“84. I have come to the conclusion that both parts of the test are fulfilled and the only remaining issue is whether that state of affairs had existed for at least 2 years prior to the death given that their cohabitation at 42 Solway began a week or so too late. On my findings the relationship had begun before the couple moved in to 42 Solway Close and had been in existence for at least a year during which the couple were together whenever they could consistent with other problems in their lives connected with accommodation and the needs or perceived needs of Harry’s family. 85. It is common ground that once a qualifying relationship is established the occasional separation of the length arising in this case does not matter. 86. Accordingly I find for the Claimant on the preliminary issue. ”
“I find as a fact that [the Deceased] moved into 42 Solway at the last two weeks of June 2007… I also find as a fact that the Claimant moved in with him.”
“13. In summary so far, the judge accepted the Claimant’s case insofar as he found that she and Harry lived together at 42 and 26 Solway Close from the last 2 weeks of June 2007 until Harry’s death, and insofar as he found that for the first 2 weeks of June 2007 she and Harry stayed at Gagan’s. But he rejected her case insofar as he held that between September 2006 and the move to Gagan’s she did not live at 33 Sandown Close. 14. Subject to what he said at paragraph 70 of his judgment… the judge made no finding as to whether the Claimant and Harry lived together at all prior to the temporary move to Gagan’s in June 2007: as I have already mentioned, at paragraphs 39, 42 and 45 of his judgment the judge expressly left that question unanswered. 15. Then at paragraph 70 of his judgment the judge said this: “I find that after their engagement Harry and the Claimant took every opportunity available to them to be together. Initially this would have been at 57 Barnes Avenue, then at 33 Sandown, from September 06 again at Barnes Avenue, then in June 07 at Gagan’s, from end June 07 at 42 Sandown, from April 09 at 26 Sandown. Unlike many couples only able to associate in the evenings this couple were able to associate at the cafe where they could take meals together and spent most of each day.””
“8. This case has two special features, it seems to me, that must be borne in mind when considering the relationship between the Claimant and [the Deceased]. The first is that there was a cafe where they both worked and spent a great deal of their time together. The second is that this relationship began in the aftermath of what may possibly be unique, emotional turmoil within [the Deceased’s] family arising from the suicide of his wife and the Defendants’ mother and the decision of the CPS to prosecute him for her manslaughter, a case which only came to an end when the CPS appealed from dismissal of their case at I think the Old Bailey was finally dismissed by the Court of Appeal on16 May 2006 . To my mind a failure to prove exactly where they were living or cohabiting does not prohibit a finding that the relationship continued in full measure. When I say the relationship, I mean it in the special way that I used in my first judgment, which is I think clear from paragraph 85 that I am talking about a qualifying relationship, which is one which meets the statutory requirements of the Act and thus encompasses being part of the same household, which is different from living under the same roof. …. 18. One must look at the reasons why they separated at the end of September 2006. This is not because of any cooling off or fracture in the relationship between them. It seems to me, on the evidence I have heard, that it was entirely to do with the need for Harry to look to his situation with his two sons and the wider family and that is why he went to India in January 2007 with the younger son. It was not because there was a suspension in the relationship at all. Analogies are never particularly helpful but I see it as no different in principle from a man who is posted overseas, or whatever it may be, for some considerable time; so for a good reason connected with work they cannot be under the same roof; for a good reason connected with his previous family [the Deceased] could not be under the same roof as the Claimant. Do not forget, of course, that they were able to be together at the cafe and, as I did find, two weeks with Gagan early in June. 19. As far as the situation following the [Appeal Judgment] about Gagan is concerned… the claimant is not putting the case before me at any rate on the basis that the relations started with the stay at Gagan’s. He is putting the case, as she did in her witness statement and as he did in his opening, as starting in July 2006 and never being interrupted. So I hope that I am not failing to follow a direction of the appeal judge in saying that I do find that they were together, enjoying their formerly developed relationship whilst staying at her house. 20. At this point, for the sake of clarity, it would be as well if I make it clear that I do not accept the evidence that the defendants’ father [the Deceased] lived with his sons at Crossland Road or at 10 Cottenham Close or elsewhere in the period of October to June 2007. We are left, as I am over the 57 Barnes Avenue position, with possibilities. It is possible he spent some time there; it is possible he spent some time at 57 Barnes Avenue. I just do not know and I am not able to make a finding about where [the Deceased] was on a permanent basis in the period we are considering. But I stand by what I say in paragraph 84. If opportunities presented themselves this couple were together continuing their cohabitation, if that is the right word, as if they were husband and wife. 21. So the question remains, it seems to me, as to whether applying the test suggested by Ward LJ and the other cases that I was referred to previously, it can be said that, at 8 June [2007] and between then and when they moved in in early July to 42 Solway, they were living together as husband and wife in the same household. Prior to this gap that we have been looking at [the Deceased] had proposed marriage, as I found. The Claimant had accepted him, as I found. She had been given a ring, as I found. They had commenced a sexual relationship, which she would not have done if those things had not happened. Their parents and other relatives were told on both sides of the family. They were living together from July 2006. they separated, not through any falling out or cooling off but as a consequence, as I find, of Harry needing to rebuild his sons’ and wider family’s confidence in him, deal with their feelings, all arising in consequence of his former wife’s death and the criminal process, as part of that healing process. In this time, as I have said, he went to India in January 2007. …. 