“in such a way that their total benefits under this will shall be equalised as nearly as possible bearing in mind that (without such possible inheritance from my father) my half share of the farm forms the greater part of my estate”
“in such a way that their total benefit under my said will shall be as equal as nearly as possible bearing in mind that (without such possible inheritance from my father) my half share of the farm partnership forms the greater part of my estate”
“Mr John Bowerman suffered a stroke in 1994 which caused him to be under considerable disability. He could not say any words other than “yes” and “no” and very short words such as “aha”
“Get John to start reading large print a line at a time OUT LOUD”
“There (sic) situation has changed considerably because they sold the farm to Ben in March this year. The price was only£1 but Ben says it was a true figure because he had to take on a£100,000 worth of debts. Apparently there was a proper valuation of stock etc at the time Darrell in the Wareham office dealt with it Apparently his parents still have 2% of the farm Assets Apart from the small interest in the farm which really is worth nothing his mother inherited£120,000 recently There are some other assets but not of great value. His father has an insurance policy worth about£100,000 Insurance policy It was originally planned that the insurance policy should be divided between David and Alastair because the farm was being given to Ben. Obviously everything has changed now. He volunteers to come to a meeting to be able to give information about the assets. I said it would be preferable if he completed a Will Information form to help his parents and them to give it to me. I would them make arrangements to go and see them myself without him being present Obviously it is important that I obtain direct instructions from them. I said I would give the Will Information form to Catherine to take home to him.”
“worsening heart failure”
“Breathing worse, cyanosed, marked Cheyne-Stokes abnormal breathing caused by heart failure ”
“Ben phoned me. He said he would drop in copy wills today + Will Information Form. He said that the whole situation is too complicated for his father and mother to change their wills in any detail but they would like to change the executor from the previous solicitor. I said that I agreed that if his father was seriously ill it was unfair to spend hours with him discussing a new will. He asked me to propose codicil to change the executor only.”
“I said I had been asked to prepare a codicil to remove the solicitor executor. They confirmed that it what they wanted. I gave the codicils to them and they both signed. I then talked to them about the present Wills generally. I said they perhaps did not reflect the present position. They agreed their main priority was to look after each other and after disposing of the farm to Ben (which they said was more of a liability than an asset), they want to treat each of their sons equally. I offered to prepare draft wills for them to consider. I suggested they show them to the family.”
“I give to my son Ian Benjamin Bowerman my share in the farm stock and equipment together with any share of mine in at the date of my death in the partnership in Godlingston Manor Farm, Swanage.”
“Your Wills When I saw you on Tuesday I suggested that it would be a good idea to modernise your Wills. I do not think that your present Wills take account of your situation now. As agreed with you, I have therefore drafted new Wills for you to consider and I enclose a copy of each of these. I would like to mention a number of points – 1. I have made the draft Wills on the assumption that your total assets from all sources come to about£234,000 This is on the basis of information given to me by Ben. This means, therefore, that there is no need to consider Inheritance Tax as this will be minimal. 2. You told me when we met that your main concern in the Wills is to look after each other and then for your three sons to be treated equally. 3. You told me about the gift to Ben of the farming business last year. In case this was not fully effective, I have included a clause in your draft Wills to make sure that Ben has the benefit of the farming business as you wanted. You told me that in fact, because of the liabilities and problems of farming you did not really consider the gift of the farming business actually being of any value I understand that the accountant is also of that opinion. … As I explained, I am concerned that I do not know much of the background of the family and the business I think, therefore, that it would be a very good idea if you showed the draft Wills to your three sons. We can then be sure that everyone is happy with what you are proposing to do. When you have had the chance to do this, can you please let me know and I will come again to see you to finalise the various clauses.”
“I went through the provisions of the will and explained that the wills for John and Jean mirrored each other in that the interests in the business are left to Ben and the residue of the estate went direct to the surviving spouse. I said that should the surviving spouse die within thirty days then the estate would be split equally between Alastair, Ben and David. Any interests in the farm would go to Ben. They agreed that this would not be favouritism to him - as Ben has incurred a great deal of debts and liabilities from the farm. It is thought that John and Jean have only retained 1% each of the farm business following a gift of the business from John and Jean to Ben last year. … David asked whether Alastair ought to be an executor as well I said that he could be if that is what John and Jean wanted. Jean said that she did not think that Alastair wanted to be an executor. Ben suggested that we telephone and double check with Alastair and ask him whether he would wish to be an executor. Ben telephoned Alastair. Alastair said that he did not wish to be an executor in either of John or Jean’s wills. Ben read the suggested will over to Alastair over the telephone and offered to fax a copy of the draft to him (on the provision that it was a confidential fax). Ben, David and Jean then spoke to Alastair on the telephone. I understand that Alastair was concerned about the draft wills and asked that the existing and draft wills be faxed to his solicitor Pauline Twist in Canford Cliffs. Jean agreed Ben then faxed copies of the existing wills and Derek was telephoned later and asked to fax the draft wills over.”
“I went through the draft will and explained what the provisions are. I asked John whether the will reflected his wishes and whether he was happy with it and he said that he was I asked him if he had any questions and he said no. Obviously John has had a severe stroke. I was careful to ensure that he was mentally capable of making a will. I said to John that I understand that he had not had much sleep last night. He said that was correct. I asked him how he was getting on with his jigsaw puzzle. He showed me that he had progressed from last Tuesday. I am convinced that John understood what was in the will and that the will was carrying out his wishes. He was concerned that Jean is looked after when he dies. I arranged the execution of the will (using the draft that I had taken and discussed with him.”
