“A court may only make a care order or supervision order if it is satisfied (a) that the child concerned is suffering, or is likely to suffer, significant harm and (b) that the harm, or likelihood of harm, is attributable to (i) the care given to the child, or likely to be given to him if the order were not made, not being what it would be reasonable to expect a parent to give to him; or (ii) the child’s being beyond parental control.”
“only in exceptional circumstances and when motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child’s welfare, in short, when nothing else will do. In many cases and particularly where the feared harm has not yet materialised and may never do so, it will be necessary to explore and attempt alternative solutions.”
“based on her own needs rather than those originating in and being signalled by H and her responding to these.”
“[the mother] appears to have no awareness of how her unresolved loss and trauma may affect her parenting of H. In my opinion she also has unresolved issues of attachment in her relationship with her own mother which are reflected in her relationship with A and could possibly re-emerge in her relationship with H.”
“it is of concern that, without an understanding of the need for change and the recognition of how her previous care impacted on her children, there is no basis for change to occur. Therefore, there is a likelihood for re-emerging patterns of her same style of parenting in the future in respect of H…While she has made brief reference that her parenting could have been better, she has been unable to identify how this might be, other than in a global sense without any coherent context. She has not been able to convey any indication of a growth in her empathic understanding.”