“FOR THE IMPORTANT PEOPLE TO LISTEN TO US.”
“Given the number of moves he has experienced at a time which is crucial for the formation of attachments, it is not surprising that S demonstrates behaviour which is indicative of insecure attachment. He is indiscriminately affectionate towards people he does not know. He readily approached me and wanted to sit on my knee within minutes of me arriving at the foster home and wanted to be physically close to me. On my departure he asked if he could come home with me.”
“I would be concerned about the children’s legal status in the future should no adoptive placement be found for the boys. They would in reality be existing in something of a legal limbo. I understand that should this situation arise, the High Court has power to grant leave to the adoption agency to revoke the freeing orders. The Local Authority could at the same time seek Care Orders. If such orders were granted the Local Authority would have the same duties and responsibilities towards A and S as it would towards any other child in its care.”
“[They] were experienced and competent carers, and all involved with A and S believed, up until February 2008, that the placements were positive, settled and happy... Both A and S were receiving therapy sessions during their placement. I believe these were supported well by [the Bs]. A clear structure and boundaries were in place in placement with incentives for positive behaviour which the boys appeared to respond well to. A and S were secure and fully integrated into their family. [The Bs] encouraged good manners and worked on training good habits and tidiness.”
“The incident led to the Bs having to stop fostering. It was a rescue A and S did not necessarily want and the disruption and destruction became apparent in their regressed behaviour and insecurity.”
“By July 2008 when A and S moved to the [SGs], the stress and accumulated anxiety of another placement move (either their 16th and 14th main placement or with respite included, their 41st and 39th) was little short of trying to ask the [SGs] as foster carers to manage a runaway express train into a siding without a collision. S was almost 11 years old and A 13 years old. They were bigger, hormonally imbalanced and unused to the very different new style of carers they now found themselves with. They would still have unresolved feelings about the abrupt loss of their former home with [the Bs]. The [SGs] had little real information as to the boys’ history of disrupted placements and there was a new Social Worker… who had not met the boys before.”
“In my opinion, S’s ability to learn, concentrate and respond to tasks was considerably hampered by his anxiety and stress from not knowing if his children’s home was to close. When I saw him at [the home], both he and staff were anxious about the impact the closure may have on him and the other small group of children affected.”
“What conceivable sense would it make to move A somewhere else?”
“In my opinion, the delay in notifying their mother and paternal aunt who had cared for them, notwithstanding the freeing order status, ought to have led to the IRO recommending notification be given to all the previous birth family that the children were now fostered and would not be adopted. If the consequences are now a shock for A and S in finding a mother who is presentable and remorseful about letting them down, this is entirely a result of the Local Authority not having planned and considered the implications of the boys’ altered status on their duty to inform the birth family of the change of plan.”
“S and A are profoundly damaged by their particular childhood journey through the care system, symbolised in their Freeing Order status remaining in place all of 10 years later; a relic of the optimism and good intentions which surrounded the early adoption plans.”
“Currently, there are still verbal outbursts but not violence.”
“Nevertheless, my reading of the social work records is A has been less traumatised than his brother and a considerable feature of this has been the survival of his current placement and the separation from S. A has been able to feel he can trust [the SGs], whereas S has experienced another profound loss and further moves. The separation has enabled A to have more time to be looked after without the relentless competition and rivalry which has featured throughout A and S’s childhood.”
“S is an extremely ‘damaged’ child... also ‘damaged’ by the numerous changes of placement and carers… He is highly impulsive with little control over his emotions. He thus experiences explosive outbursts of anger during which he can be highly aggressive towards property and toward others... The absence of a secure primary attachment has not equipped him with the necessary resources to manage his heightened emotions. When frustrated he reacts like a toddler, throwing a temper tantrum and hitting out at everything round him. S therefore needs to be cared for by highly experienced professional carers in a highly controlled environment with set routines and clear expectations of behaviour.”
