“I am extremely surprised that you have advised your client that he is entitled to make an application to the court for a contact order. As [the child] is almost sixteen I do not think a court would want to be seised of this matter, and would take the view that if [the child] wants to see her father it is up to her to contact him...Kindly inform your client that, if [the child] wishes to contact her father in the future, she will make that decision herself.”
“Should you insist upon proceeding, we will treat this as ‘litigation conduct’ and we will ask the court to make an order for costs against your client, even though we are in Children Act proceedings. We take the view that any application to the court for a child of [the child’s] age is not only misplaced, but is a form of harassment as well as an abuse of the court process.”
“We will give you one final chance to withdraw the proceedings, failing which we will be asking the court to dismiss the application with costs. The costs schedule will be served upon you prior to the hearing.”
“Our client has no intention of asking the court to impose an order against [the child’s] wishes. His application to the court has been made as a last resort. He has repeatedly offered to attend a mediation service with your client and it is a matter of great regret that your client has refused all such offers. In the circumstances, our client has no alternative but to seek the court’s assistance in this matter at the hearing tomorrow.”
“…the CAFCASS officer has told us that, for whatever reason, [the child] feels that her father can be controlling. It all amounts to pressure. …in relation to the issue of contact, [the child] has made her views quite well known, that she wishes to think about whether she wishes to contact her father after her GCSEs. In relation to indirect contact, [the father’s counsel] asked the CAFCASS officer about whether it was appropriate for the father to write to her and [the officer] said ‘Yes’, and obviously I would ask that that be done after she completes her GCSEs and if she wants to reply then she can do so.”
“The court has a broad discretion to make such order as it thinks just, and the court has to consider in the circumstances whether it is right to order the father to pay costs, whether by reason of his litigation conduct or simply because it is the right thing to do. That appears to be the test.”
“Am I sympathetic on a human basis to any parent concerned about their child? Of course the court is, but this is a court and it is costly to bring proceedings. This is not a meeting house. Although [counsel for the father] said that he simply wished to come here to establish the child’s wishes and feelings, it is not appropriate to use this court simply to do that through the means of conciliation. I appreciate the establishment of wishes and feelings of the child is part and parcel of the process, but the father should have stood back and asked himself whether really there was any chance at all - whatever she said to the CAFCASS officer - of the court being willing to make any order at all. I agree with [the solicitor for the mother] that this was an entirely misconceived application where the result and conclusion was absolutely foregone. She is nearly sixteen years of age. It would be highly unusual for the court to make an order and the father should have thought about that…”
“…It also retains the essential feature of the FHDRA as the forum for the parties to be helped to reach agreement as to, and understanding of, the issues that divide them. It recognises that, having reached agreement, parties may need assistance in putting it into effect in a co-operative way.”
“The revised programme is designed to assist parties to reach safe agreements where possible, to provide a forum in which to find the best way to resolve issues in each individual case and to promote outcomes that are sustainable, that are in the best interests of children and that take account of their perspectives.”
“…this is a court…this is not a meeting house.”
“…it is not appropriate to use this court simply to [establish the child’s wishes and feelings] through the means of conciliation.”
“Permission to appeal may be given only where - (a) the court considers that the appeal would have a real prospect of success; or (b) there is some other compelling reason why the appeal should be heard.”
“The general approach of appeal courts is one of reluctance to interfere with costs orders…As is well known, orders for costs are very rarely disturbed [per Judge LJ in a case which is then cited].”
“It is no longer the role of the court simply to provide a level playing field and to referee whatever game the parties choose to play upon it. The court is concerned to ensure that judicial and court resources are appropriately and proportionately used in accordance with the requirements of justice.”
“The cost of the exercise will have been out of all proportion to what has been achieved. The game will not merely not have been worth the candle, it will not have been worth the wick.”
“Proportionality - In exceptional but appropriate cases the appeal court may decline to hear an appeal on the basis that further litigation is disproportionate to the costs and/or issues in the case (Cook v. Plummer…).”
“Is it proportionate that this court should permit her to do so? I have reached the firm conclusion that it is not.”