 720 .”
“Affidavits, particularly affidavits for use in an ex parte hearing, should be drawn with care and should be accurate, balanced and fair, and, by analogy with Mareva or Anton Piller applications, ex parte affidavits should contain material, if known, which militates against the relief sought. Local authority solicitors should be particularly aware that they owe a duty to the court in this respect.”
“I accept that something has happened to C as her behaviour is very worrying. I do not know what has happened to her but I accept that she could have been abused by a family member.”
“Well, as she stayed out at my sister. She stayed round at one of the boy’s girlfriends or that or something. It could have happened when she went out. I don’t know.”
“Dad enters, P jumps on dad, K and the A gives him a hug. A reluctant and watches but soon seems comfortable with dad. All the children sit laughing and joking with him. Summary of contact records that children enjoy dad’s company. Lots of hugs and kisses by children to dad and he reciprocates.”
“The children were very excited to see him and jumped up and down shouting ‘daddy’. All give him kisses and cuddles. P wants to play outside with him. Summary of contact: Dad interacts and plays with children. Children all jump for joy to see dad and give him kisses and cuddles.”
“The social workers agree that C sometimes says what she thinks people want to hear so ascertaining wishes and feelings may be difficult to ascertain.”
“I said that Miss G had been very supportive of C. She had been empathising with her saying that she had had a very difficult childhood herself and had self-harmed but it had not helped her. She said Miss G was trying to discourage C from self-harming.”
“I just wanted to remind you that I love you a lot, thank god every day for me with a friend that is just simply amazing… remember that I love you”
“A love that lasts forever, a friendship none can sever. A courage never failing though evil seems prevailing”
“The ability to provide this at the University of Texas at Austin is as immediate a contribution a public university can make to education. It effects (sic) people’s relationship with literature.”
“I hate it here”, “I hate my school”, “I miss my family”, “I love my family” and “I want to kill everyone so much”
“I hate everyone but not my family, I love my family a lot. Please let me go home now because I miss my family and I do not like it here and I hate you because you will not let me go.”
“I do not know whether C was abused or not. As her voice in social care I am directed by our research at the local authority even though the court may not be… C’s behaviour led to a very strong correlation with sexual abuse. The first time she presented as a victim of sexual abuse was on 17th December.”
“C’s behaviour. I was hearing all sorts of things from the school and what she had done… It’s the skill of a social worker to ascertain what is the likely cause of her behaviours.’
“I was told this judge doesn’t like the use of the word ‘disclosure’ for allegations by children. I understand that courts in general don’t like the use of the word ‘disclosure’.”
“[C] disclosed sexual abuse by her father during this meeting. She told me that her father comes up to her room and does really bad things. Through discussion it was established that she clearly understood that there were areas of her body that no one should touch and this is where her father touched her. [C] found it extremely hard to expand on this although did manage to share that her father told her that she must not tell anyone and that the bad things would happen if she did. It was also established that [C] knew about her body, her sexual organs and other people’s. After ensuring I was confident [C] knew what sexual abuse was, she confirmed that this is what had been happening to her.”
“Because of her words, in my professional opinion I felt she was the victim or at risk of sexual abuse. It is important that a social worker should be brave enough to say this.”
“She asked me previously if I would speak for her and I was exceptionally mindful to pick the words carefully and check with her when I did speak. C would be asked something and then look at me with a very intense stare, and I would venture an answer which I checked with her and which were words, comments, etc. that she had used herself.”
“We both had it in our minds that C had been sexually abused but was having great difficulty telling us. The way C talked to us it was more than ordinary abuse”
“C tried to move on to other worries, especially around abuse by her father and that it was not just physical abuse. She was unable to progress this and I did not push her. I asked C about the comments her parents made about Miss G, apparently telling C that she herself had suffered abuse from her own father. C explained that Miss G had only told her that she used to self-harm because of her father and she had not been told anything else.”
“C said, as she now has many times, ‘I am ready to talk about the big thing, I keep trying but I can’t find the right words’. C said, ‘I’m ready to talk I want to. I just can’t’ and then said that she was ready to. She said she had tried to speak to Miss G and Miss Z, but that she kept getting interrupted. C said it was the ‘big thing, the really big thing’. She also said she was not allowed to speak to Miss G or Miss Z anymore and would not expand on this.”
‘When a court determines a question with regard to the upbringing of a child, the child’s welfare shall be of paramount consideration.’
“I told her it was not her fault in any way. I told her that she was so brave to have spoken out about what was going on at home. The only people to blame for what is going are her mum and dad. They are the adults in the whole situation so they should not have done what they have done. We talked about the threats and lies that had been told by mum and dad and the reasons why they have done this (to try to cover things up). I made it perfectly clear that she was in no way to blame at all, that it was only mum and dad to blame. C then said that she was, ‘Mental’. At this point I got fairly angry (inside!) as C had said this before. Mum and dad and some family members have called her this for a long time. I told her that it made me angry because it was absolutely not true. She may have a temper but that does not make her mental!!! ‘I also said that I guessed that mum and dad had said lots of horrible things to her and she said, ‘Yes, they have’ so I said that they were all lies, that none of them were true. I pointed out that she was a lovely, caring, generous girl who everyone that had met her liked a lot!!!”