“S presents as a quite damaged boy. Unlike his brother, A, there are major problems in: i. Superficial emotionality; ii. Lack of ability to connect with his feelings; iii. Poor emotional regulation; iv. Impulsivity; v. Poor social and communication skills and ability to make and sustain relationships; vi. Major problems in his relationships with his peers (he gets on better with adults); vii. Low levels of considerateness and ability to identify with others; viii. Sustaining attention and focus and remaining calm and on task; ix. Distractibility. He has a sense of being picked on and sees all of his problems as being caused by others. This refers to current problems as there is a surprising lack of anger or blame in relation to the many adverse and horrible things he has experienced. … There is an absence of identity beyond that conferred by others and an absence of a cohesive personality structure. In my opinion, S’s early experiences and experiences throughout his childhood account for… : i. His huge relationship problems; ii. His very poor emotional regulation; temper control problems; iii. His limitations in experiencing and responding to emotion and emotional cues – emotional shallowness and lack of reciprocity. This can be called emotional illiteracy. An important factor is that everything went wrong in his life at a critical time – around 7 months of age (if there were even a more positive time prior to that). This time (around 8-18 months) is the critical time for developing attachment and patterns of attachment. In fact, this period saw the ‘loss’ of his mother and 3 further moves in quick succession. This has probably been disastrous for him. … To my mind he presents… as someone who never developed any form of attachment when young rather than that he developed a disorganised pattern.”
“The one thing I want to do today is apologise unreservedly to both the boys in court. I clearly got it wrong… The one thing about this whole situation that has troubled me the most is the denial of the opportunity to mum to come back into this case. It troubles me deeply. Again, I would seek to apologise to the boys for that.”
“In my opinion, it is only by considering the total accumulation of placements A and S have been sent to, is it possible to encompass the extent of the disruption to their lives in care. In my opinion the consequences of such moves and all of its effects on them has significantly contributed S and A’s inability to trust – without which it is impossible to feel secure or to form safe attachments. A and S have been repeatedly let down and removed even from those who were for much of the time loving towards them that we can [hardly] begin to estimate the damage done.”
“As far as I can discover, it has not been the intention of any one person in LCC’s care or legal staff (excluding the above foster carers) to ever fail the boys or act negligently but the accumulative process of regulation, policy and procedure has in my opinion significantly affected them in their years in care. As in all such cases of children ‘Lost in Care’ it is rare to find any one person who is responsible …”
“Finally, in my view, there does seem to me to be a potentially wider issue arising from cases such as this, of the need for Local Authorities to be diligent in bringing changes of Placement Orders back to court under theAdoption and Children Act 2002 … where Adoption orders are not pursued or an adoption fails.”
“The use of respite care in general is commonly a default mechanism to protect the foster placement from breakdown. When respite care is consistent and reliable the effect on the child can be benign as going camping might be, but as we see with S and A it has, in my opinion, directly added to their by now hardened and institutional response to being moved about, with emotions perhaps more akin with the uncertainty and anxiety of travellers being put out on the road and finding new camps. Far from having a few transitions of placement over the years, both A and especially S have had a bewildering array of respite care. The behaviour described… illustrates how S in particular has sadly and dangerously learnt to see family life as a temporary facade where emotional warmth cannot be trusted and even those who say they care always end up throwing you out. This requires particularly bizarre mechanisms for self survival. … There have been far more moves as opposed to placements and although these may be disregarded as “holidays” or “breaks” we need to be clear it was the foster carer who was having the break. During their long placement [with the Bs between 2002 and 2008], A and S were placed with respite carers 24 times comprising of 13 different foster placements over the course of 5 years 8 months. The constructive view is that such placements offered A and S the weekend away or a break, but, in my opinion, the accumulative impact of so many moves was to fragment further their lack of feeling they belonged to anyone, compounding their insecurity and lack of well being. As a result of the years of such bewildering changes of care, often required so as to maintain exhausted care placements, it becomes evident how the damaging outbursts of violent anger and frustration displayed by S and at other times A with the SG’s had come about through the never knowingly intended consequences of corporate care on their emotions and behaviour.”
“…the work of IROs and their impact needs to be more clearly seen and understood.”
‘to keep the section 31A plan for the child under review and, if they are of the opinion that some change is required, to revise the plan, or make a new plan, accordingly.’
“… a caseload of 50-70 looked after children for a full time equivalent IRO, would represent good practice in the delivery of a quality service, including the full range of functions set out in this handbook. This range should reflect the diversity and complexity of the cases across different local authorities.”
“Each local authority should have a system in place that provides its IRO with access to independent legal advice. The reason for this is that the IRO works within a complex legal framework, with a number of other professionals and adults who have access to their own legal advice. The IRO may feel isolated and vulnerable in this position. It is essential that the IRO too can access independent legal advice, in addition to seeking advice and support from the IRO manager. In the past some local authorities have been of the view that CAFCASS duty lawyers provide this service. However, CAFCASS duty lawyers can only provide guidance, not legal advice. Other local authorities have considered it sufficient for an IRO to seek advice from its own legal department. This is clearly not independent.”