“My dearest Liz Time suddenly feels so short and I just want to say thank you for your kindness to me when I really don't deserve it. You are a wonderful wife and partner in life. I don't deserve your kindness. You deserve better than the way I have been in recent times. I'm very proud that you are handling the current situation better than I am. You have been the best wife any man could wish for. You are loving and kind, always putting the needs of others before yourself. You have been a "one in a million" wife to me. I have been so lucky to have you beside me. I have come up short far too often in recent years!! I just want you to know that I will do all I can to support you going forward and I hope we can get this house sorted out for you. I'm so sorry that the last year has been so awful. Whatever happens going forward from today, I just want you to know that I have always loved you with all my heart. There has only ever been you in my heart!! Thank you for everything you have done for me. Thank you for being a wonderful mother to Claire and Alistair. Thank you for being my best friend and the one who has tried to always make our home the best it can be. I hope the next few weeks can be as good as possible. Thank you for just being there during the last year, and holding everything together. The best of luck in your new home — best wishes for the future. Love Chris Xx”
“I want to do what I want without worrying. My top priority is finding a house.”
“Q. Yes or no? A. I don’t know. Probably not Q. So you don’t know what the£420,000 is to be spent on? A. I don’t know. Perhaps I might need surgery. I have always had a cushion in case of emergencies.”
“Q. Your husband was under the impression that you wanted to gift it? A. No. This is between Claire and my husband. “Brainwashed [me] into hating him”? Rubbish. Q. He said it was a gift. Was that wrong? A. No, I never said that. No, no, no. It was between my husband and me. We wouldn’t tell anyone else. In October we told Claire – she was so angry. This is totally wrong. I said to my husband “You do know it’s wrong.”
“I may change my mind again even if I told you now.”
“Q. If there is capital to leave, so be it? A. So be it. Q. If it is all gone, so be it? A. So be it.”
“My father wished her to have income, so she will be paid the income.”
“I take my duties very seriously; I know my father wanted for my mother to be paid income.”
“I asked her whether we could have a relationship and she said “I don’t know whether I want a relationship with you”.”
“.. having regard to the fact that this lady is the widow of a more than ordinarily wealthy man, reasonable provision would in my judgment require that she should have access to a sufficient sum to ensure beyond any reasonable doubt that she is relieved of any anxiety for the future.”
“This is now recognised widely, if not universally. The parties commit themselves to sharing their lives. They live and work together. When their partnership ends each is entitled to an equal share of the assets of the partnership, unless there is a good reason to the contrary. Fairness requires no less. But I emphasise the qualifying phrase: “unless there is good reason to the contrary”
“Because of the husband’s advanced age and the length of the marriage, a conventional Duxbury calculation did not help the court to compute the size of the fund which the husband would need to provide him with an appropriate income. Where an aged spouse had made full contributions to a lengthy marriage it was unjust to calculate a sum based on actuarial life expectancy. Each individual had an appreciable chance of doing better than the life tables upon which Duxbury calculations were based, and where individuals had already reached an advanced age, reliance on the tables could, if the individual lived longer than the average, have disastrous results. An aged spouse, like this husband, was at relatively proximate risk that he would survive the demise of the fund, rather than vice versa, and each year of survival increased the statistical chance that he would survive the previous year’s prediction of life expectancy. The husband had the right to recognition in money terms for his significant contribution to this lengthy marriage, and a result based upon the Duxbury technique, however flexibly it was applied, would not meet the justice of the case.”
‘This computation overlooks the important fact that the capital is at the wife’s disposal and available to her to invest or spend as she thinks fit.’
‘It does not … assist at all, in arriving at a proper lump sum to order, to have regard to the income which a given sum would produce on the basis that the capital consisting of such sum remains intact.’
‘… because he attached importance to the net income which the lump sum sensibly invested would produce for the wife on the basis that the lump sum itself was not touched but remained intact throughout, a consideration which … was not a proper or even a relevant consideration for him to take into account.’
"In summary, it is not wise to assume that because the Duxbury Committee are of the opinion that in the context of their calculations 3.75% gross is achievable over the long term with a cautious investment strategy that the parties will agree that that rate is applicable to capital funds that are not to be amortised on the facts of a particular case. However, if they do agree or if the judge decides that assumption is valid on the facts of a case, I cannot for my part see how objection can be taken. If they do not, then the rate chosen by the court should be reasoned."
“Q. Yes or no? A. I don’t know. Probably not. Q. So you don’t know what the£420,000 is to be spent on? A. I don’t know. Perhaps I might need surgery. I have always had a cushion in case of emergencies.”
“Q. If there is capital to leave, so be it? A. So be it. Q. If it is all gone, so be it? A. So be it.”