“C said, ‘A started to remember stuff that happened when she was little. Stuff I said she will remember if she stopped moaning all the time’. C chatted away, ‘It will be good if A can remember it all as that will help her so people stop moaning at her and blaming her’. She said she thinks A will remember soon. She said something about A seeing people soon to talk to them.”
“C sort of agreed to see a psychologist and C’s foster carer and C talked about this a bit on the way as C had said, ‘They want me to talk about things’.”
“SW says what C had said on2nd October 2013 . C has begun to share a great deal of information both relating to sexual abuse and the physical abuse by her mother and father.”
“Before her ABE in October 2013 we, namely myself, SWA ‘Y’, SW and C had two meetings. The purpose of the meetings was to establish if C knew the names of various parts of her body. When asked if she knew the names of parts of her body she would just point and would not say anything. C was really nervous about attending for her ABE interview and we just wanted to make her feel more comfortable about this. At that meeting we did not suggest any names for body parts for her. We were just trying to make her feel more comfortable. It was not along meeting, about half an hour. When it was clear that she did not want to answer it was not pursued.” “After these meetings myself and Miss Z asked C if it would be easier if she wrote down what she wanted to say. She would not answer immediately but she came later and informed me that she would and that she was, ‘Ready to say’.”
“C had stated to me that her father had touched her. She said this before she went for her ABE interview. After she started the statement he had touched her, when she was asked where or how she was not able to say. She would just not answer.”
“C disclosed again but in more detail to SW at school that she was raped by her father, B and V. C clearly identified what rape meant. C said that S and J had taken her to the home of V. She was supposed to be staying in the spare room. She didn’t want to as V was looking at her funny. So she then slept in the same room as J and S. She said she was scared of V and she did not want to go to sleep. S and J remained in the room together on a bed. C said she thought they were asleep. C then said that V came into the room and got into her bed (please see detailed write up on …). She said that he did the same as dad and B. V raped her. C stated that she felt they had won and requested that SW tells them. She said that she thought J and S were asleep during the rape….. She also confirmed it happening to all of them. She named A, P and D, she didn’t know about K. She confirmed sexual abuse and that he did it to all of them. She was highly distressed so the identity of the ‘he’ was not clear. C said he has not told SW all of it and she has more to tell but can’t find the words.”
‘C was nervous and scared about what was going on, according to Miss G. She and Miss Z were comforting her on that day, saying that no one was judging her. C said she was very scared about telling things and had been told that she could talk to them if she wished to say anything. They took her to the library and asked what she wanted to say. She then froze again and did not say anything for 15 minutes and then wrote down the word, “sex”. The picture painted is as an extraordinary one: C sitting in the school library, the two doubtless expectant teachers in utter silence for 15 minutes. 15 minutes, the court notes is, a very long time, especially for a child and especially so in silence. Astonishingly, Miss G then asked C, “Was it your dad who did this to you?” pointing, as she did so, to the word ‘sex’
“At half three he came in. V came in. His name is V. V came in the room and he went in the bed and took off his clothes. C writes down a name and question mark on a sheet attached and he make me have sex.”
‘C didn’t seem to be able to say anything more about sexual abuse.’
“When asked at the station why at the station today (sic), she said. ‘I got raped when I was 6. Rape is when someone makes you have sex and causes to have a baby’. Happened in a bedroom at house when no one else present.”
“And the sexual things that happened to you, is there any other times when something sexuals (sic) happened to you with your dad that you want to tell me about? Can you remember the age that you were? Let’s work through your ages, so we’ve got you at 6… where you had been raped by your dad.”
“During the break obviously you’ve had time just to try and get yourself together a little bit and where we are going to now I believe is you want to talk to me about other people (sic).”
“She told SW and SWA ‘Y’ she was ready to disclose [This makes it clear that SW and SWA ‘Y’ would have been there on that day] what a fantastic step forward and she managed to get enough information about dad to get him arrested. A massive step forward for C.”
“I was presented with C wanting to talk to us but it would get to the stage when she didn’t want to talk and we would stop, and then she would say she wanted to say more so we had another interview.”
“We asked her a few questions about these drawings. C wouldn’t tell us a great deal about the babies but she said the babies were her babies.”
