“How matters occurred were precisely what one would expect in the development from the outset of a normal, hopefully successful, long-lasting intimate and budding relationship.”
“22 The point is, it is not a function of the law to intervene and to enter into those types of relationships unless there is the clearest of evidence to contradict that which would otherwise be the case.… the whole nature of intimate cohabiting relationships, whether they be married or unmarried or otherwise, is that they are, essentially, self-regulated depending upon and in the context of mutual trust and affection. 23 . …If either party were to think that at the drop of a hat, the other could sue, in my judgment, it would make the development of such relationships almost impossible…. 24. …In my judgment, it is something which requires clear evidence to rebut the usual presumption. Based upon the evidence I have heard and seen, both oral and written, in my judgment, it is quite clear that not only does the presumption apply, but there is no evidence and no sufficient evidence before me to rebut that presumption in relation to the expenditure and the so-called rental agreement.”
“34. In my judgment, this is a common or garden case of parties going on holidays together with the expectation and discussion from time to time that the other would bear his or her share, and that was reinforced by the copious spreadsheets. The claimant being somebody who, as she was perfectly entitled to do, kept a very accurate record of her expenditure. However, again, as I have already said, that of itself does not cause me to alter my conclusion that there was any intention to create legal relations between the parties. … 39. I would go so far as to say that in the nature of this relationship, it would be striking and somewhat absurd for it to be suggested that during the currency, either party would be able to sue the other. Indeed, had that been the case, it would have absolutely destroyed the relationship because it would have gone to the very heart of the trust between the parties which, as Salmon LJ said, in Jones v Padavatton, was inimical to family ties, mutual trust and affection.”
“17. The essential question, therefore, for me to determine is whether or not there was an intention to create legal relations. There was no dispute as to the relevant law; the key authority to which I was referred being Jones v Padavatton[1969] 1 WLR 328 where at page 332, Danckwerts LJ said: “There is no doubt that this case is a most difficult one, but I have reached a conclusion that the present case is one of those family arrangements which depend on the good faith of the promises which are made and are not intended to be rigid, binding agreements. Balfour v Balfour was a case of husband and wife, but there is no doubt that the same principles apply to dealings between other relations, such as father, son, daughter, and mother” 18. There was no suggestion before me that the same principles do not apply between an unmarried, cohabiting couple.” “There is no doubt that this case is a most difficult one, but I have reached a conclusion that the present case is one of those family arrangements which depend on the good faith of the promises which are made and are not intended to be rigid, binding agreements. Balfour v Balfour was a case of husband and wife, but there is no doubt that the same principles apply to dealings between other relations, such as father, son, daughter, and mother”
“In effect there is no special rule or presumption for agreements between cohabitees.”
“But it would not appear that the presumption is applicable here.”
“That case illustrates the well-known doctrine that in their ordinary day-to-day life spouses do not intend to contract in a legally binding sense with one another …”
“Those being the facts we have to say whether there is a legal contract between the parties, in other words, whether what took place between them was in the domain of a contract or whether it was merely a domestic arrangement such as may be made every day between a husband and wife who are living together in friendly intercourse.”
“Nevertheless they are not contracts, and they are not contracts because the parties did not intend that they should be attended by legal consequences. To my mind it would be of the worst possible example to hold that agreements such as this resulted in legal obligations which could be enforced in the Courts. It would mean this, that when the husband makes his wife a promise to give her an allowance of 30s. or 2l. a week, whatever he can afford to give her, for the maintenance of the household and children, and she promises so to apply it, not only could she sue him for his failure in any week to supply the allowance, but he could sue her for non-performance of the obligation, express or implied, which she had undertaken upon her part. All I can say is that the small Courts of this country would have to be multiplied one hundredfold if these arrangements were held to result in legal obligations. They are not sued upon, not because the parties are reluctant to enforce their legal rights when the agreement is broken, but because the parties, in the inception of the arrangement, never intended that they should be sued upon. Agreements such as these are outside the realm of contracts altogether. The common law does not regulate the form of agreements between spouses. Their promises are not sealed with seals and sealing wax. The consideration that really obtains for them is that natural love and affection which counts for so little in these cold Courts. The terms may be repudiated, varied or renewed as performance proceeds or as disagreements develop, and the principles of the common law as to exoneration and discharge and accord and satisfaction are such as find no place in the domestic code.”