24. …. I have not thought that they were living together at Barnes Avenue. I did not know where they were living and that is my position still. I cannot make a finding that [the Deceased] was living permanently with her at 57 Barnes Avenue but I remain [sic] that there were occasions, of which Gagan is one, when they were able to live together somewhere. ”
“that the proper test is to look at the moment of death to see if at that very moment the claimant was living with the deceased or being maintained by him. This, in my judgment, states the law too narrowly and gives to the words “immediately” a literal construction in a way disavowed by the authorities. … the judge did direct his attention to the moment of death in order to ask whether at that time the arrangements or the state of affairs was settled. In order to do so it was necessary to look at the preceding period in order to see the whole picture. Whether an arrangement is settled or relationship is enduring at any particular point in time cannot be judged without regard to history. …”
“20. Section (1A) requires that during the whole of the two-year period, two elements be present. First, that the claimant was living in the same household as the deceased and, secondly, that she lived in a relationship which can be categorised as living as the wife of the deceased. The concept of parties living together in the same household is a familiar one in other areas of statutory law. Under the old Larceny Act, for example, the prosecution had to prove in a receiving case that the husband and wife were not "living together", and the Court of Criminal Appeal held in Rex. v Creamer[1919] 1 KB 564 that: "A husband and wife are living together not only when they are residing together in the same house, but also when they are living in different places, even if they are separated by the high seas, provided the consortium has not been determined." 21. In Nugent-Head v Jacob[1948] AC 321 , a case under theIncome Tax Act 1918 , a wife was "living with her husband" who had been absent on military service for more than three years because there had been "no rupture of matrimonial relations", per Viscount Simon at page 324. 22. Perhaps a closer analogy with the present position is that under theDivorce Reform Act 1969 , re-enacted insection 1(6) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973 , as follows: " ... a husband and wife shall be treated as living apart unless they are living with each other in the same household, and references in this section to the parties to a marriage living with each other shall be construed as references to their living with each other in the same household." 23. That received this court's attention in Santos v Santos[1972] Fam 247 . Giving the judgment of the court, Sachs LJ observed first at page 262 and then at page 263: " ... use is again made of words with a well settled matrimonial meaning -- 'living together', a phrase which is simply the antithesis of living apart, and 'household', a word which essentially refers to people held together by a particular kind of tie, even if temporarily separated ... " ... 'living apart' ... is a state of affairs to establish which it is in the vast generality of cases arising under those heads necessary to prove something more than that the husband and wife were physically separated. For the purpose of that vast generality, it is sufficient to say that the relevant state of affairs does not exist while both parties recognise the marriage as subsisting. That involves considering attitudes of mind; and naturally the difficulty of judicially determining that attitude in a particular case may on occasions be great." Although the court was dealing with the converse situation, namely living apart, nevertheless I find that judgment helpful in the construction of the 1975 Act. 24. In my judgment, similar considerations must apply to the meaning to be given to the statute with which we are presently concerned. Thus the claimant may still have been living with the deceased in the same household as the deceased at the moment of his death even if they had been living separately at that moment in time. The relevant word is "household" not "house", and "household" bears the meaning given to it by Sachs LJ. Thus they will be in the same household if they are tied by their relationship. The tie of that relationship may be made manifest by various elements, not simply their living under the same roof, but the public and private acknowledgment of their mutual society, and the mutual protection and support that binds them together. In former days one would possibly say one should look at the whole consortium vitae. For present purposes it is sufficient to ask whether either has demonstrated a settled acceptance or recognition that the relationship is in truth at an end. If the circumstances show an irretrievable breakdown of the relationship, then they no longer live in the same household and the Act is not satisfied. If, however, the interruption is transitory, serving as a pause for reflection about the future of a relationship going through difficult times but still recognised to be subsisting, then they will be living in the same household and the claim will lie. Just as the arrangements for maintenance may fluctuate, using Stephenson LJ's expression cited above, so the steadfastness of a commitment to live together may wax and wane, but so long as it is not extinguished, it survives. These notions are succinctly encapsulated in the judge's test, which was to ask whether the relationship was merely suspended, and I see no error in his approach.”