“I am of the view that the one day or event in a woman’s life that should be so cherished and remain indelible in her memory is the day of her marriage. This appears not to be so in this case where the respondent has averred inconsistent dates and places of her marriage.”
"Your allegation that [R] and I were never married is totally false. We contracted a traditional marriage in Lagos. The marriage was later legally registered under the Nigerian law."
"I fell in love with him but returned to my home in Ghana, remaining in telephone contact... Later that year we arranged to meet in Lagos, Nigeria. When we met, the Respondent proposed to marry and I accepted. We married in Lagos, Nigeria on20 June 1977 . Unfortunately, I no longer have a copy of the marriage certificate to exhibit but I do confirm the marriage was registered as required by the laws in Nigeria at that time. I no longer have a copy of the marriage certificate as my estranged husband returned to the matrimonial home one day in or around 1989 or 1990 and in my absence removed many of my personal documents. When I challenged him he said he took the documents and ‘we will see how you will get your documents back. You know I can do anything in Nigeria’. However, I am able to exhibit a sworn affidavit, filed with the Lagos state Magistrates' court in Nigeria, from my uncle who attended and witnessed the marriage, together with 2 letters sent in 1986 and 1990 by the Respondent which confirm I am his wife ..."