“Did the parties intend the arrangement to be legally binding? This question has to be solved by applying what is sometimes (although perhaps unfortunately) called an objective test. The court has to consider what the parties said and wrote in the light of all the surrounding circumstances, and then decide whether the true inference is that the ordinary man and women, speaking or writing thus in such circumstances, would have intended to create a legally binding agreement. Mr. Sparrow has said, quite rightly, that as a rule when arrangements are made between close relations, for example, between husband and wife, parent and child or uncle and nephew in relation to an allowance, there is a presumption against an intention of creating any legal relationship. This is not a presumption of law, but of fact. It derives from experience of life and human nature which shows that in such circumstances men and women usually do not intend to create legal rights and obligations, but intend to rely solely on family ties of mutual trust and affection. This has all been explained by Atkin LJ. in his celebrated judgment in Balfour. Did the parties intend the arrangement to be legally binding? This question has to be solved by applying what is sometimes (although perhaps unfortunately) called an objective test. The court has to consider what the parties said and wrote in the light of all the surrounding circumstances, and then decide whether the true inference is that the ordinary man and women, speaking or writing thus in such circumstances, would have intended to create a legally binding agreement….”
“The first question in this most unhappy case is whether the arrangement made between mother and daughter in August 1962 was intended to create a legally enforceable contract between them, or was merely one of those family or domestic arrangements where the parties at the time had no thought or intention of invoking the assistance of the courts should the arrangement not be honoured.”
“Balfour v Balfour was a case of husband and wife, but there is no doubt that the same principles apply to dealings between other relations, such as father and son and daughter and mother.”
“Based upon the evidence I have heard and seen, both oral and written, in my judgment, it is quite clear that not only does the presumption apply, but there is no evidence and no sufficient evidence before me to rebut that presumption in relation to the expenditure and the so-called rental agreement.”
“21. … [The principles in Balfour] can apply equally and nobody has suggested otherwise before me, to parties who are in a budding relationship, in an established relationship, or in a relationship which is intended and hoped to be long-term and fruitful. 22 …Putting that into a slightly broader public policy context, to underline the approach of the court to an intention to create legal relationships, the whole nature of intimate cohabiting relationships, whether they be married or unmarried or otherwise, is that they are, essentially, self-regulated depending upon and in the context of mutual trust and affection. ”
“ … it is quite plain that, essentially, there was no material difference between the claimant and the defendant that until the relationship came to an end, it was a happy relationship in which both hoped would end up in marriage and possibly children. There was hope that it would be long-term and would endure.”
“34 … In my judgment, this is a common or garden case of parties going on holidays together with the expectation and discussion from time to time that the other would bear his or her share, and that was reinforced by the copious spreadsheets. “39. I would go so far as to say that in the nature of this relationship, it would be striking and somewhat absurd for it to be suggested that during the currency, either party would be able to sue the other. Indeed, had that been the case, it would have absolutely destroyed the relationship because it would have gone to the very heart of the trust between the parties which, as Salmon LJ said, in Jones v Padavatton, was inimical to family ties, mutual trust and affection.”
“15. The question for me to determine, therefore, is whether or not there was an intention to create legal relations, such that at the outset and during the currency of and at each stage at which the parties went on holiday and jointly expended money, all broadly evidenced by spreadsheets from the claimant to the defendant, whether or not at each and every one of those stages either party could issue proceedings and sue the other for what at that point in time was outstanding. 16. The specificity of that question is important. What is necessary, as will become apparent very shortly, is that it is necessary to consider whether or not objectively it can be said that it was intended, during the early days or at any stage during this relationship, that one party could sue the other. The minute that question is posed, it, of course, goes to the very heart of loving, human relationships and asks whether or not that is grounded in reality objectively or not. Is it right that, in those circumstances, both parties could expect to resort to litigation to sue the other at any stage to get what they claim is theirs and had been agreed?”
“There may, however, be circumstances in which this presumption, like all other presumptions of fact, can be rebutted…”
“In my judgment, it is something which requires clear evidence to rebut the usual presumption.”
“Further or alternatively, the Judge failed to give adequate reasons for his judgment in respect of the Expenses Claim and the Rent Claim, having merged his reasoning for both claims in judgment in a manner which did not address the specificities underlying each claim.”
“Based upon the evidence I have heard and seen, both oral and written, in my judgment, it is quite clear that not only does the presumption apply, but there is no evidence and no sufficient evidence before me to rebut that presumption in relation to the expenditure and the so-called rental agreement.”
“27. … There came a time after several vacations when the inequality of expenditure mounted to such an extent that it was very unequal with the claimant bearing the brunt of the expenditure. 28. However, that did not stop the claimant continuing to fund overseas trips, albeit she prepared spreadsheets at the end of each of those trips. At any time, she, as could the defendant, have self-regulated by saying, “No money; no trips”, putting it rather crudely. In other words, “If you do not pay the outstanding; if you do not pay for the next trip; I will not fund it”
“34. In my judgment, this is a common or garden case of parties going on holidays together with the expectation and discussion from time to time that the other would bear his or her share, and that was reinforced by the copious spreadsheets. The claimant being somebody who, as she was perfectly entitled to do, kept a very accurate record of her expenditure. However, again, as I have already said, that of itself does not cause me to alter my conclusion that there was any intention to create legal relations between the parties.”
“40. I, therefore, dismiss the claimant’s claim in relation to what has been described as the expenditure and rental elements of the claim.”