“C has alleged that she has had two pregnancies aged 10 and 11 and she was given the morning after pill”. (The court notes, with growing exasperation by this stage, this is just another of many important documents in the case which are undated. This suggests carelessness if not negligence on the part of the local authority.) SWA ‘Y’ agreed that she had typed this entry. She could not recall whether she was told about the ages of 10 and 11 on 31st January. She did have a couple of conversations with PO after 31st January, but in neither did they discuss pregnancies. Nor did she discuss the pregnancies with C again, although the school note on 4th February C was writing about losing babies. She then changed her evidence, “I talked to C about the pregnancies after 31st January”
“No offence, our family ain't really interested in sex, innit. Me, all I want to do is just to hang around with my mates. Not interested in sex or going on porn, too busy with my mates.”
“I am now telling the truth because I realise in order to move forward and […] I need to be open and honest about the past and deal with these issues.”
“Clearly this has impacted on me and I am willing to undertake any therapy or counselling that is required. Because I am aware of what happened, I will make sure that I do everything to protect my children and will be aware of the triggers, and also have insight to the fact that it is very difficult for children to talk of these things. I will also make sure that my children are protected from F and any extended family who disbelieved me … I will do everything in my power to make sure my children are always protected from this man.”
“I noted that when I was reading her own file/notes that she had told a worker that she was abused as a child. She said, yes, she had, and that her stepfather, confirmed as F had sexually abused her. She told her mum who did not believe her and who then sent her off to live with Aunty B who did not believe her either until she caught it happening. T said this is why she does not get on well with mum and dad and why she won’t leave her children with them. T did not think he had sexually abused other family members but noted that she was now thinking maybe C had also been (she does not know why C was accommodated). T is willing to give a statement to the police but would like me to be there. She later said over the weekend that she is frightened of the family taking revenge and would like to be moved.”
“SW from the children’s social services department in Luton keeps ringing me and keeps trying to contact me regarding me to make a statement about my dad, F, saying he had molested me at a young age to which of my knowledge none of this has happened. I am not willing to make a statement as it would be a false allegation. In my eye SW is dealing with my sister’s case, C, as she has no success in that one she is trying to manipulate and intimidate me to make a statement which I will not do. I would like SW to have no contact with me.”
“I spent almost three hours with C [yet another three hour long interview, the court notes]. She was in a grim place. She would/could not explain what made her so sad. She said she wanted to go home and we talked this through.”
“C referred time and again to the ‘big thing, the really big thing’. She said she feels ‘dirty, bad, death is the only way out’. I told her that T had talked to me about her childhood. C looked interested and asked me what she had said. She said she knew about had happened to T, that F used to come in at night and get into T’s bed and do stuff. This is when they all shared a room. C would pretend to be asleep. She did not know whether the others saw. C had told her about it and told her it was a secret. C looked very sad and heavy and said she did not know what to do, that she was young and she didn’t know I asked her.”
“C then said she knew what had happened to her sister T when she was younger and said that T had told her what her father, F, had done to her. C said that T had told her and said it was a secret. She said she saw and heard what was happening outside of T telling her because when they shared a room her father would come in at night-time and get into T’s bed. C would pretend to be asleep. C advised that she did not know whether L or A had seen. I asked C whether she wanted to tell someone and she said she had but didn’t know who she could tell or how. She pointed out that she was only little and didn’t know how to deal with it all. I asked C whether she had worried that what she had been told and what she had seen had also happened to her. C said, ‘It did. He did the same to me’. I asked her whether she had told anyone and she looked away and shook her head. C stated the abuse happened when she was on her own. She asked me if I had spoken to L and A about his issue.”
“Yes, this was needed for C … She needed a context for her own life… Young people think they are alone… Keir Starmer shows that we should not keep things secret from young people. There is a progressive movement led by Keir Starmer which I hope is adopted by the courts.”
“It was in accordance with social worker practice… It is a practice all good social workers use… The fact that the court sometimes does not catch up with research is very unfortunate.”
“T confirmed what C had told me on Friday, that she had told C about the sexual abuse by Father when they were younger and gave a few more details. T was surprised that C had remembered it. T said it started when she was very young but could not recall her age but that it continued until she left home. She had told C because he had felt close to her. T was clear that she had told her mum.”
“T says that she was not sexually abused by stepdad but social services are saying that she said this”
“T told us social services had become involved with her family almost a year ago when C reported being abused by the father. Social services had told her not to maintain contact with her family”
“T also talked to us about the accusation of sexual abuse and told us that although her sister is accusing her stepfather of sexual abuse, and also indicating thatT was abused by him, T was denying the accusation.”
“My sister said my dad sexually abused me. It hasn’t happened to me. My social worker and my mum’s social worker “Social workers” say it happened to me. It hasn’t happened to me.”
“She described receiving a text from her mother’s social worker telling her, ‘to stop being in denial’. She found it on her phone and read it out to me.”
“I have and I am and keep say that my dad did something to two and I keep no and they call me a lie.”
“What else did they say? Why, what’s your dad done?”
“They say that he had sexly abused me when he never did that to me.”
“Oh my god. Why would they make that up? Someone must have been saying summit to them ‘bout you all.”