“my understanding was that the gift had been made about a year ago in any case. I had recommended to J and J that this gift was still included in the will for 2 reasons: I . In case my instructions were not correct and the gift had not been made 2 That I understood that John and Jean each retained a 1% share in the farm business”
“I gave the Will to Mr Bowerman and he read through it. I then went through it carefully. He confirmed that it was exactly what he wanted. He told me that he was only appointing David and Ben because Alastair did not want to be an executor. He confirmed that he had given the farming business to Ben already but that he had retained a small interest in it – 1% he thought. He said he thought that the gift to Ben was not worth anything in any case. He then signed the Will and Louise and I witnessed it. … I then talked to Jean about her Will. She is considering the draft Will but is not ready to give me instructions. She will phone me when she is ready. She told me that the ambulance was taking John to Swanage Hospital at 4pm (John signed his Will at 3.30).”
“I am very grateful to you for your message yesterday which Jackie gave me confirming that you did not think that there was any problem with John Bowerman understanding and signing his Will. This meant that I was able to go and see him immediately and he has now in fact signed his Will. I would very much appreciate it if you could send me a letter confirming that, having visited John Bowerman at lunch-time on the 22nd April, you are convinced that he was capable of making and signing his Will.”
“I hereby testify that Mr. John Colin Bowerman has full testamentary capacity and is capable of understanding the implications of making and signing a Will. I believe his speech incapacities are limited to verbal disability only and that he has no problems with comprehension.”
“On Friday, I was urgently telephoned by your brother, Ben, with reference to new Wills that were being executed by your parents. I was asked to look at the old Wills and the new Wills that had been prepared by Mr Derek Mount of Humphries Kirk and these were faxed to my office and I studied them on your behalf. The situation as outlined to me by your brother was that you wanted me to ensure that your position was not in any way prejudiced. … I enclose photocopies of all of the documents and you will wish to know how much your parents are worth - this was expressed to me by Derek Mount as being in the region of£234,000 without reference to any business interests. No doubt you will contact me about this if you have any specific enquiries.”
“Not to contact directly or indirectly Ian Benjamin BOWERMAN, Catherine BOWERMAN, Isabel BOWERMAN and George BOWERMAN in any manner directly, indirectly, or indirectly save through solicitors - save by indirect communication with Ian Benjamin BOWERMAN alone through Messrs Steele Raymond, Solicitors, by email or post, solely in respect of matters concerning the probate of Jean Mary Bowerman and John Colin Bowerman.”
“It is essential to the exercise of such a power that a testator [a] shall understand the nature of the act and its effects; [b] shall understand the extent of the property of which he is disposing; [c] shall be able to comprehend and appreciate the claims to which he ought to give effect; and with a view to the latter object, [d] that no disorder of the mind shall poison his affections, pervert his sense of right, or prevent the exercise of his natural faculties – that no insane delusion shall influence his will in disposing of his property and bring about a disposal of it which, if the mind had been sound, would not have been made.”
“Knowing and approving of the contents of one's will is traditional language for saying that the will “represented [one's] testamentary intentions” see per Chadwick LJ in Fuller v Strum[2002] 1 WLR 1097 , para 59. …”
“(2) Explicable delay, even when coupled with taking a legacy under a will proved in common form, is not generally enough to bar a claimant from taking probate proceedings: Bell v Armstrong 1 Add 365; Merryweather v Turner 3 Curt 802. (3) But unjustified delay, possibly on its own (see dicta in Merryweather v Turner at pp 813 and 814, and also now Wahab v Khan[2011] EWHC 908 (Ch) ) , and certainly when coupled with acts amounting to waiver of the claimant's right, will bar the claim: Hoffman v Norris 2 Phil 230n ; Braham v Burchell 3 Add 243. (4) Similarly where the delay has led to others’ detrimental reliance on the inaction, such as distribution of the estate: Williams v Evans[1911] P 175 . Whether the propositions at (3) and (4) should be referred to as a probate version of the doctrine of laches, or by some other name, does not much matter.”
“Tie up loose ends! Pay bills and see to DAMART correspondence. Don’t get embroiled in fruitless arguments trust Gillian’s little book!! Be responsible and take control of the situation, if you do what God asks of you, there’ll be no feeling of domination by the rest of the family.” and on6 September 2002 : “So angry with Ben for his utter rudeness to Sally Ann K and me this morning. He must be under considerable pressure to rant on like that. How to deal with it?? I’ve handed him over, but Sally was obviously very hurt and I hope Ben apologises to her tomorrow – in fact I shall insist that he does.”
“29 May 2004 Sad aggro (again) with Ben over hoist for bathroom. I seem toe be like red rag to a bull to him” “Sunday20 June 2004 To my astonishment and distress when handed the phone to Ben he threw it back at me and stormed out obviously upset that I’d (again apparently) forgotten what he and Ian had arranged. What concerns me is the fact that he is under great stress and I seem to cause a lot of it unwittingly.” “March 10th Thursday [2005] Can’t believe that Ben could be so hurtful over me asking Derek Mount to come as I want to put A.J.B. as an executor. His mood swings are very worrying, and make me feel reduced to something that’s crawled from under a stone.” “May 12th Saturday [2005] I never thought I’d be the sort of mother who’d feel slighted by her son, I obviously have been very stupid and disorganised not to have understood that EVERYTHING to do with the farm is now under Ben’s jurisdiction and control” “Monday 15th August 05 Morning Pages … This dread of confrontation with B is always there (is it???). Didn’t realise but it is … the financial help is a 2 edged sword which I’ve been relying on, but resenting – B feels honestly he’s helping me and God knows he got me out of a helluva mess – I’ve been so irresponsible over money matters in the past – Because of a big IF ONLY regards the past (tears coming up??) In hindsight I see that John and Daddy spoilt me, they probably didn’t realise it, but because I’m such a nincompoop with figures and money they took me over and carried me financially.”