“Please, I do not wish to kill someone at my house or anywhere or go to prison. This is what the parties are looking for. The High Court must save me!”
“The evidence is that she appears happy and settled at [the Unit]. Equally she appears happy to go to her parents’ home and appears settled and at home there…. Given that both settings offer appropriate level of support for [A] (if [the parents] are provided with the appropriate level of support when she is at the parental home) I would recommend that [A] be given the opportunity to settle into a routine of sharing her time between the parental home and Park Lodge. [A] could, for example, reside at Park Lodge from Monday to Friday, and attend her day programme. She could be taken to her parents’ on Friday evening and leave her parents on Monday morning for college, returning to Park Lodge in the evening. I am aware that this model has been tried before; nevertheless I think that it is important for [A] to be given the opportunity to live in both places to see if that shared care model works. If this is put in place, then [the parents] would need support with [A] during the weekend. [The parents] have said they would welcome a carer and that they could stay with [A] at the house. Perhaps this could be part of the care package. It would provide the practical support for the parents over the weekend, and there would be a carer there to help [A] for her return to college on the Monday [para 12.17] …. At the present time [the parents] expressed the view that they would be willing to work with the Social Worker who could be seen as being independent. They say they have lost “trust” in the local social services. [The parents] said that person should be “English” and that they would not need to be of Ugandan ethnic origin. They feel that perhaps they could learn more about British parenting practices and Social Services’ needs from someone who is completely familiar with the British system. As long the individual was also cognisant of the cultural necessities and needs of the …. family and was acting in the best interests of [A], [the parents would be ready to work with them to support [A]. [12.19]”
“The information relevant to a decision includes information about the reasonably foreseeable consequences of – (a) deciding one way or another, or (b) failing to make the decision” making the decision, or language or any other means).”
“.. commonsense surely indicates that the longer the family have looked after their mentally incapacitated relative without the State having perceived the need for its intervention, the more carefully must any proposals for intervention be scrutinised and the more cautious the court should be before accepting too readily the assertion that the State could do better than the family. Other things being equal, the parent, if he is willing and able, is the most appropriate person to look after a mentally incapacitated adult; not some public authority, however well meaning and well equipped to do so.”
“…. This commonsense approach is in no way inconsistent with proper adherence to the unqualified principle that the welfare of the incapacitated person is, from beginning to end, the paramount consideration.”